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Doing Away With Tension in the Office

August 7, 2013 by Thomas

When you put a number of professionals together, no matter who they are, at some point in time, tension will arise.

Maybe it’s over a business disagreement, maybe they have some differing visions for the future, or maybe they simply don’t get along.

But the bottom line is that people sometimes have to work together despite these things (or not and that means someone losing his or her job).

So how do you make, and keep, a happy, trusting work place where your employees can be productive and successful?

Think about it when hiring

When you are in the hiring process, think about how new employees will connect and interact with current employees.

If you see personalities that will certainly clash, you may want to rethink that hire even if everything else is top notch. If you get a vibe on different goals or perspectives that you’re not ready for, think twice.

It’s much easier on everyone if you just don’t get there in the first place than to have to deal with personality challenges, misconceptions and not seeing eye to eye in the future.

Notice what is going on

If you see employees struggling to get along or avoiding one another, try to figure out what is going on.

You could meet with each one separately or talk to an unbiased party and get to the bottom of it. It’s not a bad idea to mediate a meeting between those not getting along, and if you are one of them, you need to speak up and try to work out problems before they become unworkable.

If you can get to the bottom of things before they escalate, you could possibly save a lot of turmoil and tension.

Don’t put your head in the sand

If you’ve noticed something, or you personally are having trouble with someone, you need to address it.

Problems sometimes go away, but often they don’t. And if they don’t, you may have much bigger problems to attend to, like people quitting, having to fire someone, losing income due to time spent on this or unhappy customers. Remember, tension needs to be addressed.

Keep a positive atmosphere

Keeping a positive atmosphere in the workplace will help keep these problems to a minimum.

If you can provide a safe atmosphere where your employees feel trusted and have at least one person they can go to, it will help. If your employees feel valued and that even through professional disagreements, you still respect their work and opinions, tensions may be kept at bay.

You, as an employer, can set clear goals and recognize achievements. When you show value, even when tension exists, the positive may outweigh the negative feelings.

Remember there is life outside of work

Sometimes when there is extra tension or someone seems more stressed or difficult to get along with, remember there may be something outside of work going on.

Sure, work at work is priority, but sometimes it’s hard to focus on the positive when some other aspect of your world is falling apart, be it health, family or other external stress. Try to find out if something else is underlying before taking severe measures.

As a business owner, you have lots of roles to play.

Sometimes mediator or confidante is one. Sometimes you have to make decisions you don’t want to.

Keep a constant eye on things, and maybe you can prevent office tensions from escalating too far.

Photo credit: livinggreenmag.com

About the Author: Heather Legg is a writer who covers topics on small business, getting along with others and a company’s online reputation.

Filed Under: Business Life Tagged With: bc, employer, office, professionals, workers

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