Why you can’t do it alone

Over the past few years that I have been writing for Liz on this platform, I seldom make direct reference to the nonprofit I established. It seems a bit self-indulgent, even though many of the topics I write about in “Independent Ideas” come directly from struggles I face as an entrepreneur in the nonprofit space. The nonprofit world itself is evolving into a hybrid model, with social entrepreneurism (#socent), social capitalism (#socap) and triple bottom line models (#tbl or #3bl) all attempting to reinvent the way people invest in each other.

Because, really, that’s where real wealth is found: in each other. Each of us are resources: vast, untapped mines of creativity, talent, love and expression just waiting to be recognized and channeled.

But I would have NEVER, ever have reached this platform without the influence of a wonderful community at SOBCon, founded in part by Liz Strauss. I actually chose Chicago as my current city in part because of meeting the amazing community through that conference. SOBCon begat a vibrant community of impassioned, focused and brilliant people, all of whom care about the world around them.

They each have a different platform of business that reflects their perspective, but each has played a part in the success of Women With Drive Foundation.

Their input, support, expertise and leverage has helped us as an organization award cars to people like D, a woman who was homeless in May 2011. When we, as a nonprofit, invested in her, she transformed. One of the testimonials we received from one of her caseworkers read:

D. was in my office last week, and spoke about what a difference the car has made in her life. She was a different person than the shy, defeatist, underachiever I met a year ago. I knew getting a car would have a big impact on her ability to thrive financially, but I didn’t expect the difference I saw in her spirit. Way to go! “

Sometimes, we need to believe in other people before they believe in themselves.

This certainly was the case with me. I have become the person I am today, yes, because the raw material exists within me ~ sure. However, we oftentimes don’t recognize our own capacity or abilities without the loving mirrors provided by others. The heavy lifting remains the responsibility of the individual, but no one, not a single one of us, ever succeeds on his or her own power on his or her own.

Terry St. Marie and Liz Strauss created a means for people to gather in a safe space to become their best selves ~ to define for themselves what it is they wish to become and provide the environment to facilitate that happening through SOBCon.

SOBCon has evolved into a new phase, which will take place later this month at “A Gathering With Liz Strauss.” The number of attendees will be purposefully limited, but all will reinvent the next iteration of what collaboration in motion resembles.

It’s difficult to describe what will happen at this gathering of big brains and hearts, and not because the attendees are given a secret decoder ring and handshake upon registration. It is an inclusive gathering of people and professionals. That said, it’s difficult to quantify, because alchemy is always difficult to identify. I have no idea what magic will happen when I meet up with these folks, but I can promise you that my life (and the lives of the women we serve) will be forever changed as a result.

That’s some powerful stuff. I am a blessed person and I look forward to doing my part to continue building a movement that includes many more people. It would be great if you could join us.


Molly Cantrell-Kraig is a woman with drive. Possessing an innate sense of purpose and a pragmatic, solution-based approach to empowering people, she fused these two traits in order to establish Women With Drive Foundation. Based upon its founder’s personal history, Women With Drive Foundation is a means through which Cantrell-Kraig may effect change on both a micro and macro level. By providing women with something as essential as personal transportation in order to transition them from poverty to prosperity, she, through Women With Drive Foundation, seeks to empower women to help them help themselves. Through this action, the individual applicant benefits, as does society as a whole. Follow Molly on twitter as @mckra1g or @WWDr1ve (Women With Drive Foundation).


  1. says

    I’m chuckling because alchemy was always hard to define, much less identify. But all the way out here in sunny St. Maarten, I’m sniffing the excitement of the times around SOBcon, Liz, and the alchemists in the Chicago area, including you, Molly. Keep chuckin’. Thought leaders always come to the forefront and help us to evolve and construct new realities for ourselves during tough times. Through the annals of time, they’ve been the ones who helped us to reconnect with the human spirit, then sound the bugle call for other to join in. I call it the “continuation of the enlightenment project.” It’s powerful stuff. I’m hopping on board.

  2. says

    My dear Molly – you always inspire me! I feel so fortunate to have come to know you through the amazing SOBCon community. I can’t wait to see you (and many other awesome folks) at this new Gathering with Liz Strauss. It is going to be very special. Much amazing magic will indeed transpire. Lots more good is yet to come. Of that I am certain!

  3. says

    Reading this Molly I am reminded of everything that attracted me to SOBCon in the first place. It was weird for me over in Ireland – so far from the action in the room & the ongoing community life that was nurtured by you all.
    I wasn’t used to such energy. I wasn’t used to such warmth. Nor was I used to such simply generosity towards me – your hanger-on.
    Individuals with similar characteristics I’m met. But whole groups that were consistently friendly and appreciative towards me – that was another example of life-changing experience.
    You, collectively, had no idea what I would do as a result of such a welcoming spirit. I’d struggle to summarise it. I even had a phone call from Liz Strauss while I was driving a car thru traffic along the River Lee in Cork.
    Of such stuff are miracles made.
    The least I could do was make it to Chicago to express my gratitude. The least I could do was my best to ensure Liz Strauss & Terry’s work continues to flourish because special people with special values who paint special dreams in special imaginations are not to be missed – nor taken for granted.
    A great blogpost Molly – thank you very much.

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