by Guest Writers Suzie Cheel and Des Walsh
Limbering up. Surfer doing his stretches before hitting the waves.
How will you stretch yourself today?
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by Guest Author
Limbering up. Surfer doing his stretches before hitting the waves.
How will you stretch yourself today?
by Liz
Let me introduce the bloggers
who have earned this official badge of achievement,
I invite them to take a badge home to display on their blogs.
They take the conversation to their readers,
contribute great ideas, challenge us, make us better, and make our businesses stronger.
I thank all of our SOBs for thinking what we say is worth passing on.
Good conversation shared can only improve the blogging community.
Should anyone question this SOB button’s validity, send him or her to me. Thie award carries a “Liz said so” guarantee, is endorsed by Kings of the Hemispheres, Martin and Michael, and is backed by my brothers, Angelo and Pasquale.
If you’re an SO-Wanna-B, you can see the whole list of SOBs and learn how to be one by visiting the SOB Hall of Fame– A-Z Directory . Click the link or visit the What IS an SOB?! page in the sidebar.
–ME “Liz” Strauss
by Guest Author
While writing this headline, I was a bit worried. Getting things âdoneâ on Twitter can easily be misunderstood. After all Twitter is a place to build connections and meet with great new people. Optimizing things on Twitter has to be done with particular care I think.
Let me therefore introduce you to Buffer – a new Twitter App I have been using a lot recently which does two very important things for me:
The core functionality of Buffer (http://bufferapp.com) is super simple. All you do is you throw a few tweets in your Buffer and the App then schedules these Tweets for you throughout the day. Thatâs it.
The great thing about Buffer is that you can add lots of tweets in at one point without fiddling with individual scheduling. Also you wonât ever overwhelm your followers with too many tweets in a row.
The way I use it is like this. As Buffer comes with a browser extension (Chrome, Safari, Firefox), you can add tweets to your Buffer from any page you are on.
On top of this you can even add tweets from inside Google Reader, which is a big winner for me. Whenever I like an article I hit the Buffer icon and add it to my Buffer. Here is how this looks with one of Lizâs posts:
Add tweets from anywhere on the web.
Now, there is even one more functionality I want to mention here, which allows you to make your tweets really stand out from the rest.
Whenever you read an article and find a good line, just highlight the text and then hit the Buffer icon, here is what happens:
By default Buffer will send out your tweets well spaced out over the day, so you will never have too many tweets sent in a row, flooding your followers with tweets.
Of course you can always go back to your home account, click âsettingsâ and adjust the timing to your needs. You can add more daily tweeting time slots or decrease them. Oh and as of recently there is also a âTweet Nowâ function.
What also comes in very handy is the option to add Tweets to your Buffer from your mobile. Whilst browsing an article you can simply hit the âmail link to pageâ or similar button.
Then you add in add@to.bufferapp.com and voila you have one more tweet scheduled where the link is automatically shortened and the title is in the page:
Caption: Add to Buffer from your Mobile
Even though Buffer is such a simple tool, it helps me a great deal to stay on top of Twitter. I can add tweets from anywhere with just one click and will make sure to add all the great articles I am coming across each and every day.
I have also started to use the mobile function whilst waiting in a queue or whilst sitting on the Bus and it is a great time filler, which actually gives me some results
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I hope you give Buffer a go. Would love to hear your views about it below.
Leo Widrich writes Tips for Twitter on his blog. You can visit his website, Bufferapp, or find him on Twitter as @leowid.
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Thanks, Leo, for checking out bufferapp.com for us!
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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by patty
Itâs really frustrating when someone steals your ideas or work.
1. You say something in a meeting, no one reacts, but then later someone else repeats the exact same thing and suddenly gets all the credit.
2. You achieve a breakthrough or invent something, share it with others, then find that someone else is presenting the idea as their own.
3. You deliver a bunch of great work to your boss, the he puts his name on it and doesnât mention you when presenting it to others.
Itâs at a minimum super-annoying, if not downright unethical.
So what do you do about it?
I am an advocate of staying on the high ground. I have done this in my career when someone else absorbs my work with no credit to me.
When someone re-packages your idea and gets all the glory, it is my experience that they are now out of moves. People who have to steal good ideas donât typically have the capacity to do anything about them â they max out at recognizing and repeating a good idea.
It can be fun to ask them, OK, so what will you do next to make this happen? While they are giving a shallow, hand-waving, âweâll need more input, or put it to committeeâ kind of answer, just take control of the next step.
You be the one to develop the idea to the next level and take decisive action on it. Create a communication plan around the action and the outcomes.
You will get known for the important part â doing something. And the moment in the meeting when he stole your idea will fade into the background. Also take some comfort in the fact that others recognize this idea-parroting behavior too.
I remember the first time my boss absorbed a big project of mine. He put his name on it and the CEO thanked him for the amazing job. I was invisible. I was crushed. This was early in my career.
Later I recognized that you are supposed to make your boss look good.
But you need to make sure that between you and your boss, itâs clear the work was yours.
Write up a case study of what you did to be included in your next review. Document how things were when you started, what you did, and what the outcomes were. Document the benefit your boss received.
If itâs all true you are not doing anything controversial. You are just letting your boss know you are happy for him to have the glory publicly, but expect him to acknowledge your work, and not walk all over you.
Sometimes this is inadvertent, and your boss is actually happy to give you the credit publicly. Ask your boss if you can join him and do part of the presentation. Ask your boss to keep you visible. Tell him that this visibility with his peers will help you deliver the next set of outcomes that he needs (that will also make him look good).
Whether itâs your boss or your peer that stole your work, donât do the confrontation in public. If itâs a peer have a private meeting where you say something like:
I am pleased that you were able to run with my idea. I have documented my work for my boss and his peers in other organizations, so that they may also benefit from this idea.
Let them know that you have let other people know behind the scenes where the work really comes from. They will be less likely to continue to advertise their ownership of it, when they realize that lots of people other than you know the real story.
One big reason I see that people get their ideas stolen is that they are not comfortable talking about them.
I know one person who was repeatedly given opportunities to share an invention, and because he did not enjoy public speaking, he didnât do it. Someone else stepped in to do the presentations and ultimately the idea became credited to the person doing the talking.
Communicate about your work
You need to stand up for your ideas, your work and your team. When you do something good, you need to make sure that you create positive visibility for that work with the people who care about it.
By staying invisible you are just inviting your ideas and your deserved recognition to be stolen by others.
How do you share your ideas? What do you do when some takes credit? Please leave your thoughts in the comment box below.
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Patty Azzarello is an executive, author, speaker and CEO-advior. She works with executives where leadership and business challenges meet. Patty has held leadership roles in General Management, Marketing, Software Product Development and Sales, and has been successful in running large and small businesses. She writes at Patty Azzarello’s Business Leadership Blog. You’ll find her on Twitter as @PattyAzzarello. Also, check out her new book Rise…
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by teresa
Iâm Teresa Morrow, Founder of Key Business Partners, LLC and I work with authors & writers to help them with their online book promotion and marketing. As part of my job I read a lot of books (I love to read anyway!).
The books in The Book List series will cover a range of topics such as social media, product development, marketing, blogging, business, organization, career building, finance, networking, writing, self development, and inspiration.
David Fraser gets it! The struggle out there is the projection of the struggle in here. We canât begin to heal the world until we heal in here.
Stuart Hepburn, NLP Trainer
In addition to being a good âread throughâ this book is great to dip into when searching for some insight into what may be holding you back â there is a wealth of great content to help increase personal effectiveness.
Ian Laird, Managing Director NiTech Solutions Ltd.
About the Book*:
The ability to relate to other people is the most critical skill a person can ever have â at work, at home or anywhere else â and strong people skills simply make everything else easier. With the right approach, developing relationship expertise is an easy route to success and one of the few reliable and enduring ways we can improve our lives. But we need to take the task seriously.
Drawing on practical psychology, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and other wisdom from various philosophies, as well as first-hand experience of organizational life, David Fraser, Ph.D. offers a systematic, practical and intelligent approach to achieving success with other people. Packed with real-life examples and tried-and-tested steps to take, this book is for business professionals who want to develop their interpersonal relationship skills as a key strength.
In his âvery positive, helpful and enlighteningâ and ultimately âupliftingâ book, the author sets out the 12 essential areas of interpersonal insight and growth: (1) Attention to others; (2) Attitude; (3) Self-control; (4) Tuning in to people; (5) Personality; (6) Connection; (7) Values â working with what matters; (8) Language; (9) Self-awareness; (10) Attention to yourself â clarifying what you really want; (11) Balance; and (12) Love â the power of care.
The author includes with honesty a flavor of his own learning journey, and in the words of his readers, the result is âaccessible and relevant,â âsimply fascinating stuff,â and âvery easy and interesting to read.â
Here are a few summary points I would like to share with you from each step in the book:
~ Persuasion, assertiveness, and logic arenât in themselves the answer.
~ We can have a systematic approach to relationship skills using NLP as the basis.
~ The meaning of any communication is indicated by the response it gets.
~ Listen mindfully for maximum attentiveness.
~ Our habitual choice of visual, auditory, kinesthetic, and auditory-digital thinking affects our lives and our relationships much more than we probably realize.
~ We unconsciously filter the information we receive and have different preferences about what we filter for.
~ Remember: about seven percent of the meaning of what we say is conveyed in the words themselves. The rest of the message is in our voice and other non-verbal communication.
~ We delete, distort, and generalize information going from our own internal thoughts to what we actually say.
~ We project onto other people things about ourselves, good and bad, as they do on us
About David*:
Dr David Fraser has a track record of pioneering new approaches to old problems. He has delivered major projects for government and private sector clients in complex and challenging situations and set up a number of entrepreneurial ventures. He is a company director and Chartered Engineer with a First Class Honours degree and a PhD from Glasgow University and an MBA from Strathclyde University.
He is a qualified commercial mediator and a Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Master Practitioner and has trained with leading proponents of these disciplines. David has taken a particular interest in the skills we use to relate to other people, continuing this study over a number of years and through the highs and lows of professional and personal life.
David applies his unusual blend of expertise as a project manager and facilitator to support disparate groups working together in complex circumstances, including major collaborative projects and matters of national importance. He has also found the approach set out in Relationships Made Easy for the Business Professional to be extremely helpful in his home and family environment. David runs workshop and coaching programs for both organizations and individuals.
With his breadth of knowledge, an engineerâs talent for organizing systematic and reliable solutions, and an ability to write in an interesting, direct, and readable way, David is well positioned to address the age-old problem of how to build effective relationships with other people.
David lives with his wife and three children in Glasgow, Scotland.
You can order a copy of ‘Relationships Made Easy for the Business Professional’ online at Amazon. *this information came from Amazon.
Next, I would like to introduce you to a book on the business book list on Amazon: ‘The Corner Office: Indispensable and Unexpected Lessons from CEOs on How to Lead and Succeed’ by Adam Bryant.
This book came out recently on the new releases (business) list on Amazon.
“The Corner Office is a modern management masterpiece. Adam Bryant distills and weaves together hundreds of gems from some of the most successful and intriguing executives on the planet. The result is one of the most delightful, readable, and useful business books I have read in years.”–Robert Sutton, Professor of Management Science and Engineering, Stanford University, and bestselling author of Good Boss, Bad Boss
“Compelling advice for the aspiring executive.⦠The conversational format makes these valuable lessons easy to comprehend and digest, and readers are left with a new understanding of leadership–why it’s important, how these experts have worked to attain it, and how they can do the same.”âPublishers Weekly
About the Book
Bryant, deputy national editor of the New York Times and writer of the “Corner Office” feature in the paper’s Sunday Business section, offers compelling advice for the aspiring executive. With interviews with more than 75 CEOs and other top executives at companies of all sizes, he compiles insights on such questions as what does it take to lead an organization? what are the keys to achieving the highest levels of success? Business luminaries like the CEO of Disney, the COO of Qwest Communications, the CEO of Continental Airlines, a vice chairman at Wal-Mart, and the founder of Zappos speak thoughtfully about team creation, keeping the mission on target, management, employee relationships, the importance of feedback, and the creation of an efficient corporate culture. The conversational format makes these valuable lessons easy to comprehend and digest, and readers are left with a new understanding of leadershipâwhy it’s important, how these experts have worked to attain it, and how they can do the same. (Apr.)
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About Adam*:
Adam Bryant, the deputy national editor of The New York Times, has been a journalist for more than two decades. He was a business reporter for The New York Times during the 1990s, covering a variety of industries and topics, including airlines, aviation safety, executive compensation and corporate governance. He joined Newsweek in 1999 as a senior writer, and was promoted to business editor. After six years at Newsweek, he returned to the Times as an editor in the business section, where he oversaw coverage of the collapse of the Detroit auto industry, among other stories.
Adam was the lead editor for two prize-winning series: “Driven to Distraction,” about the dangers of cellphone use behind the wheel, which won the Pulitzer Prize for National Reporting in 2010, and “Toxic Waters,” about water pollution, which won a number of awards.
In March 2009, Adam started the weekly “Corner Office” feature in the Times’ Sunday Business section, and it quickly attracted a large and loyal audience for its insights about leadership and management from prominent leaders. For his book, The Corner Office, Adam studied the transcripts from more than 70 interviews, and looked for patterns, broader themes and lessons. He wove together their candid and wise insights into a book that offers timeless advice on how to succeed, manage and lead.
Adam lives in Westchester County, New York, with his wife and two daughters.
*courtesy of book website and/or Amazon
You can purchase a copy of ‘The Corner Office’ at Amazon.
by Guest Author
By Jael Strong
When I was growing up, it was a family tradition to gather around the television set on Tuesday nights to watch Matlock. We’re suckers for a good who-done-it, but we’re also suckers for a quirky character. And there were certain things about Matlock that were certainly a bit odd. Today’s subject: Matlock’s suits, a quirky element to the brilliance that is Matlock.
If anyone out there is a Matlock fan (and I know that planet is crawling with us!), you know what I am referring. Matlock had plenty of suits, a rather large closet full if I remember correctly. But here is the clincher: They were all identical. This light grey suit, unremarkable in so many ways, was a hallmark of the show. When I think Matlock, I think “grey suit.”
Most of us do not wear the same clothing every day. We have varying outfits and styles. On the other hand, though we may not stray too far from the mainstream, we do tend to take on a style that is uniquely our own. People are able to say, “Sue would love that dress” or “Steve would never wear that tie.” The fact that people are able to say these things means that we have, even unintentionally, projected a style.
The same is true when it comes to our blogs. We may be known as a straight shooter. We could have the reputation of striking up controversy. We may be flamboyant, creative, or humorous. These are generalities that become more fine-tuned as we add certain lingo to our blogs, images, and concepts. Over time, our blog develops a style that is readily recognizable as our own.
Is this a good thing? Absolutely. Developing a style that is uniquely your own as a writer is a must. There are dangers of course. For example, not everyone can pull off the proverbial grey suit. If your style never varies, this could go one of two ways. One, people get tired of seeing that grey suit and eventually they tune you out. Two, they only want to see you in that grey suit; they love the way you wear it. If you insist on keeping your style narrow (à la “the grey suit”), your preference would be for the second option.
Stretching your style is a great idea. Matlock did occasionally don a plaid shirt when he sat on the front stoop and serenaded us with his guitar. There is a lesson here for us (yes, we can learn so much from this show). Don’t avoid other styles of writing. In fact, make it an exercise to include variations to your style in your blog. Add humor. Don’t shy away from controversy all together. Be straight forward, but don’t fear complex topics. Identify your style, then grab it at both ends and stretch.
As you dabble in varying styles, you may discover that your style needed a change. You may find that you like some styles of writing better than others and that people seem to be responding more to your varied approaches. Or you may discover that the grey suit is perfect for you, just don’t be afraid to toss in some sequins from time to time!
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Jael Strong writes for TheWriteBloggers, a professional blogging service which builds clients’ authority status and net visibility. She has written both fiction and non-fiction pieces for print and online publications. She regularly blogs at Freelance Writing Mamas.
Thanks, Jael
–ME “Liz” Strauss
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