Step by Step
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Beach Notes by Suzie Cheel and Des Walsh
Today’s beach notes has a new twist:
Idea and image by Suzie and the verse by Des Walsh

(c) Suzie Cheel
Yesterday as we were walking on the beach, earlier than usual I saw this perfect line of single footsteps and thought that would be great for beach notes. I sometimes get impatient taking one step at a time. As Des says ” You are not a kangaroo”!
Des then penned these words:
To go one step at a time
We try too often
To rush the process
We stumble
When will we learn?
Step by step works.
I know when I take one step and follow through things flow. I am learning:)
Does It Have To Be Perfect?
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Beach Notes by Guest Writer Suzie Cheel
On our beach walk on Saturday,
I asked Des this question.
Do you sometimes wonder why
you aren’t meeting the goals
you have set yourself and
may have even announced to the world?
Do you get satisfaction from ticking off your daily to do list or do you wonder what happened to the day? Maybe you have have even stopped making a to do list!
If you have fallen down on some of these things I know how you feel.
I looked at my life over the past week and asked “Hey what is going on here?”
I listened to that small inner voice, my intuition. I noticed how my tummy felt.
The answers came. I am great at getting clarity about where I am heading. Even better at setting big hairy goals.
What I haven’t been doing is following through on the tasks that need to done on the way to goals.
I also see my overachiever, Wonder Woman streak is coming out. Wonder Woman needs a holiday while I get on with business.
Putting that another way I have to accept the fact that not everything I do can be perfect the first or even the second time.
What’s wrong with edition 1, then a revised edition 2?
We could all learn from some of the big guns. Take Microsoft, they have made their fortune with getting people to buy version 1.0, then 1.1 while they iron out the bugs.
Do you ever experience the “it’s not perfect†roadblock? What do you do about it?
Social Networking: The Garden Analogy
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Guest Writer: Todd Jordan
Do you take your network seriously? How do you keep it and treat it? Is it cared for like a well maintained garden, or is it overrun with half grown connections and weeds? When’s the last time you bothered to nurture and prune it?
Sounds funny at first, but the truth is our social networks are an extension of ourselves. They speak volumes about us and our attitude towards ourselves and others. Like flowers, your contacts can wither and drop off. A once vital connection, bringing you many interesting tidbits or even work, can stop bearing fruit if you don’t pay attention to it.
If the overrun garden sounds like it might be your network, then it’s time to get to work on it. It won’t be pleasant at first, but the work soon pays off.
- drop everyone that’s not following you - this is the hardest but most productive of all the steps you can take. Yes, you love following that news anchor but when was the last time he chatted with you? Like removing the undergrowth.
- stop following anyone whose stuff you bypass or ignore - this one often feels awkward. Chances are these are folks we actually cared about at one time or another. This one also greatly improves your network. Like removing those trees that never bear fruit.
- eliminate the spammers - oh, you think you’ve removed all the weeds? What about Jack, that guy that sends out endless messages about his kids, but has never sent you a reply. Or Joan, the lady from work, who friended you, doesn’t reply, but manages to talk to a hundred other friends. This is the weeds of your garden. They too choke off what you really want in your network.
- move contacts and reduce redundancy - huh? this means don’t follow the same person on half a dozen networks where they post the same thing over and over. If you follow Bud on Twitter and FriendFeed, drop him on Twitter. It’s like having two busy gardens next to one another. You’ll only really tend to one. This last one reduces the clutter, freeing up the rest of your network to breathe and be usable again.
Yes, the analogy seems silly but these simple steps are no joke. If you can implement these in your networks, you’ll see things begin to change. With the dead weight gone, the rest of your contacts will begin to stand out. Good growth will begin again. You might even find some old friends you’d forgotten. But once things start blooming, don’t forget to keep the pruning sheers handy. A good garden requires consistent tending.
How’s your garden?
Does Your Blog Have It’s Own Personality?
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Beach Notes by Guest Writer Suzie Cheel
When I was walking on the beach last Friday, I asked Des if he thought blogs had their own personalities.
Because my blog was not happy. I had been for weeks talking about getting a theme that was less cantankerous, than the one I had been using. Blog heard this I think and went into total meltdown. I really must watch the words I use!
Des commented that he didn’t know why I had kept this theme for so long!
I can be stubborn and I was still searching for the perfect design. Well I am an artist and my NLP style is strongly visual so that was natural for me to focus on the look. I won’t be doing that again in the near future as this limits the amount of content that my blog receives. That doesn’t make blog too happy as the comments dwindle and subscriptions subside.
I then wondered what I had done to attract a very broken blog, just before Liz’s Blog Showcase too. The law of attraction was matching my not so positive vibes!
The personality of The Abundance Highway aka Law of Attraction in Action definitely is inspirational. I can see why it broke:( It wasn’t being fed it’s inspirational daily diet. Clearly what was needed was a theme was that was functional as well as looking good.
So does your blog have it’s own personality?
–Suzie Cheel, AbundanceHighway.com
Don’t, Not, and No
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Beach Notes by Guest Writer Suzie Cheel
This week’s Beach notes is a little different and will add to Liz’s 25 words group writing project. I wrote one yesterday that I was going to put here and then decided to put it over at The Abundance Highway
Don’t, Not and NoZap my energy
So when I catch
Myself saying
Don’t Not and No
I ask Myself
So what do I want?
Listen to your words today.
How often do you use these 3 small words?
–Suzie Cheel, AbundanceHighway.com

