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Hart Singer and Anita Bruzzese Are B.A.D. Bloggers!

June 30, 2007 by Liz

Hello, Hello! I’d Like You to Meet . . .

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It’s a fine way to spend a Saturday visiting some B. A. D. Bloggers I know. Without hesitation, these are folks who are worth getting to know. I can say that because I did.

Have you met HART Singer yet?

HART’s mind works in mysterious ways. HART’s been around Successful-Blog longer than I have. He’s the man who said the now famous quote, Half the show is in the comments . . . to Paul Scrivens when Successful Blog had no comment feed. That was over 39,000 comments ago in November of 2005.

HART’s an entertaining storyteller and he’s got some entertaining stories to tell. Believe that. Few are about his work serving businesses as a finance man. HART doesn’t show off. His stories are about times when real-life things happened — the wheel flew off the car and went through the window of the biker bar. . . . or this one about why he was fired.

HARTs also Canadian citizen, who let me in on the secret that all Canadians know everyone, everywhere in the world, and that he is related personally to almost half of them.

When you see HART let him know that you’ve seen the bar stool with his name at Successful-Blog.

Everyone: HART!

Oh and, do you know Anita Bruzzese?

Anita is from Missouri, and she has 45 Things to show you about the things that you do that drive your boss crazy.

You might wonder how a writer living in the “Show Me” state would know anything about what your boss thinks or what you do. I sort of wondered too — until I found out that she’s spent the last decade writing about the workplace for Gannett News Service and USAToday.com, winning awards and such. They say her readership is over 8 million daily. ahem.

Anita is plain fun to talk to. We covered the topics in her book, a few places we’d been, and some things we’d seen, The best part hands down is that she’s a delightful and charming conversationalist, who on that day was as sincerely interested in another person’s new book as much as she was in her own. No kidding.

By the way, if you meet her, her last name is pronounced “Brew-ZEES.”

HART and Anita, you are B.A.D. Bloggers!

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Want to be a B.A.D. Blogger see the. . . a B.A.D. Blogger? page in the sidebar.

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: Anita-Bruzzese, B.A.D. Blogger, bc, blogger-a-day, Hartley-Singer

B.A.D. Bloggers Are Incredible . . . Celebrate!!!

June 30, 2007 by Liz

Celebrating the People Behind the Blogs

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A close friend in Chicago says my life sped up markedly the day I announced the B.A.D. Blogger program in November of 2006. Every day since then, I’ve had a conversation, person-to-person, with a blogger — at least one — four already today.

I used to write daily recaps of our conversations. Then well, I couldn’t keep up with the writing task, especially when work for SOBCon07 started happening. Yet I couldn’t give up starting new blogging relationships. Plenty of folks have found that a danger of an email request to my inbox is that they end up hearing my voice on their telephone or VoiP.

The bloggers I meet are too cool to keep them to myself, and you’re too cool not to know them. This time I’m expanding B.A.D. Blogger to include incredible folks I got to know

  • by exchanging thoughts in the comment box for more than a year.
  • when we met in person at SOBCon07, at a meetup, or in their town or mine.
  • from the person-to-person conversations every day that are the heart of the B.A.D Blogger program.

After all what’s a blog without the person who writes it? Celebrating bloggers is what the B.A.D. Blogger program was always about.

What fun to celebrate B.A.D. Bloggers again! Bloggers are incredible, interesting, unique, clever, cool, and generous people.

Let me introduce you.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
Want to be a B.A.D. Blogger see the. . . a B.A.D. Blogger? page in the sidebar.

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: B.A.D. Blogger, B.A.D.-Bloggers-Are-Back, bc, blogger-a-day

SOB Business Cafe 06-29-07

June 29, 2007 by Liz

SB Cafe

Welcome to the SOB Cafe

We offer the best in thinking–articles on the business of blogging written by the Successful and Outstanding Bloggers of Successful Blog. Click on the titles to enjoy each selection.

The Specials this Week are

Seth’s Blog knows the way to get us to want to be friendly with the folks who work the fast food counter.

Rochambeau the front line


Smart Wealthy Rich understands what we should be doing.

Give Them A Good Reason To Click And Read (And Subscribe)


Monk at Work is pointing out things in our heads again.

Attachment, Love, and The Idea Fairy


Lorelle comes through at tthe Blog Herald with a new view to the new Google algorithm’s look at how we care for our content.

SEO Tips: Increase Page Rank By Revitalizing Your Old Posts


Dawud Miracle shows a glass overflowing with links for in true Starbucker tradition.

What Do You See When You Look Through The Glass?


Jibber Jabber has a series of secrets to tell.

Day 1: My Blogging Secrets


Related ala carte selections include

Who wouldn’t want to say something about this story and the blue balls?

Scoble Awaits iPhone, Plays with Ball of Whacks


Sit back. Enjoy your read. Nachos and drinks will be right over. Stay as long as you like. No tips required. Comments appreciated.

Have a great weekend!

–ME “Liz” Strauss

Filed Under: SOB Business, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, Great Finds, LinkedIn, small business

Head, Heart, and Sailboats

June 29, 2007 by Liz

I’ve been thinking about head, heart, and sailboats.

Head and heart. Some days I like one more than the other. Some days it’s smarter to think. Some days I find it’s better to follow where my feelings lead me.

On days I am my head, I make my life about the work. I can perfectly clear my desk. I can venture forth with the most elegant strategic plan. Be ready to think quickly, if you take me on. I’m not as one-dimensional as some folks might have you think. After all, not everyone gets complimented quite this way by a friend.

I’ll analyze a problem to reach a brilliant, logical solution . . . in seconds flat. When I do, no person will be within the range of my 20/40 vision. I’ll see the people, sure, but they’ll be human data in the thinking chain.

No wonder I get headaches.

On days I am my heart, I can make my life about the people and beauty of the world. I see the wonder of a smile that fills a voice when a person discovers a new thought. I see the sun rise in glorious colors that make a sky no artist could possibly paint. The options and ideas assault me joyously like water falling as I stand laughing at the the marvel of being alive and drenched.

I imagine away bad weather and fill a hall-full glass half-again over the top. I can hear a symphony in my head and when I want I can make it go away. I can stop time, stress, and bad things me too. Generosity is without thinking. Life is magical.

Of course, the without thinking part is a bit of problem now and then.

On the days I am both, I lean from head to heart and back. I let my life tell me when to list which way.

Sailboats that list in concert with the wind have grace and flexibility, even in a rough storm. Sailboats that lean too far take on water. That’s wrong there. The water is supposed to stay beneath the boat . . . in the sea.

Head and heart together is balance, part holding on and part letting go. Lean too far toward one and the connection won’t work. It’s like sailing — the wind has some control. When I lose my trying and self-consciousness to make room for life, a day becomes adjusting my sails with the wind.

This weekend I’m going to be a sailboat.

Head and heart has to be lived to be learned.

Liz

Filed Under: Motivation, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, head-and-heart, Ive-been-thinking

3. The Head Types

June 28, 2007 by Liz

Enneagram Series by Mark McGuinness

Having introduced the three Enneagram Heart types in my last post, I’ll now move on to the three thinking or ‘Head types’.

The minimum you need to know about the Enneagram symbol is that it is divided into three parts, representing the three ‘centres’ or types of intelligence in human beings – emotional, mental and physical. Another way of looking at the three centres is to see them as corresponding to different types of action – relating, thinking and doing.

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In this post I will outline the three ‘Head’ types – types Five, Six and Seven. These types’ strength lies in their mental intelligence – their ability to think clearly, to penetrate deeply into a subject or to create new options for action.

It’s important to remember that no types are better or worse than the others. Each type has strengths and weaknesses, opportunities and obstacles. And the Enneagram is not about putting people in boxes – we all have the potential to occupy any position on the Enneagram, and in different situations we can take on the characteristics of any of the nine types.

Type Five – The Observer

Type Five has a gift for focused concentration and deep thought, able to analyse a problem, topic or situation and reach carefully reasoned conclusions. Fives take their identity from their status as guardians of knowledge and founts of wisdom. Because of their patient ability to explore a subject in depth, they become authorities on whatever they set their mind to. Problems arise when thinking becomes a substitute for action, and when they get so used to ‘living in their heads’ that they lose touch with their own feelings and become insensitive to others.

The stereotype of the Five is the ivory tower intellectual, but they are not necessarily academics – they are the deep thinkers and reserved characters to be found in any walk of life, the ones most likely to take a step back from a situation and give it considered thought.

At their best Fives are wise teachers, generous with their learning and eager to help others. They are able to set aside their own prejudices and examine the data impartially, often reaching an original conclusions that it is hard to contest. They know the joy of learning for its own sake, regardless of trappings such as qualifications or high status positions. They are able to balance deep thought with a healthy awareness of their own feelings and deeply felt connections to those around them.

At their worst Fives are cold and distant, cutting themselves off from others and withdrawing into a world of abstract thought. The respected authority becomes a boring know-all, highly sensitive to any perceived slight on their status as the fount of all wisdom. The thirst for knowledge turns into an obsessive collection of data, without regard for its utility or relevance. Lost in a world of abstract thought, they lose touch with their real feelings and can compensate through compulsive or addictive behaviour. The dark side of The Observer is the paranoid Pedant.

We all experience point Five when we become so absorbed in learning about a topic that we experience a deep pleasure in marshalling all the facts and seeing meaningful patterns emerge – and maybe feel slightly superior to those who haven’t looked into it so deeply?

Type Six – The Guardian

Type Six is a hard-headed thinker who applies practical intelligence to securing the wellbeing of a group – such as a family, circle of friends, team, company or country. Sixes take their identity from their position as loyal members of the group. Because of their ability to spot danger and put the group interest first they are dependable team players. Problems arise when their identification with the group leads to an ‘us and them’ mentality and they become suspicious of ‘outsiders’.

The stereotype of the Six is the policeman or security guard, prepared to put their life on the line for the status quo, but they can be found as loyal members of any kind of team – such as those in business, sport, the military, politics or the family.

At their best Sixes are loyal, trustworthy guardians whose ‘sixth sense’ for danger is placed at the service of their community. They are able to keep a clear head even when alert for danger, and see potential threats in perspective, responding appropriately. They are happy to work tirelessly in the background, without the need for special recognition. They are wise enough balance their identification with their group with a healthy respect for others and their differences, and extend a warm welcome to strangers.

At their worst they are suspicious and volatile, quick to accuse and slow to trust or forgive. Their alertness spills over into paranoia. Both Fives and Sixes experience paranoia, with the difference that Fives are typically paranoid about themselves as individuals, Sixes on behalf of the group. Tormented by anxiety, they see everyone as a potential threat – ‘insiders’ are potential traitors, ‘outsiders’ are viewed with prejudice and can even be persecuted. The dark side of the Guardian is the paranoid Bigot.

We all experience point Six any time we feel part of a team and experience the sense of everyone pulling together to achieve a common goal – and maybe start to see ‘outsiders’ as ‘the opposition’?

Type Seven – The Optimist

Type Seven has a gift for looking on the bright side of life and thinking up exciting new options. Sevens see themselves as ‘the life and soul of the party’. Whether at work or play, they take it upon themselves to lighten the mood and help others to see the glass as half-full (and just waiting for a top-up). Because they are so good at infecting others with their enthusiasm they are charming company and usually surrounded by a group of friends. Problems arise when their optimism leads them to gloss over difficulties and makes them afraid of facing up to the darker side of life.

The stereotype of the Seven is the bon viveur and party animal, and there’s no denying most Sevens have a taste for the finer things in life – but their optimism can also be applied to serious technical, business or life problems, where they can be relied upon to bring a solution-focused mindset and plenty of practical creativity.

At their best Sevens are delightful people, the first names on the list when invitations are going out and the last to leave at the end of the evening. They are concerned with others’ pleasure as much as their own, and will go to considerable lengths to ensure that everyone has what they need for a good time – all the while insisting that ‘it’s my pleasure’. They are also wise enough to acknowledge problems when they arise, and to apply their intelligence and creativity to finding workable solutions.

At their worst Sevens cling to pleasure, sometimes to the point of addiction, as a way of avoiding difficulties and shirking their responsibility. Delight in the good things in life becomes a sense of entitlement, and they react angrily when others refuse to play the game and indulge their whims. Formerly charming, they can be bitterly critical and hurtful of their ‘so-called friends’. The dark side of the Optimist is the selfish Hedonist.

We all experience point Seven when we are filled with an irrepressible sense of the joys of life and its possibilities, and an eagerness to share these with others – and maybe when we know it’s time to face up to our responsibilities, but want to keep playing just a little longer?

Questions

  • Do you recognize yourself in any of these descriptions?
  • Can you think of an example of someone making an outstanding contribution by playing to the strengths of the Five, Six or Seven?

Part 4 in Enneagram — a Brief Introduction, The Body Types, will appear Monday, July 2, at about this same time.

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Mark studied the Enneagram as part of his training as a psychotherapist. He has used it for his own personal development and in his work with individuals, families, and organizations. Mark McGuinness’ business Wishful Thinking, is a specialist coaching and training service for creative businesses such as design studios, ad agencies, film and TV production companies, computer games developers, architect’s practices and fashion designers.

Thank you, Mark,
–ME “Liz” Strauss

Related:
See the complete series listing at Series: The Enneagram – a Brief Introduction

Filed Under: Personal Branding, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, enneagram, Mark-McGuinness, the-head-types, wishful-thinking

Strategy: How to Get Maximum Benefit from Complex Link Lists

June 28, 2007 by Liz

More Than What One Link Shows

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Yesterday I offered a list of blog promotion guides that are current and relevant. One could get lost, overwhelmed, or just plain bored going through all of the links contained inside the 20 of them.

Yet, it’s good practice and a great exercise to know the territory . . . to have an overview of the range of techniques and tactics folks suggest, support, and champion. Having an efficient way to cull through such a list can save time and help us see more than just what each link has to offer on its own.

Here’s how I’d use that list and any complex link list to get maximum benefit.

  1. Look over the list, before you read. What do you notice about the titles? What do you notice when you quickly click each link without reading a word? What do you predict you will find when you look further?
  2. Read through the list with an eye to the playing field. How many bloggers say the same thing? What ideas are entirely new? Note ideas that interests you.
  3. When you finish, reflect on your predictions and note the unexpected things you found.
  4. Decide which strategies work well with your blog and your readers’ needs.
  5. Make a plan for how you’ll introduce new ideas in a way that won’t disrupt what you already do.

We often do what our friends do to solve our problems. Those answers can serve us well, be all right, or not work at all. It’s so much stronger to arrive at a plan with the longer view — knowing the playing field. Even when that view is not scientific, it’s still informative. What we learn gets stored.

Negotiating a long link list of information is like driving a complicated route to a never-visited meeting spot. When we plan our route we’re more likely to reach our desired destination without wearing ourselves out.

Hope this helps.

–ME “Liz” Strauss
If you’d like Liz to help you find your strategy, click on the Work with Liz!! page in the sidebar.

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Filed Under: Links, Strategy/Analysis, Successful Blog Tagged With: bc, blog-post-lists, blog-promotion, Linking, Links, reading-strategies

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