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Business Rule 14: The New Boss

July 12, 2007 by Liz

I’d Like You to Meet . . .

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Whether you work at home or in an office, some changes that come from the top — new client, new boss, new owner — might not seem like changes at first, but they are.

Enter Commander New . . .

When a new “boss” enters your job life, change happens in one fell swoop. No matter how nice, how good, how competent the new entity might be, he, she, or it, isn’t the one from the past. This is important to know.

Doing what worked with the last “commander” could be exactly right again or it could be the most wrong thing you might do. For the sake of making the conversation easier, lets call the new arrival Commander New, a guy (to avoid having to use him, her, or it continuously.)

Everyone will meet Commander New several times in his or her business career. You might play the role a few times yourself. Whenever Commander New comes on the scene, change is the deal. That’s the way it is. An experienced Commander will manage change to a positive end, but every Commander knows that he is a de facto change just by being there. Some will try to share their priorities fast. Some will try to get to know yours first.

What Happens First

When Commander New arrives, you can expect these events.

  • The Commander will share a vision and try to find out who you are.
  • Fast adopters, optimists, and people who didn’t like the last commander will get on board with the new commander.
  • Slow adopters, cynics, and people still loyal to the last commander will stand back and watch.

Some folks don’t realize that any commander who’s been around knows that people are doing this.

What Happens Next

Commander New has been asked to assess the new team he has. That means everyone is on a kind of preliminary probation again. New clients of home businesses do this too.

  • The Commander evaluating your skill set; determing what responsibilities he can delegate your way; deciding whether you can do the job and do it well; and assessing how comfortably you fit the team and the new vision.
  • People who respond well to change listen and ask questions to make sure they’re looking in the same direction that the commander is.
  • People who don’t understand that’s what’s happening try to do what served them well in the past, whether it fits the new vision or not.
  • People who respond poorly to change try to teach the commander how the company is supposed to work rather than learn what he has in mind. Not a good move for their personal brand. I know I’ve made that mistake myself.

There is no cure for youth, but experience.

The Environment Adjusts

Eventually Commander New isn’t new anymore. People know him and what he expects. He knows them and what they’re good at. If you’re still working with The Commander and thriving, you might have a new role with more exciting responsibilities. That would be because you understand.

When the change is a new boss, new client, new owner,
you have just started a new job.

The desk that you sit at and your coworkers might look the same, but the job description is not.

Have you ever gotten a new job in this way, only to find you had to look for a new job? Yeah. Me, too.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Check out the Work with Liz!! page in the sidebar.

Filed Under: Business Life, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Business-Rules, New-Bosses, New-Clients, Rules-They-Dont-Teach-in-Business-School

Change the World: Choosing Our Own Path

July 12, 2007 by Liz

Peer Pressure for Adults

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Authenticity. It’s not easy to be authentic. I wonder whether anyone can. Maybe it’s a self-actualizing quest. Maybe it’s a journey, not a destination.

Yet.

An authentic world of transparent events, where fear of oneself no longer exists, has the potential beauty and productivity of any phenomenon nature ever made.

Yet.

As I look back at those who have walked to their calling, or at the tiny ones I taught who knew their own truth, I see they both found some rocky walking as they made their way along their paths. It’s my experience, too, that as I find my feet — as I know which direction is mine and which place to stand — some folks find it a duty to tell me what my role is and to follow the path that they set.

No.

“Choose wisely. Choose wisely, but choose your own path,” my father said. So did my friends. “Choose not for others, but always hold your choice for yourself.”

The choice is the action. The choice is the hope. The choice is the relationship and the place where you’ll go. The choice is the chance to know your head and your heart as they become your life. It is the choice that honors your self and the people you respect and love.

Only you know which is the right choice.

Say, “no.” When they say, “be someone other.”

Say, “no.” When they ask you to do what they won’t.

Say, “no.” Unless your heart and your head say “this is where my feet need to go.”

Authenticity knows how to choose its own path.

Authenticity is having faith in ourselves.

We can change the world — just like that.
–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: Liz, Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: authenticity, bc, Change-the-World, choosing-our-path

1 Conversation . . . 2 Blogs . . . 2 Directions

July 11, 2007 by Liz

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It started simply enough. Dawud and I talked about how to bridge our blogs with conversation. I would explain it. He would design it. Together we would work it out.

How cool is that?!!

We called it One-2-One . . . 1-2-1. It’s 1 conversation, in 2 directions.

 

If I was Dawud a great visual would be here. Imagine an arrow to Dawud’s blog and an arrow to you.

 

I write a question and send it to Dawud. The next day he posts his answer and ends with a question. . . . as he might in a conversation. That’s one direction.

While he answers, we can have our own conversation. That’s a second direction.

He’ll know my question when you do. I’ll know his answer when he posts it.
On his blog, the whole thing will work the same in reverse.

He and I won’t know beforehand “ no problem. . . . it’s conversation about

  • business
  • strategy
  • social networking
  • tangents.

Conversations are unpredictable. That’s what makes them fun.
All conversation is an experiment in finding what we know. Isn’t it?

Question Question Question

Here’s my question.

When I go to your blog I get the feeling there’s a back room behind your blog where you work. What work do you do there?

Find Dawud’s response tomorrow afternoon at DawudMiracle.com by the one-2-one logo.

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Meanwhile, what kind of work do you do in the backroom of your blog?

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One2One is a cross-blog conversation. You can see the entire One-2-One Conversation series on the Successful Series page.

Filed Under: Business Life, Successful Blog Tagged With: 12+1, 121 Conversation, Business Life, Dawud-Miracle, Liz-Strauss, one2one-conversation

Some Birthdays Are Special

July 11, 2007 by Liz

Chris’s Is

The date was December 7, 2006.

The headline at Successful-Blog that day read

Chris Cree and Liz Converse and Conspire

It was the morning after Chris and I had meet for the first time in person. We were announcing that he would be a writer on Succesful-Blog. That was before the world knew about SOBCon 07. That was before a slew of acts of magic, deeds of daring, loyal gestures, great writing, laughter, and sharing of himself and his Gorgeous wife.

I felt I knew him on December 7. Gosh, imagine how I must feel now. It’s way more than Americans have figured out a word. What word can come close to describing a guy who’s ALWAYS there for you? I think got it as right as I ever will when I used this quote.

People from the same family are rarely born under one roof.
–Richard Bach, Illusions

Family. Yeah. The family we would pick if we could.

So it’s with the gratitude my head and my heart that I say to my dear friend, Chris Cree.

I hold you high. I respect your work. I trust you with what is mine.

And I wish you the very most

Happy Birthday

Thank you. My life would have a Chris-sized hole if you ever left it.

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Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Chris-Cree, Happy-Birthday, Liz-Strauss

The Mic Is On: We're at the Beach!

July 10, 2007 by Liz

It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

Come On!

There’s plenty to talk about. Here’s a few ideas to get us started:

  • Where we love to go
  • Whether we prefer sand or rocks
  • Would we like it warm or cool, sunny or cloudy
  • Who will go with us
  • What will we take
Beach

And, whatever else comes up, including THE EVER POPULAR, Basil the code-writing donkey.

Oh, and bring links about the beach to share!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Open Mic 7pm Chgo Time: Let's Go to the Beach!

July 10, 2007 by Liz

Yes the Mic Will Be on Tonight

Join Us Tonight

We’re Going to the Beach. . .

It’ll be fun!

We can talk about where we love to go, whether it’s sandy or rocky, warm or cool, who we go with, what we take, and whatever else comes up.

Oh, and bring links about the beach to share!

The rules are simple — be nice.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog_promotion, discussion, letting_off_steam, living-social-media, Open_Comment_Night

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