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Thanks to Week 338 SOBs

April 7, 2012 by Liz

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Successful and Outstanding Bloggers

Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,

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and the right to call themselves
Successful Blog SOBs.

I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.

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They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.

I thank all of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.

Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her to me. Thie award carries a “Liz said so” guarantee, is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and is backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.

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Want to become an SOB?

If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame– A-Z Directory . Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog-promotion, SOB-Directory, SOB-Hall-of-Fame, Successful and Outstanding Blogs

How to Find a Mentor for Free

April 6, 2012 by Liz

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In my life, it seems as though I’m pretty “successful.” I’ve interviewed 50 millionaires; I’ve been on CNN, Yahoo, MSN Money and more. Plus I’ve been in Success Magazine so I suppose that I must be a success right?

But the truth is I’m just Jaime, a gal from a town of about 2,000 people in Maine. I only consider myself “successful” because of the amazing people that have helped me get here along the way.

How did I find these amazing people and who are they?

They are Kurk, Nathan, Pat and Chris. I consider all of them like mentors to me, and they have spent hours of time to help me without me paying them anything.

How did I ask these amazing people to help me–AND get them to say Yes?

How to Find a Mentor

Don’t just pick someone and then ask them to be your mentor. That usually doesn’t work and it often comes across as weird.

You want to form a relationship with them that makes them think, “Wow, this person really has a ton of potential.” Successful people like to help others, as long as you don’t waste their time.

When I started coaching, I was green. For some reason I thought it would be a good idea to email my “competition” and say Hi. Kurk was a business coach with tons of experience, who had also sold a million-dollar business. When I met Kurk, he said that he could see I was eager and willing to learn, and hours later he emailed me asking for another meeting to discuss working together more.
I ended up helping him with all of his computer tasks and networking, and worked for free a few hours a week while he taught me everything he knew. He pushed me to my limits. We formed an amazing relationship and he helps me to this day. I consider him my business godfather. 🙂

When I decided to bring my coaching practice online three years ago, I found two amazing online entrepreneurs, Nathan and Pat. With them, I offered up my expertise as a trade for theirs. I had a lot of valuable skills, and leveraged them to learn their set of skills. I now consider both of them good friends.

Chris is a millionaire and serial entrepreneur. We started chatting shortly after I interviewed him. He has been so helpful, and has asked nothing in return. Chris is like the trusted adviser. I’m not sure why he decided to help, as I didn’t offer any expertise, but I am eager and want to help him in any way that I can.

1. Form a relationship. It all started with forming a relationship. If you have a meeting and feel the synergy between you and the other person, just start to feel out how you could work together more.

2. Ask if you can help them. Ask if you can help them in their business, or save them time by doing something for them. Tell them you really respect their expertise and would love to learn about what they know.

3. Keep helping and gradually ask for their input. If you have been an asset to them, they will start to open up and become an asset to you as well.

How to Find a Role Model or Advisor

Instead of finding someone who will officially mentor you, you could also find a role model. This can be simple, like an email with a question every few months that gets a response.

Derek Sivers, a millionaire I interviewed and founder of CD Baby, was able to get an open channel with Seth Godin, and through that they became friends.

Derek suggested this:

“You’d be surprised how effective a simple, quick-pointed three-sentence email can be.
I’ve sent emails off to my favorite authors and they have no idea who I am and I don’t include my website. They’ve never heard of CD Baby and I’ve been amazed how well the three-sentence email can get a reply.

Just a one-sentence qualification like, ‘I’m a huge fan of your books’ or, ‘This one changed the way I think.’ Sentence two is a simple direct question. Follow with ‘Any reply appreciated. Thank you.’

I think if you send somebody a simple direct question, not trying to dump the weight of your life on them or anything, sometimes you can go back and forth like that a few times. Then if you include a URL in your signature, they can go there, explore your company and possibly see interesting posts or your philosophies, which it may lead to more interaction.”

Action Item:

Look for people who have the skills you want to have, and start a relationship with them. Email a potential role model like Derek suggests, or take a local business person out to coffee.

Commit to one action this week that will help you find a mentor. It could drastically improve your business.

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Author’s Bio:
Jaime interviews self-made millionaires and talks business and life at EventualMillionaire.com. You can find her on Twitter as @eventualmillion

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: management, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, growth, LinkedIn, personal-development

The Power of a Mentor

April 5, 2012 by Rosemary

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The GPO Style Manual was my Bible. But technical writing for a Federal Government contractor was slowly sucking the soul out of me. I’m not knocking it in general, but it really wasn’t for me.

Then one day, my supervisor called me into her office, and there sat a red-faced, genial guy with an easy laugh. His name was Dave Denne, and he changed the course of my life for the next 10 years. He was looking to recruit someone to join his marketing team, and he thought I might have the right stuff. My supervisor was dubious, but for some reason Dave believed in me. He persuaded her to let me jump ship, and I literally leapt at the chance.

Over the next several years, he taught me everything he knew about corporate marketing, networking, business communications, and specifically Federal proposals. I’ll never know why he came and plucked me out of the Flood Insurance Project, but it changed everything for me.

I share this story because often we don’t realize why certain people or opportunities are placed in front of us. The universe sends us messages all the time, and we simply need to be in receptive mode to tap into them. Are you in receptive mode right now?

I found out the other day that Dave passed away several years ago; he and I had finally fallen out of touch, but I will always be grateful for his invitation to start another path. He left me with the ability to walk up to a group of strangers at an event with confidence, and an amazing recipe for barbecue beans.

Perhaps we all need mentors for a certain time and place. Do you have a mentor right now? Who is giving you an invitation to a new path?

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Author’s Bio: Rosemary O’Neill is an insightful spirit who works for social strata — a top ten company to work for on the Internet . Check out their blog. You can find her on Google+ and on Twitter as @rhogroupee
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Filed Under: Business Life, Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, LinkedIn, management, Mentors, Rosemary O'Neill

The Cubs Have Made a Business out of Coming up Short

April 4, 2012 by Thomas

It isn’t that often that I would talk baseball on a business blog. But with Opening Day upon us this week, could there be a better time to discuss the two?

Just as a business owner has to go about trying different things to make their company successful so that it sees a strong ROI (return on investment), the owners of the Cubs, business owners at that, have tried year after year to put a pennant winning team on the field. To date, they have unfortunately struck out.

I have been following Major League Baseball since my childhood days in the 1970s. While many things have changed since back then – there has been one troubling consistent in the world of professional sports on the north side of Chicago – the Cubs have not won the World Series.

Truth be told, I don’t see the Cubs winning in my lifetime, and I’m hoping on being around for some time to come if the guy upstairs allows it.

Those loveable Cubbies, who tickled the fancies of their fans back in 2003 before losing to the eventual champion Florida Marlins in the N.L. Championship, have not won the big pennant since 1908, let alone appeared in the World Series since 1945.

Curses, Why Can’t They Win the Big One?

From the often-mentioned Billy Goat curse to the Steve Bartman incident in 2003, the Cubs have simply not been able to go from start to finish without slipping up somewhere along the way.

Now mind you, the Cubs have had some outstanding players over the years, among those Ernie Banks, Billy Williams, Ron Santo, Fergie Jenkins, Ryne Sandberg, Lee Smith and Mark Grace to name but a few. Still, no World Series flag flying above the friendly confines of Wrigley Field since 1908.

In the early 1980’s, I had the opportunity to attend my first-ever Cubs game at venerable Wrigley Field. To this day, it remains one of my favorite MLB experiences of all time. Other than the original Yankee Stadium, which I got to go to as a child numerous times growing up on the East Coast, nothing evoked history to me like Wrigley Field (I have not been to Fenway Park yet).

Still, despite all that history and what can still be considered a bit of a home field advantage by having a large number of day games during the hot and humid summers that are Chicago, the Cubs have not been able to hoist the World Series trophy in my lifetime or even my grandparents for that matter.

The Pressure is Squarely On

When the Boston Red Sox won their first of two titles last decade, the monkey was taken off their backs for a very long drought (had not won since 1918) and placed squarely on the shoulders of those lovable Cubbies.

While I am not one that enjoys seeing others suffer, I must admit with a slight twinkle in my eye that there is something a tad funny about the Cubs and their years of stumbling and bumbling.

Trust me, as a lifelong New York Mets fan; I know what stumbling and bumbling looks and smells like. I did, however, get to enjoy the 1986 title over the previously mentioned Red Sox, so I could die tomorrow and my baseball life is perfectly fine.

Ever since the Cubs moved out of the N.L. East (starting with ’94 season), their rivalry with the Mets has lessened year after year. As it stands now, my animosity still continues to be directed towards the Atlanta Braves and my native city of Philadelphia and those dreaded Phillies.

As for those Cubs, I wish them well going into this season.

As for the Cubs winning the World Series anytime soon, I think someone that was a community organizer in Chicago at one time has a better chance of getting elected President.

Wait a minute….

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Dave Thomas, who writes on subjects such as starting a small business and workers compensation writes extensively for San Diego-based Business.com.

Filed Under: Business Life Tagged With: baseball, bc, Chicago Cubs, Opening Day

Why Penny Auctions Are Dangerous

April 4, 2012 by Liz

You’re Buying Whether You Win or Not

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Enter At Your Own Risk

For the past eight months, I’ve been researching a relatively new entity that has creeped up onto the internet and is now covering the web with advertising – and this entity is known as the Penny Auction.

The idea of a penny auction seems very tempting at first – you can get items for pennies on the dollar – but the reality of the hype is far more dangerous than it appears.

This article delves into why penny auctions are dangerous and if you still choose to enter, you do so at your own risk.

What Are Penny Auctions Really Selling To You Anyway?

Let’s start off by looking at what’s on the surface and then we’ll delve deeper. What’s the difference between a traditional online auction site and these penny auction websites?

Let’s say that you wanted to buy a camera via a traditional online auction, which has a starting auction price of $150. You make a bid for the camera (which is free by the way) and other people will also make a bid for that same camera.

In this example let’s say that 100 people also placed bids for that same camera. At the end of the bidding period, let’s say that the highest bid was $275 and that was your bid – so you won the camera.

With the example mentioned above, you would only ‘part’ with your money if your bid was the highest. If you did not win the auction, then you would simply move on – without losing any money. Simple, right?

Let’s use this same ‘camera’ example – but for a penny auction this time. Remember – the lure of a penny auction is that you can get items for pennies on the dollar, right? Well, let’s see if this is really true.

So the camera has a retail price of $150 – but the bidding starts off at a penny and as more people bid, the price will incrementally go up by one penny.

But how are you allowed to bid in these penny auctions? Here’s the catch!

Bid Packs Are Valueless, But They Cost

You are only allowed to bid via “bid-packs”. These bid packs allow you to bid a certain number of times and the bids are usually sold in packs of 25, 50, 100, 250, etc. – depending on the penny auction site that you are using.

Keep in mind that these bid-packs have absolutely no value whatsoever outside of the penny-auction site and that you are giving in your real money for – what exactly?

If you want to continue playing in the auction, then guess what – you have to buy more bid-packs. In a scenario like this, it is very possible for people to loose quite a bit of money in the purchasing of these bid-packs. The penny auction site profits from luring people in who are hoping to get cheap items.

By the way, did you notice that the camera has not been sold as yet?

See the problem? Unlike a traditional online auction, where you are only paying for a camera that you actually won – in a penny auction however, you are paying for the HOPE of winning that camera.

That’s what a bid-pack actually is. It’s a HOPE-PACK, where you hope and pray that the other bidders would run out of bids before you do.

But even in the remote chance that you actually won the camera – well guess what? You would still need to pay whatever the current bidding price was when you won the camera.

So in the end, the penny auction site makes FAR MORE than the $150 retail price of the camera – and this example is true for every item that they sell.

Penny auction sites make the bulk of their profits by selling and trading their “virtual-hope-currency” to everyone and not by the actual physical items for sale on their sites.

They sell HOPE, in nice little packs – and there’s no way to avoid that obvious fact.

Are You An Auction House Or A High Yield Investment Company? Make Up Your Mind!

Some of these penny auction sites have taken it a step further – into the grey area – and this is where the FTC has to step in and question the legality of the business.

Here’s the reality of the problem. Many people are catching on to the inherent problem of penny auctions. Going back to my previous example: why pay money for the HOPE of getting a camera when I could use that same money TO ACTUALLY BUY a camera? Think about it.

My months of research have proven that most people would stick around if they are given free sample bids – but would leave when those bids dry up. Yes, some people do stay for the long haul – but would the low retention number of customers be enough to sustain this type of business? Definitely Not!

To ‘solve’ this problem (notice the quotes) some of these penny auction companies have dived into the MLM arena. Now I’ve been doing MLM for over ten years – so I know when something stinks and I also know when a company is trying to cover its tracks.

Using an MLM downline structure, the companies encourage people to register and partake in their income opportunity. At this point, people are joining – not for the great deals – but for the money that they can get from the company.

But there’s a catch – in order to take part in this so-called income opportunity, you would need to pay a monthly fee.

… and this is the part where the FTC now has you in their crosshairs.

You’ve just stepped your foot into something that smells funny – and that odd smell is the smell of a Ponzi scheme.

I am going to assume that you are reading this and that you know EXACTLY what a Ponzi scheme is. If you are unsure, please look it up on Wikipedia right now before you continue.

Some of the ‘affiliates’ in these companies are making a good amount of money from these schemes – but where is the money actually coming from? Is it coming from the customers?

If you actually believe that, please go back and re-read the first section of this post.

This problem has made these companies TOP-HEAVY, where there are much more opportunity-seekers than actual customers for the business to sustain itself – and for one in particular, it has become a major legal mess.

This particular organization actually got itself banned from Craigslist – can you imagine an entire company and all of its affiliates getting banned from Craigslist? That’s hilarious!

The only thing that’s been accomplished by having so many opportunity-seekers, is getting the attention of the FTC. The FTC looks at the behavior of these companies as investment practices – and you cannot be a legal investment company without having a license to do so.

Let’s not fool ourselves here.

Bid packs and VIP bids are not products. They are non-existent outside of the penny auction sites. You cannot barter, trade or sell them in exchange for actual goods and services to the general public. They are not stocks – you do not have any ownership of the companies that sell them to you. The only thing that you can do with these bids is to use them and HOPE that you can get an actual product in return.

The relatively low customer retention means that the companies have to maintain their scheme (and their affiliates) somehow – and that is done by the monthly fees. Want proof of this? Take away the monthly affiliate fees and see how long it would last before it goes under. See if the company is able to survive on getting customers alone.

Never fall for the marketing hype and re-assurances that these companies throw at you.

Like I said before … let’s not fool ourselves here.

So What’s The Smartest Thing To Do?

As a Customer:
If you’re looking for a camera, iPhone or whatever, it’s best to check traditional online auction sites first. Heck, check retail stores, both online and offline – you might be surprised by a great deal.

Only use a penny auction site when everything else fails. Know what you’re getting into. You’re not paying for an actual product, you’re paying for the HOPE of getting a product. So ask yourself this question – do you want to part with your money, for HOPE?

As an Opportunity Seeker (affiliate):
Be extremely cautious of any company that draws the attention of the FTC. Trust me – I know this from experience. Years ago, I was an affiliate for a company called SkyBiz (older marketers would know what I’m talking about). I thought that everything was fine and that I was set for life – until the FTC pounced and killed the company.

Myself and many other affiliates lost money because of that fiasco, but I learned a valuable lesson – always be cautious of a company’s business practices. If it’s too good to be true and you’re seeing high yields coming into your account, then you can bet your last dollar that the FTC is not far behind.

If you’re already involved in these high-yield investment companies that are disguising themselves as penny auctions, then the smart option is to withdraw your profits as soon as possible. Look for companies that have stable marketing practices – and sell actual useable products to the general public.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that the company will last for years and years – with questionable business practices.

The FTC has a history of pouncing and killing a company – when you least expect it.

Well that’s all that I need to say about this topic – the choice is now in your hands.

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Author’s Bio:
Marlon Dexter has been doing private internet marketing for over ten years and does private consulting with select clients to ensure that they avoid the many pitfalls and scams in the world of internet marketing. You can find him at Marlon Dexter Marketing.

Thank you, Marlon!

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Business Life, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, LinkedIn, penny auctions

Influence: Do You Believe What You Know?

April 3, 2012 by Liz

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When I was in college, I had a vinyl recording of the London Philharmonic performing “The Planets” by Gustav Holst. On the back of the album cover notes were written on each movement of the music, each named after one of the planets the world knew then and each with a few words of poetic wisdom. Of all of them, I remember only one sentence that has stayed with me for decades now. It was with the movement called “Neptune.” The sentence read:

What the mind yearns for most is not to know, but to believe.

For years I considered it forward and backward. I wondered about it and applied to situations in my life.I asked myself whether knowing or believing was the core of everything. Which defined me? Which moved me forward? In the last few years, I’ve come to see it as it was written and understand this way …

I can know what are my strengths and talents. I can understand with my mind what values and value I bring to the table. But if I don’t believe what I know, I undermine them. If I choose not to see what I see right in front me, if I choose not to know what I know, and instead listen to other voices around me, I’ll never be a work of art, I’ll simple be a mirror — at best a reflection. No matter how perfect a mirror, it’s can be replicated by silvering some glass and placing where I stand. What’s in the room decides what’s in the mirror.

A mirror brings nothing new. A mirror is all give back and no give.

But if I believe in my own ability to see what I see — to look for and find my own world view and experience — then I learn how to believe in what I know. And other people begin to take interest in my thinking despite the curved lines and the flaws.

Art brings a new view. It gives and can give back too.

All true leadership and influence starts with a compelling core belief based in knowledge.
Competence and commitment are the fuel that ignites a call to action.

Stop right now. Ask yourself, what do you know?
What would it take for you to believe that?
Then act on what you believe and know.

You will have your true north direction.
And knowing where you’re is irresistibly attractive.

Be irresistible.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: management, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, LinkedIn, management, personal-identity

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