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Last Day of the 25 Words of Life / Work Wisdom Project

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Start with a Sentence End with a Thought

The Living Web

If you have tried to write something in exactly 25 words, you’ll find that the process is about reflection and changing.

Today is the last day to add your post to the 25 Words of Life and Wisdom Project. You’ll find the details and the submission at that link. What people written so far is truly inspiring and led me to these 25 words of my own.

A random twenty-five words
might not convey meaning or power.
Yet translating a thought
into precisely twenty-five words
can transform a thinker into a writer.

Some investment are valuable for the experience they bring.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!

Writing Project: 25 Words of Work / Life Wisdom

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Make an Observation

The Living Web

When I released my eBook, a dear friend told me what he would like to see is my inspirational writing. He’s a wise man, so I listened. Every day I find some time to go back through years of writing to find what of it still inspires me.

Yesterday, I found these thoughts — each expressed in 25 words.

pennies in a jar

I watch her
work tirelessly for others,
making withdrawals
from her emotional bank account.

No time for a deposit.
No wonder she feels without funds.

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I watch myself
focusing intently,
giving my brain control
of my emotional bank account.

Time to stop and marvel
before my funds start running out.

I had this thought in 25 more words. . . .

Words measured carefully
tell how we use our life and our energy.

It took only 25 words to say
we need to love ourselves first.

Would you add 25 words of your own?

The 25 Words of Work / Life Wisdom Writing Project

Will you accept my invitation to put 25 words of advice or wisdom into a blog post? Here’s how you might go about it.

  1. Look for something you see too much or too little of.
  2. Write a sentence about it.
  3. Count the words you have written.
  4. Edit the sentence until you have 25 words exactly. Notice how your idea changes as you edit and how your feelings change with each rewrite.
  5. Add a picture if you can.
  6. Post your 25 words on your blog by July 19th.
  7. Link back to this post or leave a link to your post in the comments section.
    I don’t want to miss yours when I compile all of them.

It will be my challenge to a creative way to connect all of the ideas together. In a giant “25 words of wisdom” blog post, featuring what you wrote.

Are you in? Surely you have 25 words to spare for this one.

Click to see the SLIDES of what everyone wrote.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!

Why Write When You Can Twitter?

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Passion Hasn’t Left the Building

The Living Web

Every morning I fire up Twitter. Sometimes I participate. Sometimes I only listen in.

Few messages of importance can’t be delivered in 140 characters.

I’ve heard folks say that they have found Twitter so efficient, that they’ve lost their reason for writing. I thought I might suggest a few reasons to keep writing while we still Twitter.

    1. Writing helps us develop a natural, confident voice in text that communicates and is attuned to readers. My voice on Twitter is different than my voice when I write here. I like them both.
    1. Writing challenges us to organize our thoughts. We get practice at building a meaningful message that goes deeper. Big ideas and new thoughts need room and time to be explored.
    1. Writing gives readers a complete idea with facts and details to consider. A more complex conversation results. Fun and fast happens in 140 characters. Thoughtful takes more.
    1. Writing gives us practice at accessing our deeper thoughts and insights. We get familiar with how we most efficiently work with and filter ideas. We can choose a variety of genre to express a viewpoint.
    1. Writing teaches us not to be frivolous about the ideas we put in text. We take time to edit so that the message we send is the one that is received by a reasonable reader.

Some ideas can’t be explained or supported in a small character set. Twitter works for fast, efficient one liners. But writing about passion or problem solving will always need something longer. A quick conversation on Twitter cannot replace a written piece well-considered.

Twitter can inspire us, provide the research of a crowd, or be the seed of a piece we write. But we cannot tweet a big idea with justice, heart, and in a totally accurate fashion.

How do you use Twitter?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!
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What I Learned from Freelancing – Part 3 – Good Habits Rock

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More from Deb Ng, who showed us yesterday how to be firm but not tough.

What I Learned from Freelancing – Part 3 – Good Habits Rock by Deb Ng

When I left my job to write on a freelance basis, I thought I had it all figured out – work in my pajamas, choose my own schedule, and basically do what I want. Then I learned without rules comes anarchy and anarchy for a freelancer isn’t necessarily a good thing.

Though it felt good to be lazy, I soon realized I wasn’t being very productive. Instead I picked up a few good habits. I:

  • Work according to a specific schedule each day so my clients know when to reach me and when to expect my work. They like the reliability of knowing when I’ll be at my desk over wondering whether or not I’ll be online that day.
  • Make sure I meet all my deadlines and obligations so I’m not seen as a flake. My clients want to count on me, and I want to count on them.
  • Change out of my flannels and into something causal, but presentable. No, my clients won’t see me but it gets me out of lazy mode and into working mode.
  • Make sure to communicate often with my clients so they know where I am and how much I have left to go. This also lets both of us know whether or not we’re on the right track.

When I first started, I had the whole freelancing thing pegged wrong. There’s a lot of freedom to it, but successful freelancers need to have discipline as well. When I started cultivating good habits, my career took off. Coincidence? I’ll let you decide.

What other good habits do you think freelancers need to succeed? Does working in the jimmies give one the right mindset to face the business day?

Deb Ng blogs about the best ways to find, and keep, freelance writing jobs. Why not stop by and say hello?

Thanks, Deb!
This was wonderful!

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!

What Freelancing Taught Me – Part 2 Be Firm but Not Tough

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More from Deb Ng, who told us yesterday how to gain confidence in any freelance job.

What Freelancing Taught Me – Part 2 Be Firm but Not Tough by Deb Ng

Did you ever see a person on television or even real life who was considered “tough” in business? She could pick up the phone and get what she wants, or have employees running at her beck and call, practically sniveling at her feet. I used to work for a woman like that. I admired her so much until I realized she wasn’t tough, she was mean. People responded to her because she wasn’t a nice person and they didn’t want to be on the receiving end of her wrath.

As a freelancer I learned to get my way too, but not so my clients and colleagues are afraid of temper tantrums or hissy fits. I learned to be firm. I think a freelancer has to be firm enough to make sure she’s paid on time but not so tough her first paycheck is her last. A freelancer has to know the customer is (almost) always right, but not at the expense of her dignity. I’m thinking it’s best to know how to catch flies with honey, because the other alternatives stink.

Freelancers should be firm when:

  • Negotiating
  • Collecting a payment
  • Not allowing another to take away one’s voice or sense of style
  • Meeting a deadline
  • Making a decision

And even though we’re being firm and making sure we get a fair deal, we have to be nice. Because nice works better than mean. Nice ensures return clients and future clients. Be nice because people response better to nice. Be firm because you don’t want to be a pushover. Be yourself because there’s no one better.

Are you firm or are you tough? What do you think is the difference in how people react?

Deb Ng blogs about the best ways to find, and keep, freelance writing jobs. Why not stop by and say hello?

Thanks, Deb!
Everyone, tune in tomorrow for Part 3 – Good Habits Rock

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!

What Freelancing Taught Me: Part 1 – Confidence

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Shortly before SOBCon08, Deb Ng invited me to write a post at her blog, Freelance Writing Jobs. I’m was delighted to have the chance. It’s a subject I know and writing something wouldn’t take too much time. As part of that same conversation, I mentioned the trip I’m talking May 9 – 18 to the UK for a speaking gig and vacation with my son. I asked if she would be interested in filling as a guest writer on Successful-Blog.

As you can see, Deb agreed. I’m delighted she did. In fact, we get a three-part series!

What Freelancing Taught Me: Part 1 – Confidence
by Deb Ng

The other day I was thinking about my “real” jobs. It seems like such a long time ago but there was a time when I put on the stockings and practical pumps and commuted an hour into the city. I wasn’t necessarily feeling nostalgic for pantyhose and subway tokens, I was more thinking about how I evolved as a professional since freelancing.

There’s no team in “I”

Regulars to my blogs my have a fun chuckle at this, but in the business world I was quite shy. I didn’t volunteer, I didn’t speak up and if someone took credit for my work, well, that’s the way it goes. Once I started working for myself I realized I didn’t have a room full of people to hide behind. Would I be able to hack it on my own?

Freelancing taught me to be confident. I learned I could be successful without relying on a team, but having friends doesn’t hurt. I learned I could do a job and take credit for it too. I learned people actually liked my work and didn’t mind paying me to do more. I learned to be confident.

Because I was always another person’s assistant, I was surprised to learn I was more than just someone’s right hand. I had my own hand, two of them as a matter of fact, and they worked just fine on their own. I learned people like me and like what I have to say. I learned how to truly be me.

What surprising things have you learned about yourself? Is there anything more rewarding than the confidence you get in being you?

Deb Ng blogs about the best ways to find, and keep, freelance writing jobs. Why not stop by and say hello?

Thanks, Deb!
Tune in tomorrow for Part 2 Be Firm but Not Tough

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Work with Liz!!