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Would You Help Me Answer this Man Who Has a Dream?

October 1, 2008 by Liz

The Comment and the Dream

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In January, 2008, I wrote a strategy called How to Make Your Dream Come True — Thought, Strategy, Action. The article included these steps (abbreviated here).

  1. Define the dream.
  2. Define where you sit.
  3. Plot your strategy.
  4. Detail your needs.
  5. Determine your commitment.
  6. Enlist support and advocates.
  7. Write the story.
  8. Know how you’ll ask.
  9. Define yourself by the dream.

Yesterday. September 30, 2008, a man wrote two comments in response. I bring them forward here unedited.

September 30th, 2008 at 4:28 pm e
Pama said Hello,
I’m writing because I have nothing to lose except to not fulling my dream. I cannot allow my dream to just remain only my dream. I must make it into reality. About five years before 9-11-01 I had a thought, a way I could earn a living, travel and help our US Military families and our fallen hero families. I had defined my dream, worked up my plan of action, worked with success to make it all happen. Then as I was almost to seeing my dream to into reality two things happened to set me back lightyears. I was hit hard but not yet down. Rebuilt, regrouped and moved forward again. Life was helping me realize my dream again. Then like a bad storm, 2005 hit me slap in the face. Left with very little and a buring dream still not fulfilled. Its been years, stories, hopes, hard work and I am in my later fifties now. I have not giving up but the endless goals to reach my dream are showing its toll on me and my money stream. I have never once asked for money, nor have I asked for help from others out side of my mother (in her 80s now). I want to see my dream through to its highest potential. Any advise would be much needed and applied to my goal of realizing my dream. Thank you for your blog site and I have enjoyed your wisdom. Pama

September 30th, 2008 at 4:41 pm e
Pama said Please forgive me for all the misselled words and bad grammer, half thoughts. I was typing straight from my heart, not my mind. I knew if I stopped long enough to make the needed corrections I would chicken out and never hit the send Submit Button. Hope you understand, writing here is a huge step for me. Thanks again, Pama

military rose_from_geek_philosopher

Dear Pama,

I sit staring at the months-old blog post where you left this comment yesterday. I wish I knew more about your situation. I have many questions. I’ll simply respond this sentence that implies whether you should keep going on.

I have not giving up but the endless goals to reach my dream are showing its toll on me and my money stream.

Be certain that you’re not moving forward because you don’t want to give up. It’s human to hold onto a losing battle because we don’t want to think we lost. We put our head down and end up losing more because we don’t see that we’ve changed, the game has changed, and so has the world. So reevaluate before you keep go for that dream. Stop. Go somewhere. Sit on the side of a mountain. Think of life without it. Then if you go again, start from the beginning and know exactly what dream you’re going for.

That way you’ll be certain the dream is still out there. After all, once upon a time a boy could dream of leading a caravan across the desert. That choice has gone.

You’ve never asked for help. . . . why not?

Seeking knowledge and requesting someone’s aid in moving something forward is willingness to show a commitment to your dream and to yourself. Asking for help can be an investment in a relationship. It also allows the giver a chance to be generous and to contribute what they do far better than you ever will be able to do. Mostly importantly, it elevates your cause by allowing others to be part.

Asking for help is a sign of trust. Is your dream big enough to share? Can you trust folks to be part of your dream?

Those are my thoughts. I hope they’re even close to where you are.
I wish you hope, energy, and the wisdom you need.

Liz

If You’re Reading . . .

Please help me answer this man who has a dream. Add to my response or correct what I’ve gotten wrong.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: advice, bc, Dreams, goals, wishes

The Mic is On: It’s about Shiny Object Syndro-

September 30, 2008 by Liz

It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

Oh Look!

Surely, you’ve heard of Shiny Object Syndrome — that behavior that allows any small change to be a distraction. Are you plagued by it? Shiny objects seem to be everywhere these days. Tonight we’re talking about shiny objects:

  • Do you get distracted easily?
  • Is it getting harder and harder to hold people’s attention?
  • Do you think shiny objects are a bigger problem than they once were?
  • Is shiny object syndrome only found on the Internet?
  • ahem . . .

shiny object

And, whatever else comes up, including THE EVER POPULAR, Basil the code-writing donkey . . . and flamenco dancing (because we always get off topic, anyway.)

Oh, and bring example links of shiny objects to share.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
image: sxc.hu
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Open Mic 7pm Chgo Time: It’s about Shiny Object Syndr-

September 30, 2008 by Liz

Join Us Tonight

Oh Look at . . .

Surely, you’ve heard of Shiny Object Syndrome — that behavior that allows any small change to be a distraction. Are you plagued by it? Shiny objects seem to be everywhere these days.

  • Do you get distracted easily?
  • Is it getting harder and harder to hold people’s attention?
  • Do you think shiny objects are a bigger problem than they once were?
  • Is shiny object syndrome only found on the Internet?
  • ahem . . .

Oh, and bring example links to share — shiny objects are fun.

The rules are simple — be nice.

Do be nice. 🙂

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Have You Organized Your Social Media Thinking Lately?

September 30, 2008 by Liz


Answers Included

The Living Web

You may be wondering about this organized thinking . . . I’ve been asked twice in the past few weeks to write up educational standards for writing social media training materials. This part two of that endeavor.

I’ve found that organizing my thinking around social media has been a good thing. Have you organized your thinking lately?

It’s a

Social Media Expertise Pop Quiz

Don’t worry it comes complete with answers.

Answer Key

Knowledge — click twice to see the image in its largest form.

Conversation Prism

Comprehension — Key values include

  • Markets are conversations in control of customers.
  • Great products connect people to people.
  • Permission and attraction gain attention.
  • Customers remix what was consistent.
  • Helpful and relevant beats hypeful and sell-avant.

Application — One possible answer might be:

  • LinkedIn — because you’re in the biotech industry. Your key influencers are already there. Start a group with a biweekly article submission from your R&D staff. Investment of about 5-10 hours setting up a profile and connecting initially and then about 5-10 hours/month.
  • A blog to keep current information flowing and start connecting with key customers through interviews and articles.
  • Twitter — because a background study has shown that younger members of your industry are there. Find one employee to champion both Twitter and the blog. Choose this employee as you would choose any outward facing informational representative of the company.

Analysis — We’ll know what’s working by the response. We’ll get relevant, interesting human answers and comments. When we ask questions, real customers will give us real feedback. Measurement to be determined by goals of the client.

Synthesis and Evaluation These are agreements made with the client, but they should be specific, quantifiable and measurable.

What Do You Care?

Whatever you do in some manner you’re a teacher. If you look at the list in the pop quiz above what’s laid out there is merely a list for organizing thinking of subject matter from art lessons to how to cook. Take a long look.

Just as it’s a fine and fun thing now and then to clean off my desk. It’s a delight to do some serious organized thinking. We’ll now return to my right brain and creativity for the rest of the week.

How have you organized your thinking lately?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Do You See Your Wallflower Self Wrong?

September 30, 2008 by Liz

Ever Seen One?

Yesterday at Brogan’s blog, Mark Hayward wrote a great post about being shy when attending conferences and other social situations. He called it Wallflower Syndrome.

Perhaps you’ve had some experience with that condition?
I have and still have moments when it returns. Truth is if I don’t plan well, a room filled with new people easily can shake my thinking.

I read what Mark wrote with interest and found a lot of what I do in his suggestions, but what surprised me what the photo that he chose to illustrate the feelings of wallflower-edness. He picked a sweet kitten in the grass.

Maybe that’s been part of the problem . . . I’ve been seeing the wallflower me all wrong.

Somehow I had this picture in my head that wallflowers were scraggly. dark green, barely surviving plant-like things. In my fish-eye imagination, a wallflower was a limp spinach mess with small wilted purple petals in a brown granny dress sitting in front of yellowing wallpaper.

How did I get that picture in my head?

Awkward and ugly was what wallflower always meant to me.

From junior high school school dances to certain networking events since,
that image of a spinach thing in a granny dress defined me the first second I felt shy or self-conscious in a group of more than three.

If I made the unfortunate mistake of walking near a wall, the game would soon before I could miss the thought of a wallflower and the image would make me feel even smaller.

Wallflower_from_sxc.hu

Then this morning, I saw this picture of a wallflower.

I’m feeling sort of duped and wondering . . .

I’m thinking that I’ve been seeing my wallflower self all wrong. I wonder whether you’ve been doing that?

What if I had seen myself as Mark’s kitten or known a wallflower could look like this one? Would shyness have been a different experience?

Do you suppose that could make a difference?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Ive-been-thinking, shyness, wallflowers

A Rubric for Social Media Expertise

September 29, 2008 by Liz

People at All Levels Are Teaching

The Living Web

As the living web begins to seamlessly integrate into our concrete cultures and as our lives become globally intertwined, businesses are beginning to investigate what this means. Though the idea of markets as conversations may have started with Cluetrain ten years ago, but it has only become business credible with the advent of what we’re calling Web 2.0 and social media.

In recent years, major enterprise, telcos, cablecoms, and mainstream media have found more reason than not to look at social web models as unsound. Meanwhile we’ve been exploring concepts such as influence, authority, transparency, permission marketing, and experimenting with social media tools and networks to understand how a customer-centered market actually works.

It’s a story of a

  • returning to the culture of a village,
  • reversing the marketing paradigm,
  • and changing the scale from
    what was set in concretely in time and space
    to what is virtually asynchronous and instantaneously lasting.

It’s totally different from what went before and yet, in many ways, it’s still the same. Can you spell paradox?

Now companies are investigating how social media might move them forward. They’re hiring people to show them how to use social media tools and networks in the most effective and efficient ways.

How does a company recognize an expert from a beginner?
How do we explain that we know what we know?

A Rubric for Establishing Social Media Expertise

The development of any intellectual skill set follows an ordered sequence of Cognitive steps that was published in 1956 by Benjamin Bloom and a team of cognitive psychologists at the University of Chicago. Bloom’s Taxonomy was laid out to measure capability in three domains — Cognitive (mental), Affective (emotional), and Psychomotor (physical). In Bloom’s Taxonomy, it’s understood that each level must be mastered before the next level can take place.

Since Bloom’s is thought to be the most widely applied rubric for building and measuring educational and training programs to this day. It makes sense to use it when building a rubric for a field of knowledge or thought, such as social media expertise. So pulling from educational background and a couple of decades at using Bloom’s taxonomy in writing critical thinking programs I apply it here now.

This chart is outlines the Cognitive Skills.

Bloom’s Taxonomy Chart

Social Media Knowledge — Recalling data and information.

If we’re working at the knowledge level we can name the social media sites and their uses. We can probably repeat the demographics of Digg or StumbleUpon and recall the differences between those sites and Flickr. We still have a problem explaining or interpreting the appeal of one tool over another.

Social Media Comprehension — Understanding the meaning of the data, translating the experience, interpreting instructions, and restating in one’s own words.

If we comprehend the use of social media tools and sites we’re able to explain why people use the various networks. We can generalize about how the tools work. We’re able to introduce the tools to a new user. We can summarize the rules, generalize the codes of behavior, and even model how to use them. We’re still exploring the depth and breadth and variety of uses for each of the tools. We’re also discovering the pros and cons of using each of them. However while we’re still gaining comprehension, we’re not ready to explain the return of specific tools to a specific client situation.

Social Media Application — Putting abstract thought to work in new situations.

If we’re at this level, when like problems are mentioned, we no longer automatically offer like solutions. We’re beginning to ask more questions. We’re looking at each tool to see how it meets goals. We might start with a benchmark plan, but we modify it as we gain information. Predicting outcomes with certainty is mostly luck while we’re at this level.

Social Media Analysis — Troubleshooting a plan, separating the whole into component parts to understand the most efficient course of action. Finding hidden fallacies and untested assumptions.

This is the point at which we get to the “concrete” of the situation. We deconstruct the tools to their component parts. We start to describe the kinds of traffic, the kinds of social sites, the kinds of sharing and conversation. We look to the time lines of engagement, the ROI of participation, and how they apply to each client’s schedule and budget constraints. We can talk about what works and what doesn’t. We can identify the influencers, the common wisdom, and the myths that cause problems. We know what what we should be tracking and testing. This level is tactical. True strategy requires more experience.

Social Media Synthesis — Building a pattern from the bits of information, forming a new meaningful whole that we can articulate.

When we’ve synthesize the experience of working with the tools, sites, and culture of social media, we’re able to predict and develop true strategy and process. We can design business models that we can rely on with some confidence, because they’re backed by history we recall, understand, have applied, analysed, and can articulate. This is strategic integration. It doesn’t mean we can’t make a mistake or misread a situation.

Social Media Evaluation — Judging the value of ideas, performance, process, or products. Testing, constantly testing. . . .

And it scaffolds up again and again through the cognitive skills levels. Just as we think we know something, we’re learning more again.

This is part of the reason we end up specialists. You get to synthesis on Twitter and FriendFeed is waiting around the corner.

Naturally, if you come to social media with years of marketing or customer service background, you’re probably at the top of the scale. But in a new frontier no one can claim full status quite yet.

How to Use the Rubric

What’s the use of this information? Change those “We can” statements to questions and you’ve got an evaluation or appraisal tool. Use it as it is to benchmarck a starting point or to frame the outcomes for training clients. Check your current practices to see whether you’re offering training in the right order.

What would you add to this rubric? How can we make it more useful for us and our clients?

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Bloom's Taxonomy, social media expertise, social-media rubric

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