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Procrastination: Effects of Procrastination

February 28, 2008 by Liz

Welcome to Part 3 in Gaetano’s series on procrastination. We know the causes. Time to talk about the effects.

Procrastination Mini-Series – Effects

by Gaetano Caruana

Procrastination seems to be fun to do at first but it won’t take long until the procrastinator feels the effects of his/her choice. Procrastination has devastating effects on the person who does it and is completely not worth it. In this part of the procrastination mini-series, I am going to highly some of the procrastination effects, with the hope of making you more aware about procrastination and motivate you to avoid it or work hard to beat it.

Sense of guilt: Even though it is you who choose to procrastinate, you still feel guilty for doing it. The fact that you waste time instead of getting things done makes you feel bad with yourself. Even though, with a lot of effort and working extreme hours, you manage to make it by the deadline of a particular task, you will still feel guilty. This is because you will have doubts whether you could have produced something of better quality if you made good use of your time.

Become a liar: In today’s world nobody works alone. Everyone is part of a team and every team member depends on other members. The fact that you procrastinate and fall behind schedules makes you feel bad, since you keep back the whole team with you. When asked to give reasons for the delays, you start lying to find excuses to cover up your procrastination problem.

Prone to other vices: A study conducted by Fuschia Sirois and Timothy Pychyl of Carleton University, clearly shows that procrastinators are more prone to start other vices such as smoking or abusing alcohol. Starting new vices will further make it difficult for you to stop procrastinating and will further make your life miserable

Health Problems: Living a procrastinator life is not easy! Procrastination has both psychological and physical effects. The same study by Fuschia Sirois and Timothy Pychyl shows that college students that procrastinate in their schoolwork are more likely to have health problems such as suffering from insomnia, diet and exercise problems

Gaetano Caruana writes for the FruitfulTime Blog, where you’ll find the free ebook Stop Procrastination Now.

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Thanks, Gaetano!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Fruitful Time, Gaetano Caruana, procrastination

25 Ways to Love What You Do So That the Money Follows

February 25, 2008 by Liz

Do What You Love — Love What You Do

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Often I work with service professionals to focus their businesses. We identify their unique value proposition — what they bring that no one else can. In that way, we develop a service that they love offering and their clients love too.

Doing what we love can’t be infatuation. After the first congratulations about our new job, other folks might care, but they have their own work to do. They won’t be paying attention to whether we love what we’re doing. Many will take for granted that we’ll get over that that “love thing” in a week or two. Yeah, we need to keep the love alive on our own.

They say, “Do what you love and the money will follow.” I might suggest that it could work better to say

“If you want the money to follow, do what you love and love every bit of what you do.”

25 Ways to Love What You Do So That the Money Follows

It’s the love that gets us up in the morning. On some days, it takes gut-wrenching love to keep us going. Start each morning with these 25 ways to love what you do, and success with be always in view.

  1. Love your clients and everything they care about, even when they’re unreasonable.
  2. Love thinking things through so that they don’t have to worry at all.
  3. Love the clients who change their mind more often than they change their underwear.
  4. Love promoting your work so that folks can find you.
  5. Love the fact that you’re always learning, mostly by doing things wrong.
  6. Love the challenge of figuring out how to pay the rent.
  7. Love the hours you’re working, and working, and working.
  8. Love the accomplishment that makes your client look like a hero.
  9. Love the calls from people who think you have free time to talk to them.
  10. Love that you solve problems before clients even see them.
  11. Love the clients who offer you a chance to learn.
  12. Love that you can sneak in a nap or a movie break now and then.
  13. Love your successes and your failures.
  14. Love the 13-foot commute to your computer.
  15. Love the folks who love you, but don’t “get” what you’re doing.
  16. Love everyone who offers you a chance to show what you can do.
  17. Love the folks who get paid vacations while you wish for a free minute.
  18. Love the chance to be your own boss working for clients who hire you.
  19. Love the chance to do work for free to build your portfolio.
  20. Love the chance to get intimate with your credit card number.
  21. Love deciding for yourself which clients are not a good match for you.
  22. Love meetings when folks wish they could leave the building with you.
  23. Love the feeling of being slightly out of control.
  24. Love that you’re adding your unique value.
  25. Love going to sleep tired, knowing you’ve been doing what you love.

We all define love and success differently. Yet is seems that success comes more easily when we full-out do what we love and love every part of what we do.

What’s your experience with doing what you love? Has it really been easy for you?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, do-what-you-love, Inside-Out Thinking, work

12 Ways to Use Childhood Wisdom to Start Living Your Life

February 24, 2008 by Liz


Stop Growing Up for a Second

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Barring catastrophe, it happens that we all become adults. It’s the cycle of life. We find and define our journey. We leave behind our childish habits and ways. That seems the way a life is supposed to unfold.

I wonder whether we ought to reconsider before we put everything from childhood away. Young children seem to do some things far better than adults.

I’ve never met a small child on a search for personal meaning or one who questioned what life is about.

When we leave behind our childish habits, perhaps we should recall of the wisdom that we had back then.

12 Ways to Use the Childhood Wisdom to Start Living Your Life

  1. Live without question. Young children don’t wonder or worry about life’s meaning. Life is. Anxiety is a habit we learn.
  2. Own your life. Kids take for granted who they are. Ask and they’ll tell you their name. They’re on to dreaming about who they’re going to be. It sure seems to save time to do it their way.
  3. Be alive now. Small children see living and breathing as the same thing. They don’t breathe so that they can live some future day. Kids don’t want to miss a minute. How many minutes have you missed while you were working on a future goal?
  4. Have friends. Young children see everyone as a potential friend. Smiles come easily. Imagine how much friendlier the world must be.
  5. Trust today. Kids meet today without worry of what went wrong yesterday. Without thinking, they trust in an abundant and positive universe. I’ve yet to find where a circumstance changed by worrying, but I know plenty changed by belief in a better day.
  6. Have empathy. Young children care about other people, especially when other people are sad. The comfort given by a small child is humanity at its best.
  7. Try. Small children jump in to what they want to do and pull us along by the hand. Trial and error is how we learned to read.
  8. Be determined. Without determination no child would ever learn to walk. It takes a strong and clever grownup to thwart a small child with a goal.
  9. Be silly. Young children make laughter a goal. Ever make faces for the sole purpose of getting someone to laugh?
  10. Give and be fair. Kids know it’s not nice to take more than you give.
  11. Be curious and grow. Small children figure out bits about how the world works every day. Have you learned something lately by watching a bug?
  12. Listen to people who’ve been there. They ask for stories and constantly say, “Why?” Ever heard a kid say, That’s how we’ve always done it. ?

I’m not suggesting that we act immature. I’m suggesting we reclaim our childhood wisdom to be more alive. After all without childhood wisdom, we never would have gotten to be adults.

What childhood wisdom helps you live your life?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, personal-development, positivity, relationships

Procrastination: The Causes

February 21, 2008 by Liz

Welcome to Part 2 in Gaetano’s series on procrastination. Knowing where it starts seems to be a great place to dig in.

Procrastination Mini-Series – Causes

by Gaetano Caruana

The first step to deal with your procrastination problem is to identify its causes, the reasons why you procrastinate. It is common that a lot of people procrastinate due to a subconscious reason; that is they don’t know exactly why they procrastinate. Others think they know all causes for their procrastination problem. When I started researching procrastination I thought I formed part of the latter but to my surprise, I discovered that I knew only half the reasons why I used to procrastinate.

Fear: For some a particular task or duty seems to be bigger than them making them afraid to face it. In this case procrastination seems to be the easy way out, a form of escapism, from reality.

Escapism: Either because you are afraid to take responsibility of a challenging task or because you are lazy, you choose to escape from reality hence you procrastinate. Such people lie to themselves and come up with excuses such as: having other more important things to do or they need more time to handle that task in order to avoid the challenge posed by a particular duty.

It is very difficult to find out whether you procrastinate due to escapism or because you are afraid. This is because both fear and escapism is most of the time in our subconscious. You have to reflect and be honest to yourself in order to find out whether the above two reasons are in fact what causes you to procrastinate.

Perfectionist: Being aware of the quality of what you produce is an excellent attribute to have. But if you take it too far, perfectionism becomes a minus since it will slow you down. Ideally you only produce perfect stuff but in the real world, you have to learn how to strike a balance between the time it takes to produce something and its quality. Unfortunately perfectionists choose to invest a lot of time in one task from many tasks they need to get done.

Vicious Circle: The fact that in the past you had procrastinated has a direct influence on your future behaviour. People that procrastinated in the past are prone to keep procrastinating. It seems to be extremely difficult to break the chains that hold you back from becoming more productive. Like every other habit procrastination poses a challenge but by applying the right techniques, which will be described in the next article in this series, you can make it easier for yourself to smash your procrastination problem.

Gaetano Caruana writes for the FruitfulTime Blog, where you’ll find the free ebook Stop Procrastination Now.

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Thanks, Gaetano!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Fruitful Time, Gaetano Caruana, procrastination

Wanting Things for Business and for Life

February 21, 2008 by Liz

Wanting, Found Wanting

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We begin using the words, “I want” around age 5. It’s not hard to spot a child who has found them. Stand near a discount store checkout line on a Sunday afternoon, you’ll soon see a child reaching and hear the “but I want it” whine.

Are you in that “wanting” stage with your business and your life?

We all want things for our success. We want to achieve, to believe we’ve made a difference by the work we’ve done. We reach for ways to grow our relationships and our incomes. Sometimes we yearn for whatever meets our eyes. Wanting has an effect on a business and a life.

Positive or negative depends on “the why.”

If we’re wanting to grow a meaningful life or a business, accomplishment brings satisfaction. We celebrate before we find the next mountain to climb. If we’re wanting to measure up, we may achieve the world’s esteem, but the result will be found wanting in our eyes.

How do you keep your positive wanting and lose ideas that you’ll be found wanting?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Know where you’re going with your business and your life.

Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, personal-identity, Wanting

How to Know If You've Lost Track of Your Vision

February 19, 2008 by Liz

Where Do You Want to Be?

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It’s well-thought business wisdom that we need vision for a business or a career. Knowing where we’re going makes our daily decisions easier, quicker, and more lasting, because we’re building a road to a specific destination. Having a vision for our work is the same as having goal we’re saving our money to enjoy — a vacation or a great retirement.

I’ve not met anyone who disagrees with the wisdom of doing that. Yet, when I ask folks about their vision, most people have to stop, find some long ago thought, and dust it off. Holding that vision in the sunlight, they see how long it’s been set aside. Real-time issues and day-to-day decisions have taken all of their attention.

Many folks have lost track of their vision and don’t realize.

How to Know If You’ve Lost Track of Your Vision

If we don’t keep our business vision in our sights, we lose direction. A business vision is the energy that fuels our decisions, especially when situations get trying, and we’re learning new things under new conditions. With no clear focus to guide us, we start to compromise. Here’s how to know if you’ve lost track of your vision.

  • If you wake up in the morning thinking the day is going to be boring, you’ve probably lost track of where you’re going.
  • If you look at your life in the future and what you see is more of what’s right here, you’re not heading anywhere certain.
  • If you’re watching other folks get places and your response is that could have been mine, you’ve set your dream aside.
  • If you think that having a vision for your business is too [put your word here] for a serious person like you, you’ve given up trying.
  • If you cite the roadblocks and barriers to making your vision a reality and consistently stop there, your vision is just a story.

The road to making a most amazing vision happen is paved with our thoughts, our passion, and our decisions. No outside barrier can stop a person who’s willing to stay fully invested in getting where they want to go. Winners keep their vision in front of them, adjusting and tweaking it to fit reality and their changing skill set. They do the work and stay the course, holding onto the future they see, even when other choices come along.

That’s the purpose of having a vision — to guide us to where we want to go.

Is time to take out your vision and dust it off again or are you on the road to making it happen? Do you know where you’re going?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, having a vision, Inside-Out Thinking, planning

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