Business Rule 5: Never Underestimate the Power of a Voice on the Telephone
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What I Learned from the Black Box
I was working for a company just outside of Boston. I was living just outside of Laguna Beach. The job was a great fit. At 13.5 hours door-to-door when the weather gods were on my side, the commute was not.
I was part of a team hell-bent on turning around a company in crisis. They had lost 10% for three years before I got there. About six months earlier, the staff had been cut from 200 people to 40. The culture was hurt. Everyone had ideas about what went wrong, but no one was sure about what to do right. The process models had fallen apart.
It’s so easy to talk about negatives in a situation like that.
Because of my circumstances, I attended two executive meetings each month via telephone — a black box on the table. I’d say hello to the group. They’d place the food of the day near the phone, and the meeting would start. They would forget I was there. I got to be the proverbial fly on the wall.
Three important things happened over that telephone.
- Attending the meetings via telephone raised my concentration level. It was almost like eavesdropping. I was less inclined to speak. It required crossing a barrier. I had to feel strongly to add my opinion. Instead, I listened more intently, just to imagine what was happening.
- When I did speak, I’m told, all eyes went to the forgotten box on the table–my voice got the complete attention of the room. I wasn’t freely spouting information. So when I spoke, they listened.
- Like me at the other end, they had to “work†to hear the message. They had to rely on interpretting data through only one of their senses and so, it was information they had earned.
It was the absence of the visual that made our words so powerful. We actually heard each other better and valued each other’s words more.
The difference was that we had to listen.
The common wisdom is that we lose more when we lose the visual. In this case we gained. Learning to listen wasn’t the only lesson that I learned that day.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Bloggers Fighting? Oh, If You Must . . . Do It Right
Filed Under Business Life, Great Finds, Motivation/Inspiration, Successful Blog, Tips | 23 Comments
I saw and article called How to fight with other bloggers, on Paul Boutin’s blog Sunday. It’s advice he offers to bloggers about arguing, “if you need fight, do it right.” Doing it right means following three rules.
Rule 1: Fight only with bloggers bigger than you.
Rule 2: Stick to the arguments you know
Rule 3: Don’t talk about the fight.
If I might add a few of my own,
Liz’s Rule 1: Make sure it’s worth fighting about.
Liz’s Rule 2: Keep personal talk out.
Liz’s Rule 3: Don’t kick a guy who’s down or a horse that’s already dead.
Liz’s Rule 4: Always leave the other guy a place to stand.
Liz’s Rule 5: Remember your future boss and your heirs will be reading whatever you write a long time after your feelings have cooled off.
If a cause is worth supporting, it gets more traction from positive interaction.
The blogosphere doesn’t need any of us to make it work.
SOB Business Cafe 11-17-06
Filed Under Basics, Business Life, Great Finds, Motivation/Inspiration, Successful Blog, Tech/Stats, Tips, Trends | 2 Comments
Welcome to the SOB Cafe
We offer the best in thinking–articles on the business of blogging written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the title shots to enjoy each selection.
The Specials this Week are
Steve Farber wrote the handbook on being extreme.
SuccessCREEations has something fresh to say about business blogging. Don’t let the title fool you . . .
Make It Great! has a question for you about Raj Setty’s book.
Howard Lindzon explains how brave and shameless work in the world of Web2.0
Innovation Zen starts the year end with the first list of cool stuff.
Related ala carte selections include
Blog Chalk Talk demonstrates how to get through an in-box like a surgeon.
The Zero Boss serves the tip of the day with attitude. Be sure to capture the URL for Ice Rocket, if you’ve never been there.
Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like.
No tips required. Comments appreciated.
Have a great weekend!
–ME “Liz” Strauss
If You Want Me to Care, Tell Me Who You Are
Filed Under Basics, Branding, Customer Think, Marketing, Successful Blog, Tips | 32 Comments
Identity, Credibility, Humanity
It happened twice last night. I was reading a new blog and got interested. I went to the About page and there was none. . . .
Most blogging templates come with an About page — a page ready for the blogger add a bio and background. Here at Successful-Blog the About Liz page is so often visited, the page itself has a Google Page Rank of 5!
Why is that?
It’s not because I am so particularly fascinating. It’s because people want to know who’s talking to them.
When I study my referral logs, I check the visitor paths. New readers come. They read a while, and then, go to the About page. It’s not unusual for visitors who read several posts,to return to the About page more than once in a visit. I see that happen daily.
A well-written About page offers asset value and provides a service to readers. It begins a relationship on three levels.
- Identity. An About page welcomes visitors who come to your blog by telling them something about you.
- Credibility. It lets your readers see your personal stake in the blog and how only you could write it.
- Humanity. The About page lets readers know there’s a person behind the blog. Without it, you’ve left an anonymous letter.
Write an About page that introduces you. It’s sets up your brand and starts our relationship. It makes that first connect between us as writer and reader. We’re all so busy and anonymous sources are unreliable at best.
I want to care about what you write. Please tell me who you are.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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SOB Business Cafe 10-13-06
Filed Under Business Life, Great Finds, Marketing, Productivity, Successful Blog, Survival Kit, Tips | 23 Comments
Welcome to the SOB Cafe
We offer the best in thinking–articles on the business of blogging written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the title shots to enjoy each selection.
The Specials this Week are
Lorelle at WordPress has Gary Larson remind us to take care of our children.
Another Blogger wonders whether the music industry’s loss is an omen for publishing.
Finding the Money shows a way to put your music to work for you legally.
Converstations provides a quick overview of a popular new Google offering and offers a link to a deeper review, if you want even more.
Working at Home on the Internet has tried (and maybe succeeded) at foiling the bad guys, but wouldn’t mind our tricks to add to his protection.
Related ala carte selections include
Life Coaches has a mind-changing secret that they are willing to share.
Zulit lets us in on how to reach our blogging goals by staging our how we handle them.
Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like.
No tips required. Comments appreciated.
Have a great weekend!
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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