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Meet the Relationship Geek — Phil Gerbyshak

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Everyone Knows Phil

We had met at the first email and by the last, we had decided that we would be attending Phil’s speaking event in Chicago together — two weeks later. Somewhere around emails three and four he said “I’m not a stalker.” and I laughed, thinking I’m the one who usually writes that. Not bad for an email conversation that only lasted only 42 minutes.

That’s how my relationship with Phil began. I suspect it’s that way for everyone.

Read the whole feature in today’s Blog Herald by clicking the logo.

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It’s about blogging and real life.
–ME “Liz” Strauss

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$100 Million in Ideas . . .

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$100 Million Got Us Thinking

We came right out of the box talking about what we would do with a $100 million. Trisha first gave a nod to taxes and figured the $50 Million left would be enough to design and build a house, adopt a few kids, and start a non-profit.

Marti said she’d buy lots of land with starry skies.

Joe didn’t think he could dream quiet that high.
When he did he finally said he would buy a machine to count the money so he didn’t have to count it himself.
Then he would hire two lawyers to watch each other and a third to watch the accountant.
Then he would hire someone to fire the two lawyers and accountant and hire replacements

Andrew would get out of debt to law school, build a dream house, and give a chunk to charities and church.

Char would pay the taxes, give family gifts, knock down her house and build a new one, donate to her favorite causes, set up a non-profit for children, and continue to work.

Robert would build a planned community in a beautiful forested areas for missionaries when they’re home on leave.

Renée had conflicting thoughts about hiring an investment consultant.

Rick had obviously thought about it before.
1. Get a lawyer.
2. Get another lawyer.
3. Get a good accountant.
4. Set up a couple of corporations to work through.
5. Give Habitat for Humanity an anonymous donation.
6. Never tell anyone.
7. Keep working.
8. Pay any debts.
And go from there – but not in that order.
Oh, and never go to strip clubs with half a million in the back seat of my car.

Vincent would pay Sylvester Stallone not to make any more Rocky sequels; start a trust for respite care and education of kids with disabilities; make sure his familiy owned their homes and safe cars; and invest.

bj would put away a bit (not much, enough for a nice country cottage) and use the rest for a foundation that offers yearly prizes for the best manufacturable and marketable alternative energy gizmo, gadget or other tool.

Becky said community development would be her thing with a vineyard and winery as part of the plan for the “destination” store.

MamaDuck wants to set it up in investments so that she was living on the income from the invested money. She figured there would be enough of the interest to allow for charitable pursuits and such too. She’d leave the main balance (minus taxes) intact for her children…..

Two Knives would fulfill her fantasy of owning a trinket shop on the beach. She’d sell soft drinks and get to know the locals. Open late and close early. Since it’s so much money, she might even buy U.S.-made trinkets.

Francie would work and share. She’d give some to charity, some to family and friends first. She’d set up a non-profit for them. Then maybe she would fund some scholarships.

Meikah Delid thinks like Rick.
If I had $100M, I’d do the following:
1. pay off debts
2. give sums to those who badly need it, esp. ill people
3. trust fund for the kids
4. buy a rest house by the beach or lake
5. travel around the world
6. save the rest and live as if I don’t have lots of cash (is this possible?)

Ben would still work, but as an angel investor helping successful entrepreneurs get funding.

Tim Johnson is going for world peace, curing disease, feeding and sheltering homeless people, and a Harley.

Nnenka would start a school that offers a holistic education for children and parents.

GP would invest and buy land in her dear Montana to build an equestrian center, and expand that B&B with more room for us to visit.

Minic would pay off anyone who is feeling like an owner, keep a little and give the rest to us all.

David Leggett would donate the $100 Million to Compassion International, a foundation that needs support to care for children, and he might buy some photography equipment..

Here are the links we shared

Thanks to everyone for the cool links and for being part of the conversation. Bring more links next week and we’ll post them again.

Oh and me? If I had $100 Milion?

I’m on a cruise ship city where there are condos and stores and every morning I wask to a different city. I get off the ship to visit lands I’ve never seen and converse with the people who live there. Sometimes we dock in a port for a week or two. I can sleep in my own bed and still enjoy the native culture.

Sometimes we stay only for day trips.

I work via wi-fi as the ship travels.

You’re welcome to join me.

See you next Tuesday? We sure hope so.

–ME “Liz” Strauss and Sandy Renshaw
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Free FCC Ringtones: When Is a Monopoly Not a Monopoly?

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I’ve Got a Question

Isn’t a generally accepted principle here in the US that monopolies are pretty much bad things?

I mean it’s something that most folks here seem to agree on regardless of their political persuasion. Those who shade toward the conservative side see competition as beneficial for the economy. And folks with a more liberal outlook generally see behemoth corporations as undesirable.

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And didn’t the US government spend something like 8 years in court to break up the monopoly that AT&T had over out nation’s communication system?

I’m sure they spent a ton of our tax dollars on that.

They Say That Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

Where I lived we weren’t too affected one way or the other by the break up. We happened to live in a very rural part of Upstate New York and our family somewhat affectionately called our local phone company, Taconic Telephone, Rinky-dink Tel. [Read more…]

Change the World: Breaking the Law of My Limits

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What If I Stopped Saying I Can’t?

Change the World!

Those who advise people to follow their passion, no matter where it leads, are believers in intentionality*. Many meditation programs that advise that imagining ‘success’, what one wants to happen, is the first step towards its realization, are believers in intentionality (the second step, they will tell you, is acting in accordance). Those who will tell you that having the courage to ‘real-ize’ what you were always intended to be and do, by living on the Edge beyond the reach of civilization’s safety net, is the only sane way to live, the only hope for us as individuals and as a culture, are believers in intentionality. And so are the ‘power of positive thinking’ and ‘appreciative inquiry’ proponents. . . .

The word intention literally means stretching toward. The word aspiration means breathing toward. — Dave Pollard, How to Save the World

If I say I can’t, you can bet I can’t.
I can argue for my personal limits with a clean, clear case of exactly what I can’t do — certain beyond certain, that I can’t do what I say I can’t. The future is easy to predict when I lay down the law of my personal limits.

Suppose just one time, or maybe once and for all, that instead of the law of my limits, I laid down my can’t do arguments?

I intend to break the law of my limits.
I will do something I once believed I could never do.
I aspire without a care, without fear of failing.
I will stretch toward, breathe toward learning.

If I trip or fall, I’ll simply adjust my steps.
If I get lost, I’ll stop for help.

I don’t need luck, when I can make things happen.

I intend to stop fighting for limits, and start exploring possibilities.

That’s a reality I can make happen.

We can change the world — just like that.
–ME “Liz” Strauss

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If you’re ready to change the world, send me your thoughts in a guest post. Feel free to take the gorgeous Change the World image up there that Sandy designed back to your blog. Or help yourself to this one.

Change the World!

Email me about what you’re doing or what we might do. Let’s change the world one bit at a time together. Together it can’t take forever.

The Mic Is On: $100 Million Winners . . . !!!

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It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

What Would You Do With $100 Million?

Cash

We might talk about

  • when we would claim the money
  • When would you claim the money – right away or after you get your ‘ducks in a row’?
  • how much money $100 Million is really worth
  • whether to hire an investment consultant
  • whether to work or run a business
  • what we’d buy
  • where we’d travel
  • what we’d give away
  • what we’d do about expectations from friends and relatives
  • And, whatever else comes up,

including THE EVER POPULAR,
Basil the code-writing donkey.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Open Mic 7pm Chgo Time: $100Million Winners!!!!

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Yes the Mic Will Be on Tonight

Join Us Tonight for Tues. Open Comments

The Topic is: What Would You Do With $100 Million?

How would that impact your life? We might talk about when we would claim the money — right away or after some thought — how much money $100 Million is really worth, whether to hire an investment consultant, whether to work or run a business, what we’d buy, where we’d travel, what we’d give away, and what we’d do about expectations from friends and relatives. I bet we have 100 million ideas in our vision , . .

The rules are simple — be nice.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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