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Graduation . . . The Signs Were All There

May 19, 2007 by Liz

Nerd Family on TV

This post is purely for weekend entertainment. I point you to it at my writing blog to give a peek into the guy who graduates today. This is an excerpt from what I call “The Milk Story.” It’s part of the reason I think of the three of us as Nerd Family on TV.

One thing about three-year-olds is that today they’ll eat any thing. Tomorrow you can offer the very same thing, and they won’t go anywhere near it. Our son had a signal for when he was in the latter mood. He would fill up on milk and ignore his food. That’s exactly what he did to his dad’s highly-prepared meal. The young man of three, drank his milk. Looked at his plate. Looked at his father and with angelic politeness said,

“May I have more milk, please?”

“I think you need to eat first,” his father replied.

Our son politely shifted his position, turning his back to his father his face to me, ignoring his food and his father too. He said, “Mom how do you spell refrigerator? . . . chandelier? . . . calculator? . . . spoon?

If we were talking about my son, it’s often the first story I tell about him. It defines our family perfectly. To read the whole story, click the title below.

Nerd Family on TV: The Milk Story

Today that three-year-old boy graduates from college. He doesn’t remember that day. His parents won’t forget it.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, fun, Liz-Strauss, ZZZ-FUN

SOB Business Cafe 05-18-07

May 18, 2007 by Liz

SB Cafe

Welcome to the SOB Cafe

We offer the best in thinking–articles on the business of blogging written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the titles to enjoy each selection.

The Specials this Week are

Beth’s Blog goes deep on finding out how our blogs are working for us.

Measuring Your Blog’s Outcomes and Use of Other Social Media Tools


Copyblogger proposes that all blogging is selling. Do you know what the product is?

Why You Are Always Selling With Your Blog


Business Blogging Tips tells why we need to get into the kitchen quick!

WE’RE NOT BLOGGERS – WE’RE PIZZA MAKERS


chrisg has a special offer hidden inside this blog post.

What is a Blog Meme?


The Instigator Blog writing project brings timely news into one productive format.

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Productivity


Smart Wealthy Rich wants us to pay some attention to our financial planning.

What If You Could Save Some Of That Hard Earned Money?


Related ala carte selections include

A Glimmer of Hope in Microsoft’s Marketing?


Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like. No tips required. Comments appreciated.

Have a great weekend!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Beths-Blog, Business-Blogging-Tips, chrisg, copyblogger, Instigator-Blog, Smart-Wealthy-Rich, Success-CREEations

Good-byes and New Beginnings

May 18, 2007 by Liz

I've been thinking . . .

A week later, in another hotel room, I type this. This time I am the one away from home. On Saturday, my son graduates from college.

“An ending,” I said on the phone a few weeks back, “and a new beginning.”

“No, it’s not,” was the only reply that he gave.

As the president of the college TV station, he’s always had a part to play at this event. The director role, that’s the part he likes this year as well.

My son is busy organizing and planning other kids’ graduation. I’ve just come to realize that’s his way of not saying good-bye.

Saying good-bye doesn’t have to be melancholy. Sometimes saying good-bye is the only way we realize how meaningful something has been.

I wrote right before I graduated from college.

That’s the way of new beginnings . . . they all seem to start from saying good-bye.

Liz's Signature

Filed Under: Motivation Tagged With: bc, good-byes, Ive-been-thinking

Interview 17: Anita Bruzzese on 45 Things

May 17, 2007 by Liz

A Woman Who Knows Your Boss

Anita Bruzzese

I met Anita Bruzzese via email quite a few weeks ago. Then about two weeks before SOBCon, we had a wonderful conversation via telephone about her book and her job as a nationally syndicated workplace columnist for Gannett News Service and USAToday.com. Anita has been writing her column for about 15 years, with a readership of more than 8 million. She also blogs at AnitaBruzzese.com. Recently, she wrote her second book, 45 Things You Do That Drive Your Boss Crazy–And How to Avoid Them published by Perigee.

Anita, how did you get started writing about workplace issues?

I had been the managing editor of a magazine on employee benefits, and that exposed me to a lot of workplace issues. Then, when I had my first child, I decided to start freelancing from home and looked into writing about the workplace for a general interest audience. It was interesting because when I first proposed it to several newspaper syndicates they weren’t interested, saying that they already had finance columns. They just didn’t get it. The workplace had changed and people needed information to manage their own careers. It wasn’t just about money – it was about the problems with co-workers and bosses and the strategies people needed to get a raise or get a promotion.

I had worked for USA Today, so the company that owns it, Gannett, knew me and decided to begin distributing the column nationwide. I sort of held my breath the first week, not knowing what the reaction would be. Then, the mail started coming in, and I knew that I was on the right track. All these people were writing me saying, “I thought I was the only one going through this at work..” They now felt they had someone (me) out there helping them.

In that respect, it really was like blogging. I wrote about an issue, and people just jumped on it, responding with situations they were going through, looking for more information. I spent a lot of time in those early years responding to reader letters – that was before the Internet and e-mail, and people didn’t have any idea where to go for more resources. Now, with blogging, you get that instant community and that instant access to information.

Your book certainly has an interesting title. How is it different from the other career books out there?

I’m a journalist. That means I’m not promoting a specific product or method that will get you ahead at work. I’ve always said there’s no holy grail of workplace advice, and I am constantly looking for sources of information that will help people at work. To me, information is power. If I give that information to readers, then I’ve given them the keys to their own success.

At the same time, I kept getting these letters from readers that showed me they weren’t always getting it. They were making the same mistakes over and over, so that got me to thinking that perhaps I needed to not only put all this information in one place, but I needed to tell them WHY the boss cared whether they talked on their personal cell phone too much, gossiped or failed to write things down. It was, simply, the stuff that was driving bosses crazy.

So, why does the boss care?

It’s pretty simple, really. He or she cares because what you do affects his or her job. It’s always about the bottom line. Anything you do that adversely affects the boss’s ability to get ahead, to look good in front of his boss or to contribute to the company’s bottom line is going to get you on the boss’s radar screen in a bad way. And that’s something you want to avoid, because once he or she notices something you’re doing wrong – like wearing the wrong thing to work – then the boss says, “Hmmm…What else is this person doing wrong?” And then the boss starts watching you closely to catch you screwing up something else. That’s never a good thing.

What are some of the most common mistakes people make at work?

I think the most common errors people make have to do with communication. Despite having technology at our fingertips, sometimes it gets in the way of common sense. Don’t put anything in an e-mail at work that you wouldn’t mind 12 lawyers seeing. Don’t blog nasty things about your company or your boss. Don’t gossip because it’s demoralizing and immature. Make sure you know how your boss best likes to be communicated with and how often. It’s also a good idea to keep your language clean and your jokes cleaner, because co-workers who get offended can end up complaining about you to the boss.

Any final thoughts?

I think a lot of people feel trapped in their jobs. They find themselves in these difficult situations, and they don’t think they have any power to do anything about it. I’d never be comfortable thinking I’ve got all the answers, so that’s why I try to continually interview other people and offer readers the best information out there. I tell people not to get discouraged – there are so many people out there willing to offer good advice and help, and you really do have the power to make your career what you want it to be.

45 Things

Thanks, Anita. It’s always fun talking to you. Your book would have served me well — both when I was a boss and when I had one. It’s a pleasure to see that you have put this information where real people can use it.

Good luck on your May 27th appearance on the Today Show!!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Filed Under: Business Book, Successful Blog Tagged With: 45-Things, Anita-Bruzzese, bc

On Connecting: Friends, Ideas, and Words

May 17, 2007 by Liz

I've been thinking . . .

It seems like everyone, it’s not, but it seems so. People tell me I’m a connector. That’s a good thing. Some folks offer that observation with some awe.

I see the outcomes they see that happen because of me. For them, that’s the end. For me that’s a point on a continuous timeline. I see the before and the after. I know the future of where such things go. It’s a curious thing that has been with me all of my life.

It’s the same with the people.
It’s the same with the ideas.
It’s the same with the words.

When I meet new people, unique and intriguing — as they all are. My mind finds their mind; my heart finds their heart; my hand finds their hand. We become friends. It transcends understanding because of the unconditional part. A contract is made that true friends carry tacitly.

Maybe that’s why, even now, I don’t understand, the concept of “best friend.” I don’t have a best sentence, though I’ve written many musical, meaninful ones. How could I choose one as the “best”? It would seem even more wrong to do so with people. People are so valuable, each alone. No comparison to be made there.

As with words and ideas. I find people with whom my friends make grand ideas, laughter, music, and color. I’m not sure how I know they will. Maybe it’s the size of their hearts, maybe it’s their hearts and brains working together. Either way, they sure enough do. They find each other and become living art. I watch. They smile. They talk. They become part of each other’s life.

I opened a door. They walked through. To get the credit for that is like getting the credit for making a flower bloom.

Friends, ideas, and words — the answer is always to let them be, let them go. Enjoy what they do.

Like these words, my friends stand on their own. They are not me, except for that part they will always take along.

Liz's Signature

Filed Under: Motivation Tagged With: bc, Ive-been-thinking, lifelong-friends

Dear Jim, Stephanie, and the Entire Sofitel OHare Chicago,

May 16, 2007 by Liz

Dear Jim,Stephanie and the entire staff at the Sofitel OHare Chicago,
We’re just five regular people who wanted to have a small convention at your luxury hotel. It was for a bunch of spectacular individuals who do amazing things as part of their daily workload.

Chicago OHare Sofitel

You know the type. I know. I’ve watched you in action, and as one of my friends and colleagues from Montreal would say, “Wow!”

It was minutes within the arrival of the first guest that I heard the compliments to the hotel’s service. I’m still hearing them days since I’ve left. Every small problem was made even smaller. Every person was a delight to work with. What a pleasure you made our visit for the people who came to have what many are calling “the experience of their life.”

The food, the service, the attention, the facillities were elegant and of the highest quality in every respect. It was nice to have a truly quiet room to return to.

Thank you, sincerely.

Liz's Signature

Liz Strauss

cc: Lisa, Chris, Terry, Mike

Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Converstations, Ramblings-From-A-Glass-Half-Full, Sofitel-Ohare-Chicago, Success-CREEations

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