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Change the World: Positively Surprise a Grownup

February 25, 2007 by Liz

A Good Surprise Is So Long in Coming Sometimes

Change the World!

Most children love surprises. Most adults wish they did. The reason adults don’t like surprises is that too many are negative surprises that we weren’t prepared for — had we been prepared, they wouldn’t qualify as surprises. . . .

The sad thing is one or two negative surprises can teach a person to live defensively, always preparing for the possible negative outcomes, imagining every worst case scenario, never to be caught off guard again.

We worry about negatives because positive things don’t hurt us.

Ellen Weber, Ph.D, told us new research shows that worrying shrinks our gray matter. So we’re really hurting ourselves and our ability to contribute when we worry defensively that way.

What if we could show folks that good surprises do still happen?

I remember research that showed it takes 5 positive statements to overcome 1 negative statement that we take to heart. But then, how hard is it to say a nice thing?

What if we passed along every kind word that we heard about someone? What if we added a few ourselves? What if we went first to find a way to show folks that we’re glad they’re on the planet, that we value their contribution, that some small thing about them is worth a positive remark or comment?

The smiles alone would be worth every word and bit of energy that we invested. Some of those smiles would even make a difference in our own lives and our businesses. Can’t beat an ROI like that.

There just aren’t enough good grownup surprises. Positively surprise a grownup, it’s surprising how wonderful it feels.

We can change the world — just like that.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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If you’re ready to change the world, send me your thoughts in a guest post. Feel free to take the gorgeous Change the World image up there that Sandy designed back to your blog. Or help yourself to this one.

Change the World!.

Email me about what you’re doing or what we might do. Let’s change the world one bit at a time together. Together it can’t take forever.

Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Ellen-Weber, preparing-for-a-negative, smiles, surprises, worrying

Thanks to Week 70 SOBs

February 24, 2007 by Liz

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Successful and Outstanding Bloggers

Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,

Purple SOB Button Original SOB Button Red SOB Button Purple and Blue SOB Button
and the right to call themselves
Successful Blog SOBs.

I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.

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 Blogabilities

 Daily Blog Tips

 hamelife

 Homeless Family's Blog

 Rattle the Cage

Steve Olson Com

 studentlinc [6]

 the thinking blog

They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.

I thank every one of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.

Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her directly to me. This award comes with a full “Liz said so” guarantee. It is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.

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Want to become an SOB?

If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame. Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog_promotion, dialogue, relationships, SOB, SOB_Directory, successful_and_outstanding-bloggers

Change the World: Help Mihaela Protect Children Using the Web

February 24, 2007 by Liz

Kids Are Landing on Porn Sites

Change the World!

Ilker at the thinking blog asked me to post about this. Little did Ilker know that earlier this week, I got an email from Germany. A young woman, Mihaela Lica asked me to visit Blogger Power: Safeguard the Web for Children. I clicked through. I read the title and the list of three bullets.

Would you do that? It’s four sentences. I’ll wait.

Four sentences was all that it took. I wrote Mihaela back — three more sentences, two names, and some smiles.

Mihaela
Hi Where are you located?
Do you skype? lizstrauss
I talk faster than I type.
Smiles,
liz

We Skyped for 26 minutes and 29 seconds.

One email, seven sentences, two names, three words, some smiles, and a less than 30 minute skype call led to this blog post and the four-question interview below.

This is real way to keep a child safe, the same way parents put a gate at the top of s stairway so that a toddler doesn’t fall. Will you help? Will you write a comment or a blog post about Blogger Power: Safeguard the Web for Children. so that the folks who can make the gate will hear that we need one?

After all, Mihaela got my attention with three sentences. I’m not going to tag you. I know that I don’t need to when the issue is as straightforeard as this.

We can change the world — just like that.
–ME “Liz” Strauss

Related
12: Mihaela Lica on Safeguarding the Web for Children

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If you’re ready to change the world, send me your thoughts in a guest post. Feel free to take the gorgeous Change the World image up there that Sandy designed back to your blog. Or help yourself to this one.

Change the World!.

Email me about what you’re doing or what we might do. Let’s change the world one bit at a time together. Together it can’t take forever.

Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Blogger-Power:--Safeguard-the-Web-for-Children, Jon-Harmon, Mihaels-Lica

12: Mihaela Lica on Safeguarding Children on the Internet

February 24, 2007 by Liz

Tell Us How We Can Help

Mihaela Lica

Mihaela Lica has a soft voice that speaks clearly. She is warm, thoughtful, and easy to know. She wants the message of Blogger Power: Safeguard the Web for Children heard around the world. This week, Mihaela emailed me and we talked about how I might help.

Hi Mihaela, Welcome! Would you me about the problem and the solution you proprose?

Hi Liz. As you know, there are many anti-porn campaigns online, some quite aggressive. I think the reason why these campaigns fail is that their initiators fight against pornography as a whole. This is not a solution. We live in a free world and pornography is a matter of personal choice. It’s normal; some say it is even healthy that adults are consumers. But do we really have to drag children into this world?

As long as the porn sites will offer free tours, free previews or other free contents, there will always be a chance that kids stumble upon such materials. So we think that the simplest solution is that the porn webmasters make it more difficult for kids to access explicit adult materials by requiring a login. The idea is based on a real world fact: porn magazines are distributed in plastic foil wrappers. That’s the “login” offline. We are aware that some kids might still make accounts, but not so many as see nowadays porn pages by accident.

Skeptics will probably see this as a small step. Others will say that the porn webmasters will not change their ways because they want to make money. But kids are not paying customers. So the porn sites will not have so much to lose financially by applying such a measure. On the contrary: they will increase their possible clients database. And that’s an advantage.

I don’t say this is going to be easy. But I believe that the porn webmasters of the legal sites will understand our request and work with us. By showing civic conscience they have a lot to win.

How can I and the folks who are reading this help?

If you would just spread the word. Talk about this initiative. Ask bloggers to address a polite request to the porn webmasters to determine them to “help keep minors out by adding a simple registration gateway” as Jon says. We welcome any kind of support except material support. No money, no donations! No tricks! Just words. Or images. I think any kind of support is welcome: even a nofollow link to the Blogger Power official website might help! We can only thank our bloggers by adding links to their entries on a special page. Artists may show their support by creating a banner, button, graphic… whatever they want. Those who don’t have blogs may comment on Blogger Power (we have a special comments page), on your blog, on any blog that posts such an entry. Every voice matters!

If webmasters want to support our initiative but don’t have blogs, they could place a support banner or logo somewhere on their site. We’ll link back. This is the only way we can say “thank you”. We’ll even link back to pages that support the initiative without linking back to Blogger Power. As we cannot monitor links in real time (we only count on Technorati) it would help if our supporters contact us shortly at bloggerpower@yahoo.com and give us the exact URL to their post.

So this is what we need: awareness. I see bloggers joining for “cool stuff” like Tino Buntic’s 2000 bloggers. I find it hard to believe that they wouldn’t join for something that could change the Web for the better. I believe in people! I do believe that we all understand how important it is to act responsibly, especially online.

Once again: THIS IS NOT ABOUT RESTRICTING ANYONE’S FREE SPEECH!

And one more thing: if porn webmasters understand our request and implement the registration form prior to giving free access to explicit content, we’ll give them credit! We’ll thank them as well. This is fair play!

Mihaela, why write to me? Why ask us?
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Filed Under: Community, Interviews, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Blogger-Power:--Safeguard-the-Web-for-Children, Jon-Harmon, Mihaels-Lica

Joe Hauckes, Are You Really Coming to SOBcon 07?

February 24, 2007 by Liz

Will You Be . . .

counting the comments during the LIVE OPEN MIC NIGHT, and will you write a poem like you always do on Tuesday nights?

I can’t wait to meet you, Joe Hauckes, in person at

SOBCon 07 button link

to hear about your home renovation and the alien on your dresser. Is the alien coming with you?

Liz's Signature

The Secret’s Out: SOBCon 07 Is in Chicago May 11-12!

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, joe-hauckes, SOBcon-07, sobevent.com, Working-at-Home-on-the-Internet

SOB Business Cafe 02-23-07

February 23, 2007 by Liz

SB Cafe

Welcome to the SOB Cafe

We offer the best in thinking–articles on the business of blogging written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the titles to enjoy each selection.

The Specials this Week are

Don’t take out your tools to answer the question posed by Creating Passionate Users.

Are our tools making us dumber?


Seth’s Blog states the two things most folks get from blogging.

If no one reads your post, does it exist?


Marketing Profs ask about whether we’re paying attention to our readers.

What If We Practiced a Little Customer Engine Optimization


Copyblogger suggests a Roman statesman as your next blog consultant.

Let Cicero Build You a Sticky Blog


9:o1am diggs up another kind of trademark story.

Digg to lose name to Lucasfilm?


Problogger offers the fine points to blog conversation.

How to Add to Blogging Conversations… And Eliminate the Echo Chamber


Related ala carte selections include

Word Sell has age old advice about Search Engine Marketing.

Search Engine Marketing–Size Doesn’t Matter


Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like. No tips required. Comments appreciated.

Have a great weekend!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: 9o1am, bc, copyblogger, Creating-Passionate-Users, Marketing-Profs, Problogger, Seths-Blog, Word-Sell

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