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The Joys of Family Roles

January 10, 2007 by Chris Cree

Road Trip

Family vacations. Sometimes they take come in the form of visiting special places for fun and relaxation. Or maybe they are wonderful holiday pilgrimages to see family and friends.

My wife and I just got back from our 11 state Holiday Tour and the whole thing has got me thinking about the different family roles we take on.

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I’m not talking about the traditional formal roles that fall to each of us such as husband, wife, mother, father, bread winner, etc. But after nearly 9 years of marriage I’m beginning to see some patterns in our informal roles each time my wife and I get ready to go on a trip.
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Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Chris-Cree, Family, One Way to CC It, relationships, Roles

What Is He Talking About? Chris Cree on Facing Our Hidden Prejudices

December 29, 2006 by Chris Cree

“No matter how horrid a person may appear on the surface, if you dig deeper, you will find some nice, unexpected little quality.” —Brooke Astor

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One of the biggest causes of conflict in this world is the snap judgments we make about people based on ridiculously limited information.

As we go through life, it is only natural to lump people into categories instead of treating them as the unique individuals they really are. And, when left unchecked, that mental lumping together creates a fertile ground for prejudice to blossom.

It is especially easy when someone rubs us the wrong way. The next time we see people who seem to fit into a category as the one who ruffled our feathers, we are much more likely to ride in with shields up and guns blazing. But all that does is further their stereotype of people like you.

Snap judgments only add fuel to the fire which can have a tendency to flare up from time to time.

I can be guilty of it myself. Interestingly my one big prejudice that I’ve had to work to overcome doesn’t have anything to do with skin color, nationality, religious alignment, gender, sexual orientation, political affiliation, economic status, or any of the other major categories that we tend to lump people in.

As a result, for many years I deluded myself into thinking that I wasn’t prejudiced at all. But my prejudice was more subtle and as a result much, much more insidious. [Read more…]

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What is He Talking About? Chris Cree on Equality

December 23, 2006 by Chris Cree

“Once the game is over, the King and the pawn go back in the same box.”
–Italian Proverb

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Today’s quote is a great commentary on status and that final equalizer, death. It doesn’t matter whether we’re rich or poor, female or male, lazy or hard working, successful or bumbling, Donald Trump or Rosie O’Donnell, eventually all of us will breath our last breath.

You see in spite of Thomas Jefferson’s lovely sentiment we are not all created equal. It’s an empowering idea, to be sure. It’s the kind of thing that inspires a nation to seek it’s independence.

But it is simply not true.

In fact we are hardly equal at all. I’m taller than many folks and at the same time shorter than others. So we aren’t equal in height. Really most of us aren’t even close to equal physically.

Me, I’m not a very fast runner. Nor am I particularly handy when it comes to fixing things.

We all have differences in education, work ethic, economic resources, ethical understanding, and family size. We’ve all heard different messages when we were growing up, were given different amounts of encouragement to pursue our passions, and had different options presented to us along the way.

And that’s not to say that folks can’t overcome some serious handicaps in any or all of these areas to accomplish tremendous things. Or that folks of great privilege never experience big falls.

That old investment disclaimer always applies. “Past performance does not guarantee future returns.”

However, in spite of all of our immense inequalities that proverb above is true. When it’s all said and done, each of us will end up effectively in the same box. The probability of each of us dying is exactly 1. It is one way each and every one of us is created equal.

Think about that the next time you pass someone on the highway with a much nicer car than yours. Or one that is nowhere nearly as nice. Or someone who doesn’t even have a car.

Think about what really is important when it’s all said and done.

–Chris Cree, SuccessCREEations

Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Chris-Cree, Equality, Guest-Writer, One Way to CC It, Thomas-Jefferson

What is He Talking About? Chris Cree on the Center of the Universe

December 16, 2006 by Chris Cree

“When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.” – Bernard Bailey

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In our increasingly self absorbed, instant gratification, microwave, victimhood, no consequences society it seems there is an ever growing number of folks who are in for a shocker whenever whatever branch of science actually does discover the center of the universe.

Since I’ve got it so much together I thought I’d share a partial list of folks who are especially in danger of this disappointment. If you are any of these people you might want to consider your “Me-centric” view of the universe.

Are you someone who

  • Refuses to pull over from the fast lane to let others pass
  • Chronically makes peoples wait for appointments
  • Listens to your iPod so loud folks six seats away know exactly what song you are listening to
  • Gets in the grocery express lane with way more than 10 items
  • Lets your kids jump on the tables at restaurants
  • Likes to talk way above a whisper at movies
  • Attempts to refinance your mortgage at the ATM while the line backs up behind you
  • Isn’t nice
  • Or happens to be me?

If so, please wake up! Bernard’s warning is just for you.

–Chris Cree, SuccessCREEations.

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We Were Conspiring: Now Chris Is Writing at Successful Blog!

December 9, 2006 by Liz

Welcome Chris!

Today, I am delighted to announce that a friend, a great guy, and someone we all know is a bigger part of Successful Blog. Chris Cree now is a contributor with a column that expands and enhances what’s already happening here. Chris will be talking about ideas too. He’s got some plans that are definitely what we define as cool.

I thought it was time for a male voice and another point of view. Chris, being Chris, didn’t waste one breath agreeing with me.

Don’t think I didn’t notice that Chris’s lack of disagreement. It’s what convinced me the idea would work out perfectly.

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You’ll know when it’s Chris, the one who makes sense, when you see his name in the byline. Oh yeah and of course, there will be that great big series button. Click this one — Like the clever title? — to take you to his first post.

This is only the first cool thing for Successful-Blog 2007!! Keep an eye out for the rest of our Blue Ocean Strategy.

Welcome, Chris! It’s nice to have you!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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