March 9, 2010
What Makes a Great Working Relationship Actually Work?
ME Liz Strauss wrote this at 9:02 am
Who Does the Work? Who Benefits?

I’ve been a freelance writer, an online publisher, and a strategic consultant. I’ve handled a multi-state whole sale consumer products accounts, selling to big chains and to mom and pop stores. I’ve presented huge educational programs to state boards of education and made deals with publishers on four continents. I’ve built a successful conference and convinced big brand sponsors to partner with us. I led the strategy that turned around a failing company. Most of what I know about getting folks to work with me I’ve learned the hard way, by doing things wrong and adjusting out when those things didn’t work.
But I pay attention … especially to one question that makes a working relationship actually work.
Working relationships work because an exchange of value occurs. Value can be currency, time, resources, risk, or sharing a network. Somehow in the best working relationships a balance seems to keep itself, without any party too closely monitoring the score.
So if you’re looking to start a new working relationship, you might want to do a little more work before you event start.
- Know what you offer to the partnership. What can you bring that I don’t have, but would help me to my goals?
- Know what you ask of it. What could I offer in return that would do the same for you?
- Make sure the two are balanced, aligned, defined, and limited in scope. “I”ll do X. What I ask is you do Y. Those two things should move us both forward. Would that work for you? We could try it once as a proof of concept to see whether it works.”
- Then consider that a promise, a pact, a contract made in your words so that you work your butt off to keep to it.
Investors call that “share risk, share the benefit.”
Working partnership might think of it as “share the workload, share the win.”
It’s a great way to get everyone working at what we do well and still get everything done. It’s also a great way to make an offer to a new client.
What makes your great working relationships work?
–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!
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March 8, 2010
How to Promote Your Business Without Being Seen as a Smiling Shark
ME Liz Strauss wrote this at 7:36 am
Gotta Be Visible Authenticity
The entrepreneurs and brand managers I work with both often start by asking how to use the social web. Their goal is to promote their business or their brand. The worry that seems consistently common in every first question is that they appear professional and helpful. No one wants to appear to be too aggressive in social web space.
How to Promote Your Business Without Being a Seen as Smiling Shark
When the wrong kind of promotion comes our way, it feels like we’re not being seen as people, but more like prey. Who wants to do business with someone that comes at us like a shark? No one in a marketing or sales role wants to be perceived like that.
I’ve found that the key to elegant and authentic promotion is being fully present in the conversation. Too often we start talking before we listen. Too often we haven’t fully considered what brought us to be interacting. Knowing who we are, what we offer, and how it fits our reader-customers before we even start a conversation can make promoting a blog, a business, or a brand as seamless as talking to a friend about how our day went.
These questions can get us to that information.
- Are you truly passionate and excited about it? If not, go find out how you can be. Be clear on what drives you.
“Can I tell you why I’m so excited to be working with big companies on big ideas that connect people and change lives in ways that really mean something.”
- Can you articulate that passion and excitement? What words explain why you are willing to invest the time of your life building that blog, business, or brand? Be able to tell the story that connects you to what you’re sharing. People will identify with that.
“Every day people I work with tell me that they think that what we’ve put together to connect with new business is going to be so much easier and so much fun.”
- Can you name and claim what you offer so that folks can attribute it you? Can you explain how your blog, your brand, or your business will change people’s lives in a clear and specifically good way? Give that a name so that the idea stick. Draw a picture with words and name that. Become the person who is the only one who provides that.
“Folks who know how to talk about their unique value attract amazing people who want to be part of what they’re doing. Knowing what you offer is powerful.”
- Do you call folks to action and offer them an easy way to talk about what you’re building? Can you show them how joining you will make what they do easier, faster, and more meaningful? If you don’t tell folks how to join, be a part, they could think you don’t want them to. Gotta invite them.
“If want to talk about how to do that, it only takes about 45 minutes.”
- Do you invite people offer their experience? Do you ask folks how you might reach more people who could benefit from your brand, your book, or your product? If they offer suggestions, do you follow through?
“If you were me, what would you differently to offer folks like more value in faster, better, more meaningful ways?”
- Do you ask people to talk about you? Do you give them ways they might do that, ways that make them feel proud for helping you?
“So glad you found value, would you tell your colleagues about our work together? I’d love to help them too. We can all grow together.”
Not every questions fits into every conversation. The thing is that when we know ourselves, our business goals, how to partner and how to extend an irresistible offer, promotion gets to be as passionately authentic as the other parts of the work we do.
How do you make sure that your promotion is authentically you?
–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz on your business!!
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March 7, 2010
Beach Notes: Not Your Average Surfboard
ME Liz Strauss wrote this at 8:54 am
by Guest Writers Suzie Cheel and Des Walsh
In the 5 or so years of walking up and down the beach at Rainbow Bay we have never seen such a unique surfboard as we did yesterday morning.
Creativity Rocks!
Do you put your creativity into what you’re living?
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March 6, 2010
Thanks to Week 228 SOBs
ME Liz Strauss wrote this at 10:42 am
Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,
Successful Blog SOBs.
I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.
They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.
I thank all of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.
Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her to me. Thie award carries a “Liz said so” guarantee, is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and is backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.
Want to become an SOB?
If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame– A-Z Directory . Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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March 5, 2010
SOB Business Cafe 03-05-10
ME Liz Strauss wrote this at 9:39 am
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Welcome to the SOB Cafe
We offer the best in thinking — articles, books, podcasts, and videos about business online written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the titles to enjoy each selection.
The Specials this Week are
Powered
Why is it that when it comes to conversation about social media, business-to-business (B2B) seems to draw the short stick every single time? As someone that does a lot of webcasts, blog posts and speaking gigs, the questions/comment that always comes up is, “what about B2B examples.” Fortunately for me, I’m able to mention companies like BreakingPoint Systems and Hubspot that do a great job tapping into the power of social media but I often wish there were more examples (with public results) that I could discuss.
Six Pixels of Separation
Imagine this scenario: you are walking along one of your favourite streets and you suddenly receive a text message on your mobile phone. It notifies you that your favourite fast-food burger chain has a joint just up the block, and if you come on in, they are willing to throw in a medium-size fries and bottomless jolts of free cola with the purchase of a hamburger.
Brand Savant
One thing that has become apparent to me over the past few months is that there are a lot of folks using social media monitoring tools to listen for brand mentions, but truly they are capable of so much more with a little forethought and planning.
Randy Gage
Do you hold back on things because you feel you aren’t worth the extra money? Does going for the luxurious choice bring up feelings of guilt?
I used to say these kinds of things were issues for people who grew up in the great depression. Then I came to realize that this was a problem for most people. It’s no surprise really, when you think about it.
Bawld Guy Talking
BawldGuy Axiom: When the farmer plants corn in the spring after proper preparation, tends his fields diligently, fertilizes as needed, and adjusts to any bumps in the road, he’s not surprised when he’s harvesting corn in the fall.
Related ala carte selections include
Social Media Enthusiast
Are there still companies who haven’t entered, at any level, the social web? Sure. But they’re so far to the right of the adoption bell curve, we’ve effectively entered the territory of the Amish. They might make awesome baked goods, but don’t know diddly squat about marketing a brand in the digital age.
The days of “exploring” social media are over. Deal with it.
Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like. No tips required. Comments appreciated.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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