March 27, 2008

Ain’t Misbehavin’ Anymore, Back to My Frequency

ME Liz Strauss wrote this at 5:54 am

Remembering What I Forgot

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I’ve been stuck, watching folks misbehaving. One of those folks has most certainly been me. It seems I forgot some of the fundamental truths I’ve discovered. They got buried under the blankets when I got slammed with that awful flu, and for some reason finding my way back to them was Herculean work.

I forgot that

  • I can’t love someone and keep score of what they’re doing.
  • I can’t be thinking about what they’re actions must say about what they think about me. Truth is they’re not thinking about me at all — I am.
  • I can’t be my best when I’m focused on being let down or angry.

What was I thinking? Unconditional love is unconditional, if I don’t know that . . . My whole life has shown me that I’m always clear and right when I follow that simple frequency.

So, to all of my friends who’ve felt the fallout of a head and heart turned in the wrong direction, I’m sorry. I’ve behaved badly.

I ain’t misbehavin’ anymore. I’m moving forward instead.

Whew! What a relief!

Back to the regularly scheduled changing the world. . . .

What’s your frequency?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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10 Comments to “Ain’t Misbehavin’ Anymore, Back to My Frequency”

  1. March 27th, 2008 at 6:41 am
    Mary Ann said

    Get on, Girlfriend, and welcome back to what is genuine and to what is real.
    *Hugs!*

  2. March 27th, 2008 at 6:47 am
    Joanna Young said

    Seems to me like you were still sharing with us as you went along, letting us know that things weren’t quite right but you didn’t know how or why… You never left my frequency :-)

    Joanna

  3. March 27th, 2008 at 7:05 am
    Benjamin said

    Our frequency is this one, and we are still on it :)

  4. March 27th, 2008 at 7:37 am
    ME Liz Strauss said

    Hey Mary Ann!
    Welcome and thank you!
    I’m feeling great about being back here again!

  5. March 27th, 2008 at 7:39 am
    ME Liz Strauss said

    Hey Joanna!
    You’ve always been the best at knowing so many things. Thanks for always being there. I hide out in your words.

  6. March 27th, 2008 at 7:40 am
    ME Liz Strauss said

    Hi Benjamin!
    Great to see you! I’m glad I’ve got folks like you on a steady course. You keep me grounded. :)

  7. March 27th, 2008 at 12:57 pm
    Ria Kennedy said

    My current frequency is moving from negativity to positivity. I’m trying to go from negative self-talk to positive self-image, positive world image, can-do attitude, etc.

    I particularly like and try to employ “I can’t be thinking about what they’re actions must say about what they think about me. Truth is they’re not thinking about me at all — I am.” Sometimes I’m more successful than others.

  8. March 27th, 2008 at 2:25 pm
    Cath Lawson said

    Hi Liz - I didn’t notice any misbehaving. We all know what we’re meant to do and how we’re supposed to feel, but it isn’t always easy to do it. And if we did, we’d probably die because we had nothing left to learn.

  9. March 27th, 2008 at 3:26 pm
    ME Liz Strauss said

    Hey Ria!
    The way I broke myself out of this funk was to ask what I’d tell someone who was acting just like I was. That was what came to mind, “um, er, I’m sorry, they’re not thinking of you at all.” Soon as I realized that the fog cleared. :)

  10. March 27th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
    ME Liz Strauss said

    Hi Cath!
    Thanks for showing up and showing your support in such clear ways.

    Learning can be a tough thing. I’m glad to have comrades like you beside me. :)

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