by
Rosemary O’Neill
Follow-Through is Everything
There are two kinds of people in the world. People who are good at following through, and people who are frustrated, wondering why their plans never work out. If you can master the follow-through, you have already put yourself ten steps ahead of everyone else.
Consistent Practice
When I was first learning to golf, one of the hardest things was learning to move the club âthroughâ the ball and take a complete swing. A lot of dirt was flung before I got the idea. And the muscle memory is part of the art.
The more you practice following through, the easier it gets.
Action Items to Practice Following Through
- After conferences and events, record all of the contacts you made, and for each one, find a way to reinforce the connection within one week after the event. Ideally, you can find one small action you can do that will help move your contactâs project along.
- When you say youâre going to do something, do it. Make this an ironclad, âprime directive.â
- Create a tickler file with reminders. Use the technology at hand to give yourself automatic reminders. With âremindersâ now built in on Mac OS, and thousands of Android apps, you almost have no excuse.
- Maintain contact information. Whether you prefer a stack of paper business cards or you pull them in with CardMunch, keep your contact information up-to-date and include notes about where you met the person.
- Close the loop. We already discussed having your âaskâ ready in case an opportunity arises. Get practiced at making that next phone call or sending that next email that will seal the deal. Donât just leave it out there hanging, and donât be the one waiting for your contact to call you back. Go get it.
- Return your phone calls and emails. A good practice is to save some period of time (maybe at the end of the day) when you clear out the messages. Just delete the ones that are unsolicited and not of interest to you—theyâre just mental clutter.
- Donât take on projects you donât intend to finish. Practice saying ânoâ as well! Itâs easier to follow through when you are focused on commitments that align with your goals.
How do you build your âfollow-throughâ muscle? Do you use any tricks to support your practice?
Author’s Bio: Rosemary OâNeill is an insightful spirit who works for social strata — a top ten company to work for on the Internet . Check out the Social Strata blog. You can find Rosemary on Google+ and on Twitter as @rhogroupee
Thank you, Rosemary!
You’re irresistible!
ME “Liz” Strauss
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