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Gardening, Blogging, Life, Comments and How Relationships Stay Made

May 14, 2009 by Liz

The Authenticity of Gardening … and Blogging

When I was a luxury farmer, I brought in bark mulch by the truck load. I had conversations with dirt that was so dry that you had to wet it to call it dust. It made be feel like a cowboy. It made me feel like a king. I could put my hand in the dirt, work for hours. Then through some miracle of nature color would happen. Things would grow. Not right way. Oh no. It took longer than blog years, but suddenly in the sun things started to show.

Every year we the weather gets warm and my hands want to be playing in the dirt I’m reminded that all things I’ve ever done have happened because I was willing to spend the time they took.

A blog. A garden. A life.

No one does them for the comments really.

But the comments sure do feel good.

Would you leave one for me now and then go leave one for those you know who’ve been working hard?

I’d so appreciate it and so would they. It’s how relationships start and how they stay made.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Community, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog comments, Blogs, gardens, relationships

An Open Mind ……..

May 14, 2009 by Guest Author

Brittany – funny I feel okay to share her name now (I asked) – has been released from jail. All her charges were dropped. Her “friend” showed up and confessed to an armed robbery that Brittany did not commit but was involved in.
 
Sometimes it’s difficult to keep an open mind. Sometimes we have beliefs and convictions that we know are right and refuse to let anything change that. One thing I have learned from working in social media is you never know who may have the next great idea, what project you may work on, or who may become a close friend. The same goes for “real life” as well but is often not as apparent.
 
I’ve talked about Brittany before, and her struggle. They were some of the hardest posts I’ve written because they were the most personal. Interestingly enough, they were also the posts I received the most feedback on and the ones that actually gave me hope and kept me persevering. Thank you for that.
 
Before her release I had been running into wall after wall advocating for her in an attempt to get her into a rehab. I am still doing so and still running in the same circles; passed around and around. I will not give up. 

Brittany has a criminal record of over 50 convictions, many are breaches of probation orders, but the majority is theft-related. Drugs are an expensive addiction. Jail does not help people with addiction issues – jail warehouses many who need help.

Brittany is a wonderful, funny, intelligent, insightful, witty, and beautiful nineteen-year-old woman. She loves to read, write, exercise, eat well, hang out with friends, go shopping, and have fun. We have a lot in common. 

She asked me once if I had met her as an addict in jail and heard of all the crimes she had committed would I still like her? I answered that I honestly didn’t know but probably would not. But I can honestly tell you right now that I love Brittany and am proud to know her and call her my friend. If I had not had an open mind and an interest in her story, I would not have the honor of learning with her and calling her my friend. 

We keep in touch by text now. She’ll contact me when she has a craving, a good day, bad day, or to see how I am. I call on her when I’m discouraged or need a boost. She listens, she laughs, and she gently speaks an insightful truth that makes me think. I have learned from her and leaned on her. I value her friendship and judgment.  

I hear a lot of talk in all circles I am involved in of this person doing this, or how could this person possibly be thinking of that action or, one closer to home for many of us, people criticizing those who do things on social media platforms, which we don’t agree with. I hear people criticizing the marketers, the celebrities, those who run the businesses, and I frankly wonder why.  What I have learned from Britt, and from social media, is that there is something to be gained and something we can learn from everyone. It often comes from the least expected places. We just need to keep an open mind, and heart.

from : Kathryn Jennex aka @northernchick

photo credit: Brittany

Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Kathryn Jennex, Open minds

Why Hire the Blog When You Can Hire the the Brain Behind It?

May 13, 2009 by Liz


A Photograph or a Photographer?

This week, I sat with a client who sings with an elite choir. The quality of what they do is outstanding. They’re known for loving attention to every detail. When they sing Russian opera, they study the deep meaning of the words, not merely clear pronunciation. It comes through in every blissful sound they blend, share, and offer. Their musical director is exceptional. Their production staff is to die for. Their board is prestigious and powerful.

The music they make is heavenly.

But aside from an occasional sale to a friend in Japan and the many CDs sold go to friends and supporters. The choir is hardly known outside of their personal and professional network.

That’s why my client was meeting with me.

“I was thinking we should use the Internet. I thought maybe a piece of your blog or some others,” he said.

I said, “What do you want for the choir? What’s your goal?

He told me without hesitation. “We should have a grammy — more than one.”

“You could do that. You’ll reach my audience and they’ll love you. But I’d like to suggest something more and more lasting. Why not build an audience of your own?”

Hire the Brain Behind the Blog

Often first conversations with clients start with how to get their information on many influential blogs. That leads to discussions of buying, renting, or borrowing bloggers’ influence, determining the right audiences, and how much information on the Internet is misstated, misdirected, or outright ignored.

Boring products need to be “pushed” or “seeded” into the market.
Compelling valuable resources don’t.

One look at Twitter, YouTube, Facebook, or FriendFeed shows that we like to share great things with our friends. Susan Boyle’s YouTube video is an example of great content that didn’t need to be pushed or seeded. It felt good to share it. It made us feel part of something bigger than ourselves.

Using those thoughts and basic strategy — start with the reachable and move out with purpose and logic — we scoped out the existing and realistic possibilities. The plan my choir friend and I started looked something like this one.

Great word of mouth depends on three things:

  1. The product has to be outstanding — and the vision has to be clear.
  2. The way to share it has to easy, growing from the community’s natural connections.
  3. People need to feel proud that they were part of the process.

It sure seemed that my choir client had step 1 — an outstanding product and vision — covered. We moved on to the strategy for building out the community and letting them enjoy the process. We set out to make it easy, meaningful, and about the folks who would help. We were building a movement more than a strategy.

  • Start at Home.. Identify the offline network the choir already reaches. Determine best ways to leverage and expand it — keep the offline connections strong and growing. Keep the offline community engaged and participating in fun, meaningful ways.
  • Learn from, Listen to and Engage the Energy. Find and have dinner with the champions of the choir in the offline community who are already engaged in online social endeavors related to music, the choir, and possible connections for the choir.
  • Let the Leaders Lead. Join and enlist their armies and networks. Let those champions lead their own initiatives in the name of the choir.
  • Momentum Drives Building. Using what we know of our network and their skills, now is finally the time to put up build and release that YouTube video of the choir. They’ll already be part of the endeavor and their armies will know about it when it goes up. Sharing will be fun.
  • Celebrating and Sharing Are Natural. Our friends on Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn and the music sites we’re already on will be delighted to hear about it too.
  • Reporting Results. At the end, what we about on our blogs will have the power of our community as well as the single event.

And we’ll be well on our way to a network, a community that loves the choir, not one that was borrowed from a network of blogs.

You can hire the blog or you can hire the brain behind it.

It’s a matter of short-term or longer-term thinking.

Do you look at your blogger relationships as a chance to tap into new strategic ideas?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blogger-relationships, LinkedIn, social-media, Strategy/Analysis

The Mic Is On: Seriously, What Do You Need?

May 12, 2009 by Liz


It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

Everyone Needs Help

How do we survive in a world of extraordinary, wonderful ones all around us? Who’s not intimidiated by our friends and the folks we all admire? Don’t we all get distracted by the shiny and the brilliant around us? Let’s find out our brilliance together. Do you need …

  • direction?
  • strategy?
  • more hands?
  • ideas?
  • to figure out what you need?
  • How can we help you get there?

And, whatever else comes up, including THE EVER POPULAR, Basil the code-writing donkey . . . and flamenco dancing (because we always get off topic, anyway.)

Oh, and bring example links.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
image: sxc.hu
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Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog_promotion, discussion, letting_off_steam, living-social-media, Open_Comment_Night

How Can You Get Your Online Social Skills Working Offline Too?

May 12, 2009 by Liz


One Room, One Community of the Most Incredible Ones

Every year when I plan the content for SOBCon, I realize it’s an amazing proposition for every person — speaker, attendee, sponsor who walks into that room. It’s one room, one most welcoming community but intimidating too because it’s made of up of the most incredible ones.

It’s like walking into a living Internet. Shiny minds everywhere …

How can anyone be visible in a room like that? Yet we were. I’ve thinking about what made the conversation work for even the newest members of that highly charged group. What I was that the skills we learn on the interwebs can serve us in the most power-charged rooms of real people.

We just have to translate back to real people what we already know. Here’s a few I saw in action that helped folks connect last week.

  • Focus is attractive. We like people who know what they’re about. Rick Wion’s unabashed passion for his client, Klondike bars, drew a conversation around him. Gail Goodwin’s vision for the Global Hug Tour got a whole room ready to wrap their arms around the world. Go buy a hug now.
  • Change the plan when it’s not working. Greg Ross, from Colgate said best when he said, “The suspense we’ve built is far more the video will deliver. Let’s move on.” How cool was that?!!
  • Disruption can be fun, when it’s respectful. Elevator pitches in a real elevator got us to forget our self-consciousness and laugh. Thanks @DaveMurr and @RamseyM
  • One question can start a conversation. Amy LeForge said so much in her story of changing what she feared. What she heard was that so many others felt as she had when she stood back last year.
  • Community is about learning, not teaching. Walmart, Colgate, Allstate, WeSeed, Metzger, BuzzCorps, AirCell, TheImageStudios, One2OneNetwork, BlogCatalog — all sponsors — came to learn from the community and left with a roomful of friends and a passel of ideas.

That handful of skills made ones — individuals — stand out in an outstanding room of people.

How can you get your online social skills working offline too?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Community, Offline Social Networking, SOBCon09

Open Mic Tonight 7pm Chgo Time: No BS — Seriously, What Do You Need?

May 12, 2009 by Liz

Join Us Tonight

JOIN US TONIGHT AT 7PM

Everyone Needs Help

How do we survive in a world of extraordinary, wonderful ones all around us? Who’s not intimidiated by our friends and the folks we all admire? Don’t we all get distracted by the shiny and the brilliant around us? Let’s find out our brilliance together.

Oh, and bring example links.

The rules are simple — be nice.

Do be nice. 🙂

–ME “Liz” Strauss

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Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog-promotion, dialogue, living-social-media, Open-Comment-Night

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