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Got a Halo or Horns? First Minutes Last

May 27, 2009 by Liz


Showing Up for the First Test

When I was in college, I was struck with massive migraine on the day of an important class final. As I picked up my pen, the words on the page moved before my eyes as I tried to write. I brought this to the attention of the professor, who moved me into his office for the “lovely” experience.

I have to say I must have done dismally — at least not stellar — on that written exam. But I still Aced the class.

The most important test in that class was the first one, not the final. That was when the professor decided whether I was intelligent, whether I was a serious student, invested in learning. That first test left an indelible impression about who I am.

From that day forward, I always studied hardest for the first test in every class.

Halo or Horns

It’s called the “halo effect.” It’s a cognitive bias we all have toward what we decide from the start. Interviewers and clients, customers, … all of us … decide almost immediately from an initial trait or perception whether something is “good” or “bad.”
Research abounds on the topic … Wikipedia describes it well.

Physically attractive people are perceived to have an array of attractive qualities.

A bracelet in a Tiffany catalogue is perceived as more valuable than one in craft shop.

We make those assumptions in seconds on as little as a single trait generalized over an entire subject area. It makes sense in sorting the world on a global scale, but is error ridden in the specific instance.

The problem is that one we decide, we support our instant diagnosis by interpretting information in favor of our bias. We even work toward proving the premise. We’ll give the attractive person benefit for great qualities we’ve never seen or experienced. We’ll ask the “less impressive” interview candidate harder questions and be more critical of the answers. We’ll underscore the reasons that a craft jeweler can’t produce Tiffany quality.

If we love you, your faux pas was an accident. If we don’t, it was surely evil intent.

According to the research, even when we know that we’re biased by our first impressions and perceptions, we still can’t stop our halo effect response. It shows up in

  • brands we buy
  • candidates we hire
  • friends we defend
  • music we like
  • people we admire
  • politicians we elect
  • social media platforms we stay with
  • the insults we perceive or forgive
  • the causes we support

And Byron Kalies of training zone made a pointed out a fundamental flaw in this characteristic of human perception. .

It seems sensible and strikes a chord with us because we’ve all done it. We’ve all made an instant decision and found out it was true in the face of all the evidence. However, I wonder how often we’ve made an instant decision and found it to be wrong? I guess we don’t remember those occasions. There’s a phrase for this in psychological jargon – ‘bottom drawer evidence’. This concerns the mass of evidence gathered that doesn’t fit the theory and is conveniently hidden in the bottom drawer.

It takes serious energy and time to reverse thinking like that. Makes more sense to get the first minutes right. Invest, relate, and establish credibility that lasts.

Halo or horns. No person or product is all good or all bad. Yet the product lesson is clear. The “halo effect” makes fiercely loyal fans who evangelize and argue for the validity of their perceptions.

Got a good example of the halo effect in your life?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Customer Think, Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Customer Think, fiercely loyal customers, LinkedIn, the halo effect

The Mic is On: We're Talking Star Trek, Star Wars, Sci Fi Night

May 26, 2009 by Liz


It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

Let’s Boldy Go …

Some nights on the interwebs can seem like we’ve embarked on the last frontier. Why not boldly go one step further and explore the explorer of science fiction world?
We might talk about

  • Sci-Fi Movies
  • Sci-Fi Books
  • E T
  • Dune
  • Joe’s Alien and Dr. Who
NIX photo, robot arm over Earth
NIX photo, robot arm over Earth

And, whatever else comes up, including THE EVER POPULAR, Basil the code-writing donkey . . . and flamenco dancing (because we always get off topic, anyway.)

Oh, and bring example links.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
image: sxc.hu
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Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog_promotion, discussion, letting_off_steam, living-social-media, Open_Comment_Night

Ask Letterman … What's Not to Love About a List?

May 26, 2009 by Liz


Lists

Have you noticed how much of our information has become lists — TV, magazines, the interwebs love lists? The ten most amazing, most marvelous, most something this or that . . . is ingrained in every media. Even children’s learn-to-read books have started to favor lists. David Letterman has the best of them … click the image to check them out.

Here’s a list that lists why lists have taken center stage in the world of content.

  • Lists are easy to build.
  • They don’t require segues or transitional phrasing.
  • They don’t require deep research or extensive fact checking.
  • Most lists match the average attention span of a bus ride, coffee break, or other infosnack.
  • Lists can be built in a fraction of the time a piece of depth might take.
  • Lists are very bottom-line oriented.
  • A quality list is . . . what you see is what you get.

Lists are the sound bytes of print. They’re easy, quick, and often useful. The writer makes a point and readers move on feeling satisfied that they’ve heard something complete and whole — without too much work.

What’s not to love about that? Hmmmmm.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, LinkedIn, lists, Writing

Open Mic 7pm Chgo Time: It's Star Trek, Star Wars, Sci Fi Night

May 26, 2009 by Liz

Join Us Tonight

JOIN US TONIGHT AT 7PM

C’mon Let’s Boldly Go …

Some nights on the interwebs can seem like we’ve embarked on the last frontier. Why not boldly go one step further and explore the explorer of science fiction world?
We might talk about

  • Sci-Fi Movies
  • Sci-Fi Books
  • E T
  • Dune
  • Joe’s Alien and Dr. Who

Oh, and bring example links.

The rules are simple — be nice.

Do be nice. 🙂

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog_promotion, discussion, letting_off_steam, living-social-media, Open_Comment_Night

A Sacrifice Deserving More Attention

May 25, 2009 by Liz

We have holidays to celebrate and marks days of celebration or days of meaning. Stores close. Families and friends do things with the time away from their usual work day routines.

We stand or sit along the curb to watch parades of the floats and bands. Sometimes the people in the parade don’t even know the event behind the long line in which they’re participating.

The holiday today in our United States is to remember the soldiers who fought under our flag. They gave their lives for us — even those of us who are still living. Every soldier gives the time of his or her life to do what he or she is doing. Some never recover from that sacrifice — their service.

Last night, Mark Goulston wrote, I don’t think honoring those who gave so much so we can be free — the soldiers, veterans, police, firefighters and their families — is enough; we need to repay them for their sacrifice.

One way to do that is to share VETERANS’ AID AND ATTENDANCE SPECIAL PENSION — which allows for for Veterans and surviving spouses who require the regular attendance of another person to assist in eating, bathing, dressing, undressing or taking care of the needs of nature to receive additional monetary benefits. It also includes individuals who are blind or a patient in a nursing home because of mental or physical incapacity. Assisted care in an assisted living facility also qualifies. … VeteranAid.org

Another way is to thank the veterans you meet for their service.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Community, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Memorial Day, veteran aid

Thanks to Week 187 SOBs

May 23, 2009 by Liz

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Successful and Outstanding Bloggers

Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,

Purple SOB Button Original SOB Button Red SOB Button Purple and Blue SOB Button
and the right to call themselves
Successful Blog SOBs.

I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.

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They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.

I thank all of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.

Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her to me. Thie award carries a “Liz said so” guarantee, is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and is backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.

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Want to become an SOB?

If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame– A-Z Directory . Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog-promotion, Directory-of-Successful-Blogs, Successful and Outstanding Blogs

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