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We’re Talking Fiction: They Say It Didn’t Happen . . .

February 14, 2007 by Liz

Once Upon a Comment

It was a dark and stormy comment. No, no, not really. Everyone was quite cheery. Joe and Nneka walked in talking about Nneka’s first attempt at fiction. Romance, Sci-Fi — It was mentioned that SF ii the proper term these days. — Fantasy, Mystery, Detective Stories, Chick-Lit, Children’s Books . . .

We talked about snuggling with a good book on a rainy day, under a comforter with jazz playing in the backgound. Some of us lament the fact we hardly ever have time to read these days. We also gave Monique more challenges to write about on her insurance blog.

Who knew that Starship Troopers was a book? Who guessed it was required recommended for the marines?

And did you know that Aliens is “Jaws on a spaceship”.

Lee Child’s hero, Jack Reacher, makes Jack Bauer look like a wimp.

If You Give a Mouse a Cookie . . . is a wonderful book!

If you give a blogger a comment, she’ll want a link to go with it. And if you give her a link, then she just might get inspired.

“Blogging makes you smarter.”

“I’ve always felt guilty about it, but I think Hemingway is a great writer and I hate his books.”

We shared some links:

  • Peter Hamilton, especially his “Night’s Dawn Trilogy”
  • Moonfall, by Jack McDevitt.a>
  • “In Praise of Attics Everywhere”
  • Heinlein Society .
  • Kate Wilhelm
  • Jerry Pournelle’s “Lucifer’s Hammer”
  • www.insuranceguide101.com
  • http://www.raggededgemagazine.com/
  • Glenda Watson Hyatt

Some of the Books and Authors

Babyji by Abha Dawesar
Greg Mandel detective novels.
“The Great Gatsby” and “Murder on the Orient Express”
Lord of the Rings
Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand
In Her Shoes is by Jennifer Weiner
Elizabeth George and Nelsom DeMIlle
Lee Child
“All We Know Of Love”
Robert Heinlein’s “Stranger in a Strange Land”.
“Black Beauty”.
Farmer in the Sky, The Star Beast, Tunnel in the Sky, Starship Troopers
The Time Travelers Wife and The
Poisonwood Bible
Mary Shelley’s original Frankenstein
Robert Heinlein’s “Stranger in a Strange Land”
Ernest Hemingways’ “For Whom the Bell Tolls”
Ender’s Game
“The Things They Carried” by Tim O’Brien
the mystery series by Sue Grafton
Plebas
Charles Dickens
Douglas Adams book Last Chance to See
Pride & Prejudice by Jane Austen
Utopia, Thomas More
Sophie’s World, Jostein Gaarder
Competitive Strategy, Michael E. Porter;
The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell
Nevil Shute On The beach

Thanks to everyone for the cool links and for being part of the conversation.

See you next Tuesday? I sure hope so.
–ME “Liz” Strauss

What is Tuesday Open Comment Night?

WANT TO GUEST HOST AN OPEN COMMENT NIGHT WITH ME? PICK A THEME AND TELL ME ABOUT IT.C’MON IT’LL BE FUN!

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Steve Pavlina and Liz on Relationships

February 14, 2007 by Liz

I agree

At the end of January, Steve Pavlina published a piece on Human Relationships. His article pointed out something I’ve always believed — that we see in others the traits that we love and dislike most in ourselves. In fact, our relationships with other people are really the same relationships we have within ourselves.

Steve explains it beautifully.

Where do all your relationships exist? They exist in your thoughts. Your relationship with another person is whatever you imagine it to be. Whether you love someone or hate someone, you’re right. Now the other person may have a completely different relationship to you, but understand that your representation of what someone else thinks of you is also part of your thoughts. So your relationship with someone includes what you think of that person and what you believe s/he thinks of you. You can complicate it further by imagining what the other person thinks you think of him/her, but ultimately those internal representations are all you have.

Now,you might have gotten there on your own, just as I did. It’s a fascinating conundrum that we can never objectively see what objective form our relationships really have. Steve’s post goes in another direction. He gives new meaning to something I’ve thought for the longest time.

The quickest way to change someone’s behavior is change our own.

Steve tells a story about how he wanted to convince his wife to be tidier. Thinking of his internal relationships, he recognized it was really his own issue, not hers. So he decided to become even more tidy than he already was. He points out that with no conversation, as he became tidier, his wife began tidying her office and other spaces around their house. Steve says that as he solves problems he thinks he has with others by working on them within himself, others always have this response.

Steve offers this simple exercise for us to try it out.

Make a list of all the things that bother you about other people. Now re-read that list as if it applies to you. If you’re honest you’ll have to admit that all of your complaints about others are really complaints about yourself. For example, if you dislike George Bush because you think he’s a poor leader, could this be because your own leadership skills are sub par? Then go to work on your own leadership skills, or work on becoming more accepting of your current skill level, and notice how George Bush suddenly seems to be making dramatic improvements in this area.

What a great way to work on self-development!

The Most Likely Reasons This Works

When we have a problem or a conflict, we often find ourselves on opposite sides of a line. The problem defines us as we and them, you and I, hero and villain or so many non-intersecting circles. If we make a sincere change with intent to grow, we have just moved outside of our circle. The person on the other side of that line has a new picture, a new response when he or she communicates. Of course he or she will notice, that alone is a change.

If the person watching sees us do something positive, human nature provides so many reasons that a friend, an enemy, or someone who hardly knows us would want to do the same. Can you think of them?

Now consider one more thing that Steve says; The more we interact with others, the more we know about ourselves.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Week of Valentines: Liz Strauss

February 14, 2007 by Liz

Five Minutes: A Blogging Valentine

neon heart

Five minutes after you came
you knew me already

In less than five minutes

a few typed words. a “Welcome!” answer
a clever one liner, a witty line back
a laugh unrelated to where it all began.

Five minutes of time . . who’s counting?

verbal volleyball — an even score
connecting minds in bits and bytes
all equal players, playing nice

Five minutes of time
a lifetime in 300 seconds
friendships built on captured keystrokes
bonds with more power than words we write

no memory of the day they started
clear recall of the thoughts, questions, witty retorts
knowing each five minutes every relationship was forged

Five minutes you’re gone . . . not for long,

only five minutes . . . all of five minutes

That’s all it took — record time — five — count ’em — five minutes

happens that way, with folks who hang around

Five minutes you came
. . . that’s how it started.

not strangers anymore.
we’ve been friends for five minutes
that’s a very long time around here.
our five minutes is now five minutes
after five minutes plus five minutes . . . . and on and on and on

Five minutes you’re gone
. . . and I miss you already.

Can’t wait until five minutes from now when you’re back again.

Five minutes of conversation can start a relationship that lasts a whole life.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Liz's Signature

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The Mic Is On: We’re Talking Fiction Books . . .

February 13, 2007 by Liz

It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

We’re Talking About Books . . . What’s Your Favorite Piece of Fiction?

Fiction

We might also talk about

  • favorite authors
  • What we’re reading now
  • What we read on vacation
  • What we read as a kid
  • Whether we like mysteries, detective stories, romance, suspense, science fiction, or westerns
  • How many books we read last year
  • And, whatever else comes up,

including THE EVER POPULAR,
Basil the code-writing donkey.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Open Mic 7pm Chgo Time: Let’s Talk About Fiction . . .

February 13, 2007 by Liz

Yes the Mic Will Be on Tonight

Join Us Tonight for Tues. Open Comments

The Topic is: Fiction

What is your favorite fictional book? Who is your favorite author? We can also talk about what we’re reading now, what we used to read as a kid, and everything in between. Do we like mysteries, detective stories, romance, suspense, science fiction, or westerns? Do we prefer to read online, in print, or listen to audio books? How often we read, and whatever else comes up.

Oh, and bring a link to your favorite author of fiction books.

The rules are simple — be nice.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Money Strategy, a Dead Horse, and Folks

February 13, 2007 by Liz

Three Absolutes that Belong Together

Strategic Plans logo

On every performance appraisal form I have worked with, a question has been asked about the use of financial resources. That question was an opportunity to talk about money strategy with my team of employees.

Whether we work in an office, work at home, or don’t work at all, most of us have never been formally taught how to make strategic decisions about money.

My experience is that many folks tend to make one of three global assumptions, and their choice of assumptions becomes their de facto strategy for financial decisions both at work and at home. The three global assumptions are these:

  1. Money is meant to be spent. You have to spend money to make money.
  2. Money is meant to be saved. The more you save, the more you earn.
  3. The best bet is to ask someone else — get advice, or “persmission,” from someone who knows.

All three assumptions are useful — but only when taken together.

Taken individually, the three assumptions above become absolutes without balance. When we rely on only one of three, that assumption often works the opposite from the way a strategy should. We tend to use our chosen one of the three to avoid having to think through a decision. We turn the above assumptions into rationalizations. Each one of the three keeps us tied to the belief that only some people know how to deal with money decisions, and we’re not in that group.

If we look at a decision and at each assumption, we can develop a framework for how to approach money decisions.

Sample Decision: Do I need the latest upgrade for my computer?

Money is meant to be spent.

That’s a nice thought. It’s also a nice way to empty a bank account. Fast adopters tend to favor this assumption.

Money is meant to be spent when it will give us a greater return than not spending it will.

The key here is whether the new upgrade will pay for itself in productivity, quality of life, or other tangible or intangible benefits. In circumstances such as this, here are some of the “go or no go” questions.

  • What benefits will this purchase bring me, my clients, my family? Are these benefits worth more than the purchase price?
  • Will this purchase bring me more time, more productivity, more ability to serve my clients, more efficiency, more quality of life? In other words, can I turn this purchase into money; use it to lighten my workload; or to improve or better balance my life?
  • If I wait to buy this item later, what will I lose while I wait? What opportunity am I giving up by buying this item now?
  • Do I have the cash flow to pay for this? If I’m putting this on charge card or increasing my debt, what is the real cost of what I’m buying when I include the interest and finance charges? — Are the benefits still a good return at that price?

Money is meant to be saved.

Saving money is good. So is spending it wisely. Slow adopters and folks who don’t like change — two different groups — sometimes save when they should spend. A friend of mine calls this “thinking poor.” They are often caught without the right tool for the job. This can mean more work at a lower pay rate.

I repeat, money is meant to be spent when it will give us greater return than not spending it will.

Here are some of the “go or no go” questions for folks whe are biased toward not spending.

  • If I don’t buy this now, what extra work will I be doing? What opportunity to become more efficient will I miss? Is the cash value of the opportunity greater than letting the cash stay in my account?
  • What will it cost to save the money? Would making this purchase be an investment that would gain me more time, more productivity, more ability to serve my clients, more efficiency, more quality work, more quality of life?
  • What will I lose, if I continue to put off purchasing? Am I saving money at a long-term cost?
  • Is my money just sitting in an account, when it could be working for me? If I bought new tools and equipment, would I be more efficient? If I hired part-time help, would I be able to handle more and higher-level work, or spend more time living my life?

The best bet is to ask someone else.

Actually the best advice is to be that someone else.

Money decisions are like other decisions. They require looking at options and possible outcomes. In the end, every money decision comes down to one basic premise.

Money is meant to be spent when it will give us greater return than not spending it will.

I know. I know. This is the place where you say. “Okay, Liz, the horse is dead.”

Sorry, I thought the horse was still twitching.

Truth is, if you can explain how spending money on what you want will deliver a tangible or intangible return that people care about, they will spend their money to invest in what you propose. That’s not selling, that’s helping folks reach their goals.

Solid strategy is simple and makes sense.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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