A Turning Point, a Realization, and Time to Take Back the Keys
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The Turning Point
SOBCon08 had a different effect on each person who attended. It had a stunning impact on me.
A most interesting and pivotal decision came my way on Saturday, May 3rd. The conference I planned was not holding to schedule — I had planned too much to fit in too little time. It was a risk I took come to haunt me. As the day wore on, I realized something had to give. One choice presented itself as the best. I would give up my speaker’s slot. It was the only way to put the conference back on track.
At the time, I knew exactly what the choices were: choose to speak or choose for the event. I chose not to speak, knowing that people who attended for the first time would leave with an incomplete picture of who I am and what I do.
I’ve been tracking the impact of that decision. It’s been there in the blog posts and the comments about SOBCon this year.
I hit a turning point in my life.
The Realization
The part that was harder to face was the realization that had I been fully engaged as a leader, I never would have faced that choice at all. The conference would have had more of my hand behind it and more of voice in it on that day.
I knew what to do, but I didn’t do it, because ghosts from my past got in the way.
Who are ghosts to get in my way?
The clear message of SOBCon was that it’s time to step to the plate. Our blogs, our businesses have to be about serving our customers, but that can’t be at the cost of ourselves.
We each have to own our future. I’ve reflected hard on that thought these past two weeks. Today I’m taking back the keys. I’m walking my own path, shining my light on what I know worth sharing, turning off the noise that gets in the way. I’ll be bringing the most meaningful business and life conversations to this blog now — rather than keeping them behind the scenes.
It’s no longer my father’s saloon. The bar is still open. This time the drinks are on me.
What will you have?
–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!
The SOBCon Influence According to BuzzLogic
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Conversationally
This news from Valerie Coombs at BuzzLogic . . .
I just did an influence query on “sobcon liz strauss†and got these results.
How did we get these results?
BuzzLogic’s influence algorithm takes a dozen factors into account in determining the influence of posts and a blog overall. They include:
- a blogger’s credibility and expertise on a specific topic over time,
- who is linking in,
- the quality and influence of all in-linkers and
- the popularity of a post overall.
Congrats to Lorelle VanFossen for the most influential post in the entire sobcon conversation!
SOBCon Remembered and Recommended
See below the Top 25 right as of the close of SOBCon.
- Liz Strauss
- Lorelle – Lorelle has the single most influential post ever about SOBCON!
- Phil Gerbyshak
- Brain Based Business
- David Armano
- The Blog Herald
- James D Walton
- Timothy L Johnson
- Bootsnall travel community
- Ben Yonkavitz
- Joe Hauckes
- Tim Draayer
- Des Walsh
- Dawud Miracle
- Jon Gatrell
- Drew McLellan
- FutureLab blog
- Kent Blumberberg
- Geoffrey Philp
- Robert Hruzek
- Christine Kane
- Amy Palko
- problogger
- Mary Schmidt
- Adam Kayce
See the screenshot of the Social Map around Lorelle’s post. Click to see it full size.
We will continue to watch the conversation and update you on changes…. Valerie, BuzzLogic
Do you have influence? Will the SOBCon blog posts you write change this listing?
For more about BuzzLogic, visit Jeremiah’s post of Shel’s Interview with the Co-Founder. Sandra and Valerie are both in the vid.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!
Joanna Young at SOBCon08
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Joanna Young of Confident Writing (http://www.confidentwriting.com/) is a joy and a wonder. Here she is in Chicago at SOBCon08.
Liz Strauss,
Founder of SOBCon
Community Specialist, Product and Content Analyst, Social Web Strategist
Be irresistible.
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Supertramp, Terry Starbucker, and Chicago
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Music, Love, and All of that Light
Terry’s reflection on SOBCon inspired me to sit down again with my thoughts. My heart was filled to bursting when they drove me home on Sunday. It was Terry, Jesse, and Chrisg riding along and commenting on the blueness of the lake.
Dreamer, you know you are a dreamer, but can you put your hands in your head? — Supertramp, Breakfast in America
That is the song that drives me. It’s the song that makes SOBCon happen. It must be a blogger’s song too because Terry points out that “We’ve got the Dreamer’s Disease.”
Making dreams a reality is even easier with Terry around.
I’ve always been a dreamer who needs a building crew. And I had a crew of usual suspects who stepped up to help and still others came from places I never suspected.
Terry attracts people, connects with them, and smooths out the rough edges in everyone. He gives in ways that most people don’t realize that they’ve been given to.
Lorelle had more drive, love, and honest ability than should fit inside someone so small. Chris, Lisa, and Dawud were a members of the team, too. Jesse and Karen were there when we needed them.
And there are all of you!
And Supertramp challenging me.
Could I let the people who came see the city the way that I do? Could we make an event that brought the commardarie of the event last year?
Would I see folks who stuck together like refrigerator magnets?
you can do anything you want, boy.”
Would the content work? Would the program fit? Would everything work it’s way through? How do I let Terry know my gratitude? How would I communicate to Chris and Lisa, Lorelle, Christine, and Wendy, Brogan and Clark, Garrett, Bullock, and Bruzzese, how much I respect and value them?
Anita . . . Value your words, your name, your reputation
Brian . . . Don’t build a blog, build an asset.
you can say anything!”
Lorelle . . . Know who loves you and work for them.
Chrisg . . . Have ideas everywhere and value them.
Dave . . . START selling. You have what I want.
you can be anyone– celebrate boy!”
Chris B . . . Businesses have people inside them.
Liz . . . Frosted Mini-wheats need meaning.
Wendy . . . Who are you not to?
Can you do something out of this world?
I guess you can’t miss, when you put your hands in your head with a guy named Starbucker in the lights of the most beautiful skyline in the world.
After three hugs at the door to my building, I pushed my stuff to the elevator, and I rode up thinking . . .
How will I ever be able to look at the lake without remembering? I still have Christine’s music playing on the recorder in my head. I’m weeks away from knowing what happened . . . at least what happened to me.
“C’mon and Dream and Dream along!”
Wonder whether Christine knows that she’s opening for Supertramp now?
–ME “Liz†Strauss
Work with Liz!!
lyrics: Supertramp
flickr image: bjmccray, with permission
How Do You Build an Incredible Experience?
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Communities Don’t Get Built, They Grow
I’ve walked around for about an hour, trying to put words to the change that happened at SOBCon this weekend. I spent another hour trying to explain how it could happen twice.
Every sentence I made seemed inadequate and unworthy.
How do you explain an incredible experience of community, learning, and outright fun? I’m at a loss.
Here is a way to find out for yourself.
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Build an experience for intelligent, passionate people — head and heart in a meaningful context.
Invest all you are — commend, commit, confide, consign, give, hand over, trust.
Hold up every person who wants to be part – bank on, believe in, count on, depend on, reckon on, rely on, have confidence, trust.
Make it easy to trust and talk — caretaking, watching, overseeing, be trustworthy.
Listen with an open mind, heart for the meaning they take, give, and find on their own.
In other words, trust. Trust in people who trust.
An incredible experience is built on trust. Trust yourself. Trust the people around you. Trust that when things don’t go perfectly other folks will understand. People do the most amazing things in a community filled with trust. They change, grow, learn, connect, feel, and communicate. They smile at the drop of a hat.
It’s that easy.
I was changed as a person by being a part. . . .
Thank you to everyone who came to SOBCon08.
- Cliff Atkinson
- Shashi Bellamkonda
- JJ Betts
- Chris Brown
- Chris Brogan
- Anita Bruzzese
- Dave Bullock
- Mark Carter
- Brian Clark
- Tom Clifford
- Clay Collins
- Valerie Combs
- Chris Cree
- Lisa Cree
- Thomas Croghan
- Donna Cutting
- David Dalka
- Kevin Dixie
- Tim Draayer
- Andrew Dubber
- Easton Ellsworth
- Kevin Ferrasci O’Malley
- Chantelle Flannery
- Sarah Filipiak
- Mary-Lynn Foster
- Annie Galvin Teich
- Brian Gardner
- Chris Garrett
- Jon Gatrell
- Phil Gerbyshak
- Jared Goralnick
- Karen Hanrahan
- Joseph Hauckes
- Vicky Hennegan
- Scot Herrick
- John Hong
- Stephen Hopson
- Robert Hruzek
- Timothy Johnson
- Sara
- Pete Jones
- Todd Jordan
- Bob Kakoliris
- Christine Kane
- Adam Kayce
- Kristen King
- Scott Kolbe
- Jen Knoedl
- Thomas Knoll
- Stephen Koernig
- Bryan Kress
- George Krueger
- Amy L
- Tammy Lenski
- James G. Lindberg
- Eli Litscher
- Rick Mahn
- Sim Margolis
- Michael Martine
- Becky McCray
- Maria Meadows
- Cory Miller
- Ann Michael
- Dawud Miracle
- Debra Moorhead
- Matthew Murphy
- Paul O’Flaherty
- Tim Padar
- Jesse Petersen
- Melissa Pierce
- Wendy Piersall
- Sandra Ponce de Leon
- J. Erik Potter
- Karen Putz
- Susan R Quandt
- Levy Rivers
- Barbara Rozgonyi
- Jeff Sable
- Sheila Scarborough
- Mary Schmidt
- Derek Semmler
- Maria Sharon
- David Sherbow
- Steve Sherlock
- Brad Shorr
- Louise Silberman
- Sonia Simone-Rossney
- Julien Smith
- Stephen Smith
- Michael Snell
- Derrick Sorles
- Terry Starbucker
- Liz Strauss
- Jon Swanson
- Ruth M Sylte
- Michelle Vandepas
- Lorelle VanFossen
- Colleen Wainwright
- Denise Wakeman
- James D. Walton
- Randy Windsor
- Joanna Young
How do you do recognize an incredible experience?
–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!
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