Who Am I Talking to?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot.
I’ve been listening to when I say,
“You have to understand.”
I’ve been listening to when other people say that sentence too.
You have to understand. . . . No, you don’t.
Truth is, no one “has to” understand anything anyone says anytime anyplace at all.
Yet, even more amazing is that often when the sentence, “You have to understand,” is being said,
the listener does understand.
Often the listener understands
better than the speaker does.
I’ve been listening to when I say,
“You have to understand.”
Maybe the person I’m trying to convince is myself.
I fight the hardest to convince other folks what I need to believe most myself.
I wonder if I understand myself, will I quit telling other folks that they have to understand what I’m saying?
You have to understand. I’ve been thinking about this a lot.
Well, no you don’t. No one does.
We don’t have to understand each other . . . but it works better when we do.
Maybe we start by listening to and understanding ourselves.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!