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7 Things About Me Then for Marc Meyer Now

December 12, 2008 by Liz

I’ve tagged by my friend Marc Meyer. He’s made it clear that the time has come for me to reveal my deepest, darkest 7 secrets that he might or might not want to know. I’ve this once or twice and so the challenge goes deep to bring up something that I’ve not revealed before.

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For this round, I’m going to travel back in time to the early years … we’ll look at how them fits in with now.

1. The early years: I was born about 85 miles from Chicago in a town of 20,000 people. We lived on a wide street in a quiet part of town, but our house was backed by the Illinois River. So I never had a rule that said, “You can’t cross the street,” or I’d never been able to go anywhere. I grew up to get a job that let me fly around the world every year. Some kids who had that “don’t cross the street rule are still living there.”

2. Age 5: My Kindergarten year book says that all the kids in my class were Pat Boone fans by I was a fan of Elvis Presley. My teacher writes of how surprised she was the day this painfully shy child got up and sang “The Good Ship Lollipop,” the way that Elvis might have done.

3. Age 6: “Be home from school by 4:30 was another rule.” School got out at 3:00, and I walked about 2.3 miles. I should say I could have walked it in that. I tried my best to take a different route whenever I might. Maybe that’s why my problem solving never seems to happen in the usual way. I don’t think or walk in a straight line.

4. Age 7: I used to draw huge murals on the long graphite bar at my dad’s saloon. Everyone who came in talked to me, and though I was shy, it was my job to talk to them. Drawing made it easy to have something to talk about. To this day, I’d rather talk about what I’m working on that talk about how I am.

5. Age 8: I spent my summers in a town of 1300 people staying with my Aunt. The town was so small was like a living city made just for kids — we could wander wherever we might want. I had a whole set of friends there. One was my “summer boyfriend.” We knew that was the case because we had a “boy’s fight” in the street. We fought because he wouldn’t be nice.

6. Age 9: My best friend Craig and I put on carnivals and plays all summer in my yard. We had penny games and gave out prizes that were things my older brothers donated to the cause. The neighborhood was filled with kids so we had an audience.

7. Age 10: The first grade teacher enlisted me to work with the first-graders who were having trouble learning to read. That became my job at the school until I left when I was 13. I actually worked at another school doing similar things when I was in high school too.

In later years, I taught at a dancing school and was an art director at camp for kids who have emotional, behavior, and severe learning disabilities.

There you go. I guess a lot of me then is still showing up now.

I pass this challenge along to my dear friends
Amy,
Richard,
Lucreita
Kathryn
Chel
Robert
Karen

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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SOB Business Cafe 12-12-08

December 12, 2008 by Liz

SB Cafe

Welcome to the SOB Cafe

We offer the best in thinking–articles on the business of blogging written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the titles to enjoy each selection.

The Specials this Week are

davidbullock has been thinking about where our content turns up without us.
Let’s face it. You can’t control the creation and distribution of user generated content. The tools are available and the web is too big to police it all. So what is a business owner to do?

Embrace it. Yes, embrace it. And work to really understand the mechanics of the web and social media.

User Generated Content For Business Development


Small Biz Survival has been thinking about how keep our businesses going and growing.
Ready for some help with your business? You can research online all day, read every book, even talk with friends and family, but sometimes you just need another experienced business person to sit down with you, face to face, and work on improving your business. No matter where you are, odds are that you are in the territory of some free business consulting sources.

How to find people to help you with your business


Amrit Hallan has been thinking about manners and manners of doing business.
Being polite is good in general. One should always be polite. Politeness can be an invaluable asset to you if you work as a freelancer. But where do you draw the line? There is a big difference between being polite and being obsequious.

Where do you draw the line regarding being polite to your clients?


Catskill Cottage Seed has been thinking about who we are.
What does it all add up to? All this social media activity with our interactions and our presence across multiple platforms (or stages as I like to think of them), to what end

The Persona and Personal Branding in Social Media


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Shtikl

Just Visit Shtikl


Thank you to everyone who bought my eBook to learn the art of online conversation!

Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like. No tips required. Comments appreciated.

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Great Finds, LinkedIn, small business

What’s Your Answer? Do Consumers Always Know Their Own Needs Better?

December 11, 2008 by Liz

We say,
“Listen first.”
Do we listen to and about ourselves?

We say,
“Be part of the conversation customers are already having about your business and your products.”
Are we part of the conversation clients and corporations are having about us?

Recalling the powerhouse social media panel at AdTech in Shanghai, of which he was part, Lee Hodge reported …

All panelists were in agreement that to shunt conversation … is to assume that consumers are less informed about their own needs than the corporation that is pitching them.

When I consider conversations about “social media mishaps” of recent months I wonder. When I think about human nature and irrational choices I wonder even more …

Is the panel’s point valid?

Do consumers — even clients hiring social media firms — always know their own needs better?

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, digital divide, social-media

Social Networking: If Someone Smiles on the Other Side of The World

December 10, 2008 by Guest Author

Guest Post by Vincent Wright

If you’re happy and you know it, thank your friends—and their friends. And while you’re at it, their friends’ friends. But if you’re sad, hold the blame. Researchers from Harvard Medical School and the University of California, San Diego have found that “happiness” is not the result solely of a cloistered journey filled with individually tailored self-help techniques. Happiness is also a collective phenomenon that spreads through social networks like an emotional contagion.

In a study that looked at the happiness of nearly 5000 individuals over a period of twenty years, researchers found that when an individual becomes happy, the network effect can be measured up to three degrees. One person’s happiness triggers a chain reaction that benefits not only their friends, but their friends’ friends, and their friends’ friends’ friends. The effect lasts for up to one year.

The flip side, interestingly, is not the case: Sadness does not spread through social networks as robustly as happiness. Happiness appears to love company more so than misery.

“We’ve found that your emotional state may depend on the emotional experiences of people you don’t even know, who are two to three degrees removed from you,” says Harvard Medical School professor Nicholas Christakis, who, along with James Fowler from the University of California, San Diego co-authored this study. “And the effect isn’t just fleeting.”

For over two years now, Christakis and Fowler have been mining data from the Framingham Heart Study (an ongoing cardiovascular study begun in 1948), reconstructing the social fabric in which individuals are enmeshed and analyzing the relationship between social networks and health. The researchers uncovered a treasure trove of data from archived, handwritten administrative tracking sheets dating back to 1971. All family changes for each study participant, such as birth, marriage, death, and divorce, were recorded. In addition, participants had also listed contact information for their closest friends, coworkers, and neighbors. Coincidentally, many of these friends were also study participants. Focusing on 4,739 individuals, Christakis and Fowler observed over 50,000 social and family ties and analyzed the spread of happiness throughout this group.

Using the Center for Epidemiological Studies Depression Index (a standard metric) that study participants completed, the researchers found that when an individual becomes happy, a friend living within a mile experiences a 25 percent increased chance of becoming happy. A co-resident spouse experiences an 8 percent increased chance, siblings living within one mile have a 14 percent increased chance, and for next door neighbors, 34 percent.

But the real surprise came with indirect relationships. Again, while an individual becoming happy increases his friend’s chances, a friend of that friend experiences a nearly 10 percent chance of increased happiness, and a friend of *that* friend has a 5.6 percent increased chance—a three-degree cascade.

For the rest of the story, visit Science Daily.

Thanks, and Keep STRONG!!
Vincent Wright
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Vincent, you’re a happiness agent if I’ve ever seen one. Thank you for reminding us how this works.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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Filed Under: Marketing /Sales / Social Media, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Community, LinkedIn, social-networking, Vincent Wright

What Mack Collier Said … About Social Media Mistakes

December 10, 2008 by Liz

A community isn’t built or befriended,
it’s connected by offering and accepting.
Community is affinity, identity, and kinship
that make room for ideas, thoughts, and solutions.
Wherever a community gathers, we aspire and inspire each other intentionally . . . And our words shine with authenticity.

Nobody’s Perfickt

Learning a new culture is something that comes in bits, by listening, trying, making mistakes and adjusting until we get it right. It’s like learning to sail, play a guitar, or ride a bike. Not many, maybe not any, can do it from the start. No one can do it perfectly all of the time.

Here’s what Mack said . . .

“The expectation that a company will adapt immediately and seamlessly without error to new culture is unrealistic. You and I didn’t. Did we? What a business moving into social media needs is a way for people get to know them.”

And I think that companies need to also know that getting started using the tools is more important than using them perfectly. Companies need to understand that they WILL make mistakes when they first start using social media, and that that’s ok. And we as bloggers haven’t done a very good job of getting this message across. We too often tend to have a ’shoot first, apologize later’ approach to a company that makes a first-move blunder in this space. I still remember the outcry about how Dell’s first blogging attempts in 2006 ’sucked’, and the criticism was mostly coming from the same bloggers that previously had said that Dell ’sucked’ cause they weren’t blogging. Then as soon as they started, they got attacked anyway.

Companies need to know that it’s ok to be less than perfect when it comes to using social media to connect with their customers online. And we need to make sure they get this message, and re-inforce it with our actions when they do join us.

Mack Collier from a comment on December 9, 2008

A successful and outstanding blogger said that.
–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: Successful Blog Tagged With: bc

The Mic Is On: We’re Talking About Gifts

December 9, 2008 by Liz


It’s Like Open Mic Only Different

The Mic Is On

Here’s how it works.

It’s like any rambling conversation. Don’t try to read it all. Jump in whenever you get here. Just go to the end and start talking. EVERYONE is WELCOME.
The rules are simple — be nice.

There are always first timers and new things to talk about. It’s sort of half “Cheers” part “Friends” and part video game. You don’t know how much fun it is until you try it.

Gifts of All Shapes, Kinds, and Sizes — Even Mistakes

‘Tis the season to be giving — and buying and selling — but mostly giving. Have you found some ways to give that are unusual? Have you found some unusual gifts that are coming your way? Let’s tell some holiday stories of gifts past, present, and future …

  • gifts that get passed around from person to person
  • gifts that are secretly regifted
  • gifts that someone chose all wrong and we kept anyway
  • gifts that were perfectly selected and unforgettable
  • gifts that came in the form of gifts but were really something else
  • And the gifts that kept on giving — was that a good thing?

And, whatever else comes up, including THE EVER POPULAR, Basil the code-writing donkey . . . and flamenco dancing (because we always get off topic, anyway.)

Oh, and bring example links.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
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