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Top 10 Social Media Fears that Go Bump in the Night and How to Make Them Worse!

October 31, 2011 by Liz

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In honor of Halloween, I’ve updated this advice, I first wrote in 2007. Read it now and be wise. heh heh.

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It’s the middle of the night. The wind is blowing. The moon is high. Creaking noises are sounding. Memories of comments are running through your head, and you’re thinking of emails you sent that went unanswered.

You had such hope when you started in social media. It was daytime. You were always laughing then. Now you’re just shell of yourself in despair, dejected, and broken. Your socmed fears have taken over with the things that go bump in the night.

Not to worry.
Wait, sorry.
Indeed with just a little more worry, you have the power to take those concerns beyond the social business world!!
Go for it. . . . give in to it … become a mess on the floor.

The Top 10 Social Media Fears and How to Make Them Worse

As you read, remember, the more you buy into these, the better you’ll be at crippling yourself. Here’s your chance to prove you’re good at something besides misspelling words online and making social goofs.

If you’re faint of heart, read no further. Jumping without a parachute and shooting yourself in the foot require a certain dedication to being . . . hopeless.

    10. Fear of Looking Like a Fool Don’t go near the comment box on any blog. Stay away from posting on Facebook. If you make a remark on Twitter or ask question on LikedIn, folks might find out about you. If you find you’re having trouble keep silent, translate your thoughts into a language you don’t understand. You need this fear in your repertoire — Fear the clueless, pest that everyone knows you are.

    9. Fear of Content See how much better every other person’s content is. Count the ways that you’ll never be half that good. Write the reasons. Frame them. Put them on a wall in your line of vision. Feel the fear of an undisciplined wimp who is inept when you do your best work.

    8. Fear of To-Do Lists Think up at least 5.000 urgent things you MUST do — blog tweaks, promotion spots, Twitter updates, Facebook posts, shares to buy and sell on Empire Avenue, LinkedIn status updates, blogs to read and not comment on. Don’t stop until the list could only be done by 83.479 people. (Get the math right, not 84,000 or 83,479. Be precise.) You’ve moved up a level on the fear chart. Fear how lazy and shiftless you are. [What does shiftless mean?]

    7. Fear of Code Tweak your website template for hours to fix minute details. Then copy and paste the original stylesheet back onto the site, throwing your own work away. Changing the code should fill you with fear that you are an egotistical and anal-retentive rat.

    6. Fear of the Numbers Check your stats. Hit refresh every 30 seconds for an hour. If your page views don’t rise by 100,000 or more between clicks, start reading every blog post you can about how to improve your social media ROI. Write three blog posts. Publish them. Spam all of your social networks with their links as soon as you might. Then do the whole thing again. Fear being exposed as a woeful underachiever.

    5. Fear of Ideas Hunt down the perfect idea — the one that will get you tetweeted all day and on the front page of every social sharing site. (Great ideas have nothing to do with readers.) If you don’t find that perfect idea, you are ridiculously dimwitted and slow. Fear that everyone knows what an idealess idiot you are.

    4. Fear of Relationships Link out in every sentence of every post you write. Link to anyone who has ever said “hello.” Link to rocks, trees, and statues, if you can. DM your links to everyone you’ve connected to on all your social sites, whether you’ve said hello to them or not. It will take forever, but people will notice how desperate you are. Link promiscuously, while you fear people see you as an anti-social hermit and a prude.

    3. Fear of Saying “No” Answer all email, including spam. Always do what folks ask — buy, do, sign up, attend, subscribe. You’ll prove you’re needed. Fear that those you gently refuse will call you jerk or go higher and fear that no one would know who you are or care.

    2. Fear of the Written Word Get out your dictionary and Thesaurus. Be sure you have two grammar books near. Use words so large that you can’t say or spell them. Be sure that you write unintelligible mush. See every teacher you ever had finding out how much you forgot. Fear that you’re not only a slacker, but also a bottom-of-the-barrel communicator.

    1. Fear of Your Personal Worth All of your fears come together here. If you can’t get those first 9 right, then what could you possibly be good for? This the crown jewel. You have made it to the consummate fear of all . . . fear you are a worm.

On this deep, dark, dastardly night, you no longer have to be a shell of yourself in despair, dejected, and broken. You can be crippled and hopeless too — melted down into unrecoverable mess. Follow this Top Ten List, and you’ll show the world what fear is really for.

On the other hand, if you would rather get out of your funk, give up those fears, and come back to us. . . .

Definitely, positively, and for sure, surround yourself with positive people, because positive people make positive things happen. Wouldn’t you rather …

Build Opportunity into Your Life Right Now!

Find the Irresistible Rock Start in You.

Choose and Tell Your Best True Story

Grow With the Community Who Loves to Tell Your Story

Take on the Top 10 Ways to Start Living Your Life

Happy Halloween!

Be Irresistible!

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, fear, LinkedIn, relationships, social-media, success

Thanks to Week 315 SOBs

October 29, 2011 by Liz

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Successful and Outstanding Bloggers

Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,

Purple SOB Button Original SOB Button Red SOB Button Purple and Blue SOB Button
and the right to call themselves
Successful Blog SOBs.

I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.

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They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.

I thank all of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.

Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her to me. Thie award carries a “Liz said so” guarantee, is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and is backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.

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Want to become an SOB?

If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame– A-Z Directory . Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog-promotion, SOB-Directory, SOB-Hall-of-Fame, Successful and Outstanding Blogs

How to Strategically Pull High-Opportunity from High-Risk Danger

October 25, 2011 by Liz

What Separates Opportunity from Risk?

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For me, growing up the youngest child came with a huge set of challenges. Courtesy of my two big brothers, I faced daily occasions to show or say that “I might be smaller, but I can hold my own on this proverbial dance floor.”

No matter where we are in the birth order learning to talk, walk, eat, read, ride a bike, swim, and cross the street are challenges that most of conquer as we find our identities. Conquering the challenges of social interactions and the personal particularities of our families, friends, teachers, teammates, bosses, clients, and customers add to the list. We learn those too watching, listening, attempting, adjusting, and eventually mastering.

Most challenges take the appropriate mix and measure of experience, personality, and motivation.

Challenges also motivate by the way they make something happen. They offer a way to gain ground or to conquer new skills and learning. The most exciting challenges are the ones in which risk may be there, but failure simply isn’t considered. On the other hand, taking on an unseen risk can be a ready-made failure.

What separates high opportunity from high risk danger?

High Opportunity, Low Risk Challenges

Long before we get to school, we’ve conquered plenty of learning. All learning is a series of incrementally increasingly difficult challenges that we conquer. We move forward and upward one step, one concept, one skill at time, repeating and relearning at slightly more challenging and more complex levels.

A well chosen challenge — like learning to walk when we’re ready — inspires the determination to scale mountains, ford rivers, navigate detours, roadblocks and fences to reach the ultimate successes. That challenge is a matter of finding success with total disregard to the possibility of failure. Falling down is simply a time to start again. Opportunities that offer sort of scaffolding builds skills, knowledge, and confidence with a possibility of failure but essentially no risk beyond loss of the time involved.

When they’re constructed naturally, learning challenges are high opportunity and low risk.

How to Strategically Pull High-Opportunity from High-Risk Danger

Risk and challenge are not opposite conditions. They often coexist in the same business proposition. We can define high-opportunity challenge as a difficult task matched to our skill set and experience that brings a reward such learning, advantage or new ground with it. If undertaken strategically, risk in that is limited. To limit that risk, we need to understand how gets dangerous.

What is risk anyway?

Risk is underlined and defined by cost. Risk means I might lose something dear that I value. I might give up something I can’t recover. I might find I am without something that I love, need, or desire.

The risk is not defined by solely by failure – (unless success is the something dear I value). Defining risk is defining what could be in jeopardy if we move forward.

With the right skills and conditions, the risk of a challenge is lower, but whether we see that depends on our mindset, skill set, personality, and experience. A realistic pessimist who has recently hit hard times might see risk everywhere. An idealistic optimist who has yet to fall down might be blind to the risks of the path he or she is proposing.

A strategic understanding of risk is sounder than seeing risk everywhere or being blind to it.

How to pull high opportunity from high-risk danger

We can mitigate the risk and test the challenge presented by any business proposition by evaluating the key strategic variables. Here’s how to do that.

  • Proposition: Define the business proposition in a concrete fashion. Give it measurable parameters — We will release the first offer consisting of [product description] that will [value and value proposition] by [time] to [audience] using [resource] to accomplish that with a return of [expected audience / market / $$ growth].
  • Position: Mitigate risk by finding the strengths in your unique position — your size, relative market share, audience awareness, reach, core competencies — and the advantages that come from these. Look for glaring risks in your position that are uncontrollable. Can you turn any of them into working advantages or strengths? For example, if you back is against the wall, you don’t need to monitor or protect that direction.
  • Conditions: Lower risk by letting condition support your success. Can you leverage the climate or cycles within your industry to support what you’re proposing? Is there a growing trend that you might align with to increase your growth?
  • Benchmarks and Decisions: Lessen danger by building in benchmarks at key decision points. How can you break the proposition into several “go/no go” stages? What is the risk of each one? Can you build an alternate outcome for the “no go” choice at each stage?
  • Systems and Relationship Networks: Structure the proposition to ensure scaffolded learning and gradually increasing investment. Can you build your customer base while you build your product or service? Can you test release to build to the customer’s tastes? How do you stage the development infrastructure to be financed by the first releases of the product or with strategic relationships? Set up systems to constant test for the hidden opportunities, and subtle differences from original expectations. See the patterns and respond to them.

Is it possible to risk at 30,000 feet and still fly with a safety net? I don’t think so. If you never risk, you never change. If we only take on low-risk challenges, will we ever learn the art of pushing the envelope, finding the edge of the universe, defining a industry leading purpose?

Find the risk that fits your calling, releases your spirit, and shows you know where you are going.

Would a risk of that nature be a risk at all?

Maybe there is no such thing as high-risk danger when you follow your instincts, evaluate the strategic variables, understand your unique position, leverage the conditions, worry out the secret chances, set up the systems, stage your decisions and incorporate key strategic relationships. The rest is mindset.

High opportunity is about moving forward. A high-risk danger is about not moving backward.

How do you pull high opportunity from high-risk danger?

Be irresistible.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Strategy/Analysis, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, LinkedIn, risk management, Strategy/Analysis

How Do You Get the First Client? Five Critical Steps

October 24, 2011 by Liz

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As I talk to new entrepreneurs, I find that one burning problem is their biggest frustration.
The problem cuts to the basics of growing a thriving business. It applies every business online and offline. It’s the most important question and the one that least often gets mentioned.

The problem came up in a conversation I had at SOBCon NW in Portland. The conversation went like this …

Me: Did you get a chance to talk to AJ about his business?
New Entrepreneur: Yes.
Me: So, it seems like what he’s doing correlates well to where you want to be.
New: Yeah. True. He told me a lot about where I want to be, but what I want to know know is …

What did he do in the first six months? How did he get his first client?

5 Critical Steps to Getting Your First Client

We can know we’re good at something, but not believe it. We can know our expertise, but not have the previous clients to show that we can deliver. That gap can seem like the difference between hugely succeeding and falling into the abyss in which our rent goes unpaid and we find ourselves looking in the mirror wondering what were we thinking?

People say a leap of faith and a lot of passion will get you there, but we’ve all seen faith filled passionate action go crashing. Here are the five critical steps to making that first client happen with less risk and exponentially more chance of success.

  1. Decide on a job description that fits you. Rather than reconfigure yourself to fit a pothole or a problem, figure out what you’re most suited to be going. Your past successes will tell you what you’re good at. look for the crossroads of your [expertise, experience, talent and skillsets] and your [favorite ideas, people, enchantments, and work-like things that you find fun.]

    I see and connect things differently and with great speed. I tear ideas apart and put them together in old ways and new ways and adjust them faster, easier, and more meaningfully for any audience you put in front of me. My successes all included leveraging opportunity, traditional teaching, innovative thinking, strategy, business growth, strong networks, branding, marketing, and community building and I loved doing all of it.

    Job description: I use opportunity thinking and relationship strategies to connect businesses with their customers in irresistible ways. [No, I never actually say that. Who actually recites their job description? Still it’s good to know it.]

  2. Define at least one clear, concrete offer that you know in your bones you can deliver — in case someone asks you. A job description or even an elevator pitch is not an offer. An offer is a defined, discrete, reasonable, work transaction that can be presented for acceptance.

    An offer: I offer a 2.5 hour workshop called, “Who’s Talking about You?” In the ideal scenario, it’s three parts:

    1. 45 minute presentation with Q&A
    2. 30 minutes of teamwork to immediately explore the information and set it to action
    3. 30 minutes of building on what the teams have recommended to give feedback and apply the concepts teams have been exploring even more deeply
  3. Identify the people who already have an interest in you and the kinds of things you do. Reach the reachable. The goal is one first client.
  4. Value their attention. Listen to what they’re saying.
    Value the time they spend. Get to know what they invest their time in.
    Value their time when they listen to what you’re saying. With that in mind …

  5. Don’t ask how you can help! That question makes the conversation about you not them. When someone I’ve never worked with asks, “How can I help?” the best answer I can give is “I don’t know.” The question itself puts the burden of thinking on the person being asked. That person has to scan and sort:
    • all of the possible places he or she could use help.
    • what possible expertise, talents, and experience you have
    • how the two might fit together efficiently.
    • the risks, rewards, and possible outcomes of trying it out.
  6. Instead, ask “What are your goals for the next 2 quarters?” Make the conversation about them not you. Then listen actively — ask clarifying questions as you do — until you can visualize and articulate exactly where the potential client wants to go and how he or she is thinking about getting there.
  7. Keep listening and asking questions until you can say with credibility, “Here’s how I can help you get there faster, easier, and more meaningfully.” Then suggest one small bit you might do to show him or her what you mean.

Most offers — first or hundredth — don’t work because the size of the offer is too big for the amount of trust that exists.

What that first client wants is what the 100th client wants — a professional who considers it their mission to be mission critical to the client’s goals. Proving that you can listen long enough to hear exactly where the client wants to go also proves that you’ll listen when you work together on a project that the client wants to get done.

In a conversation, you demonstrate how you can work together with professional ease. Now you can offer a sample or a small first job that has a chance of success, because you’ve built trust for the offer to sit upon.

What first client stories do you know?

Be irresistible.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, first client, LinkedIn, Marketing /Sales / Social Media, relationships

Thanks to Week 314 SOBs

October 22, 2011 by Liz

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Successful and Outstanding Bloggers

Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,

Purple SOB Button Original SOB Button Red SOB Button Purple and Blue SOB Button
and the right to call themselves
Successful Blog SOBs.

I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.

muddy teal strip A

They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.

I thank all of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.

Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her to me. Thie award carries a “Liz said so” guarantee, is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and is backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.

deep purple strip

Want to become an SOB?

If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame– A-Z Directory . Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog-promotion, SOB-Directory, SOB-Hall-of-Fame, Successful and Outstanding Blogs

Have You Thought about Surrendering and Living It Up?

October 21, 2011 by Liz

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about surrendering and … living it up.

I’m not a knight or a warrior. I can’t fight another person’s fight.
Every time I do. I end up wrong.

I can’t wear their clothes. They don’t fit. I look silly.
I can’t walk in their shoes. When I try I fall down.

I only sound right when I sing my own song.

It’s not a selfish thing. It’s a surrender to who I am.

It took me a while to figure out that I can toss and turn, stretch and skew an idea, but I can’t change the way my brain works. I can walk all the way around and through a thought or a belief, but I can’t change the chemistry or the electricity of a single synapse — slow them down maybe — but not reroute and remap the system to work as someone’s else might.

I’m always going to be the one who sees an angel in the clouds.

Living up to who I am is a far better use of my life than trying to become something I’m not.

Have you thought about surrendering to your life and living it up to who you are?

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Filed Under: Motivation, Personal Branding, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, LinkedIn, personal-identity

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